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Hi. I’m in high school and my school kicked me out this year but they said if I don’t fond a place to go to I can come back. It’s almost the start of the school year and I’m really resenting going back I didn’t find a school and now I’m in a sticky situation because I feel like this year I’m not gonna do my best cause why should I do something for a school that doesn’t want me??! But I’m torn cause I know it’s not the mature way about it because I really want to do good but I know school doesn’t appreciate my best. And btw they didn’t kick me out cause I’m bad. I use to be bad but was always an 100+ student and very popular they kicked me out for my family background Plz help thnx
Hi!
Its understandable that you dont feel like you could do well this year if youre going to feel like a third wheel.
However, YOU aren’t defined by your family background. You have your own strengths and weaknesses.
That said, the school rejecting you has nothing against you personally. So go show them what youre capable of! Prove to them that you belong there on your own merit. Keep getting those top marks.
Work for yourself. Youre the only one who will gain or lose from the amount of effort that you put in. Why not do it for yourself?
It’s not enough to dress well. You also have to be good-looking.
nystatetrooper – Would you be interested in enrolling in an online high school if you’re not having much luck with your local options?
I wish you the best of luck. I hope your school situation improves!
Sorry, I had some trouble understanding what you said about clothing. Did you mean to say that all that counts is that you dress the part of a chassidish girl and thats all that matters?
That nobody cares what youre really all about if you dont dress that way?
Mahzeh
you guy are on drugs. Yeshiva boys arent meant to be doing an online school. thats retarded
Right. It’s retarded for a person to spend his or her time productively if it involves the Internet.
Its normal to be nervous before camp. Everybody hopes that theyll have a good bunk, good counselors, and that theyll make a good impression and be accepted by everybody. But It sounds like there’s something more going on thats making you additionally nervous.
I dont know you and I dont know your situation. But I would tell you the following: dont be haunted by past mistakes. Forget about what you think people think of you. This year is a chance for a new start. Go with your gut and do what you feel is right. Dont try to act like a different person in order to be accepted. Act genuine and youll see that itll all turn out ok.
Loads of luck and have a great time in camp!
Lol! I dont think I know you but you never know…
mystatetrooper: Be lucky they are accepting you back! I wish my school was that easy to agree!!!
nystatetrooper – wow:) what did you do from that day? did you go back? did you find a much better school?
-Sparkly with glitters and glue
I am so glad you have come so far. Keep up the good work!!
By the way, I was thinking you might be gumball.
Omg i remember gumball!!
Sparkly I continued in that school and i graduated a few months ago with hashems help. I am so grateful and emotional I keeps on rereading it. Baruch hashemmmm. At the rate I was going I would have been as sparkly says “otd” a long time ago…..tearsssss
Happpygirlygirl – that is amazing that you have come so far!!! Yasher koach ! Taali V’tatzlichi!!! I’m glad to hear you had the guts to go back. You sound like a very courageous person. It’s ridiculous that anyone thinks you are a quitter!
Lilmod ulelameid awwww thanks..every compliment really boosts me ya have no idea……the comments I have gotten though….lets not discuss.
Btw I find it so cute that we know mod 29 scedule.like when he goes shluffy and when he has a simcha and when he goes to shill and if hes making early shabbos…
Happygirlygirl – if i wouldnt have been homeschooled i would have been otd. i wouldve had the wrong types of friends and kept in touch with them b’h i dont talk to any of them anymore. i think we share a lot of the same issues lol. if the school wouldve kicked me out which they didnt but if they did i wouldve left and been like if you dont want me here im leaving have a nice day.
-Sparkly with glitters and glue
Sparkly – that would be most people’s reactions. That’s why it’s so amazing that Happygirlygirl was able to overcome the natural reaction and go back to the school. Truly Amazing! And she is definitely not a quitter!
In the beginning of the year I felt unwanted but overtime ot changed I showed my school why it’s important to have me I started being the teachers prized possession by beung the biggest participater in class always raising my hand to ask and answer and i volunteered to tutor girls and i was always writing stuff for the school newsletter and ended up being head I it and i made sure to be nice to everyone and when I graduated my principals were super happy for me the gurls and teachers loved me and i made alot of friends FOR life…it really is in the attitude if I would have come back as u said you would have sparkly I would have been angry during class and probably would have flunked everything and for sure been kicked out during the year so I’m happy for the choices I made….and btw combining this into my other thread that’s why I believe in therapy so much they don’t lead ur life for u they show u ur options and make u see which one will be most beneficial for u and you have the knowledge and power to make an informed decision and since that period in my life I still go to the same one
I was kicked out of my high school for a few months and ended up going back too. It isn’t easy.
I am impresed happygirlygirl. It seems like you have a great therapist love that….and a great personality to…
Menahls who kick out students for anything less than severve disciplanry infractions (Like Drugs, Fighting etc) for the most part need to be held accountable for their actions and the averiahs they caused others to do.
If you kick out someone for going to a movie and that teen goes to public school and marries a non-jew because of it, Its that Menahels fault
lilmod ulelamaid – i may have left high school and went to homeschooling but you cant be a quitor if you go to become a pharmacist! (and if you do become a pharmacist which h’h i will.)
Happygirlygirl – they didnt want to kick me out i even remember saying i will do everything to make them kick me out but they didnt. my mom wanted me to leave since she saw that i was SOOOO unhappy.
Shopping613 – you shouldnt of. you shouldve went to homeschooling and started life young.
Update: I just met the director that kicked me out of camp (the Same year that this thread took place so basically I was kicked put of camp and school within two months (record of the year) ) it was so weird …first she screams across the restaurant that I’m gorgeous then she redts me a shidduch of some bum…..and then she wants my number like…omggg can my life get any more dramatic
Sparkly, I wasn’t trying to imply that you are a quitter, chas v’shalom!!!
That comment wasn’t referring to you at all. I was referring to another thread in which Happygirlygirl wrote that there are people who call her a quitter. Based on what she wrote here, I think that is crazy!!!!!
Happygirlygirl – thats NOT nice. but also since i dont live in new york and will never h’h experience this kind of thing and h’h will be married LONG before i meet up with an old teacher that i hated ill never experience this.
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