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  • #615785
    ubiquitin
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    So this post is not directly related to any recent post, though a very exciting recent thread got me thinking.

    Halacha is to a certain extent relative. I dont know if relative is the best, so here me out and perhaps supply a better term.

    Much of Yahdus has machlokisism involved, we have ways or resolving the machlokes since obviously we need consensus, (for example yachid verabim or Halcha is like so and so by mamanus, or we pasken like B”H etc)The general understanding is neither is wrong (eilu veilu.)

    Modern day poskim are given even more leeway since if a posek follows generally accepted guidelines and pasken mutar then it is 100% muttar for his followers to adhere to his psak. If another posek comes to a different conclusion then it is assur for his followers. BOTh are 100% right. Since Halacha isnt an absolute yes/no but a process.

    I dont think this was controversial. Nor do I think anybody would argue with the above, unless I’m not being clear.

    I’m wondering if morality is different. OBviosuly Halcah and morality are intertwined. As was made clear on some recent posts. IF halacha allows for say killing someone (Beis din, rodef)then it isnt immoral in THAT situation.

    So how about with a machlokes. It seems funny that morallity is dependent on what a particular posek says. Since I think most people view morality as an absolute.

    #1086550
    Joseph
    Participant

    What is “morality”? Morality is halacha. If it is anything halacha says to do, it is moral. If it is anything halacha says not to do, it is immoral. There is no concept of “morality” within Judaism that differs from halacha in any way.

    If halacha says to kill someone, it is moral to kill him and it is immoral not to kill him.

    #1086551
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    Joseph

    So morailty is relative? Because in a case of a machlokes, for person A the same act is moral and for person b it is immoral.

    I’m not setting up a argument per se, it just seems funny.

    Incidently there is a moral sense outside of halacha. Rashi says in many places that “mishpatim” are rules that we would come up with on our own like no stealing, no killing etc…

    Though this doesnt disagree with your main point, which may not be incorrect

    #1086552
    streekgeek
    Participant

    Morality is halacha.

    Sigh….I’ve had the same question for ages. Discussed it here once (see here: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/using-physical-force#post-49188)

    Morality is not halacha. As Orthodox Jews we can only hope that our morals come from the Torah but given today’s society that is often not the case.

    #1086553
    Joseph
    Participant

    “So morailty is relative?”

    I didn’t address this question in my preceding comment.

    “Because in a case of a machlokes, for person A the same act is moral and for person b it is immoral.”

    That can very well be the case. It would be immoral to break a minhag inappropriately. If someone’s psak is to do A while another person’s psak is not to do A, it would be moral for the first person to do it but immoral for the second person to do it.

    “I’m not setting up a argument per se, it just seems funny.”

    May I submit that you might find it funny because your idea of morality is influenced by non-Jewish ideas on the subject?

    “Incidently there is a moral sense outside of halacha. Rashi says in many places that “mishpatim” are rules that we would come up with on our own like no stealing, no killing etc…

    Though this doesnt disagree with your main point, which may not be incorrect”

    Those examples are within halacha, not outside it (killing and stealing are halachic points – even if we could have figured them out on our own), so I’m not following your point on that.

    #1086554
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Is morality confined to bein adam l’chaveiro, or does it include being adam l’Makom?

    Is it moral for a non Jew to lend money with interest, but immoral for a Jew?

    IOW, define morality.

    #1086555
    Avram in MD
    Participant

    ubiquitin,

    Interesting OP. These are some of my thoughts in no particular order.

    1. Halacha seems to me to be a system of applied morality. Hashem created a universe with moral principles, some of which we understand, some we do not, and gave us the Torah as a means to apply those principles in our lives.

    2. I disagree that “much of Yahdus has machlokisism involved”; I think that for the vast majority of halacha there is broad agreement, and the disagreements come over a small subset of finer points.

    3. Even when given a machlokes, I see a big difference between machlokes and moral relativity. Ashenazim and Separdim wrap their tefillin differently, but both sides agree that tefillin should be worn, and that it consists of black boxes with pesukim inside, leather straps, etc. Nobody (frum at least) is coming along and saying, “we need new tefillin for the 21st Century!”

    #1086556
    gavra_at_work
    Participant

    I’m going to quote myself in regards to Joe:

    If you define Halacha as “morality”, that is perfectly understood. Just realize that you are not using the word in the way other people would understand it. It is like calling an object with four walls, a roof and a door a “cat” because that is what you think a “cat” should look like.

    streekgeek, thanks for the link, and I doubt anything new will come out of us looking at it again.

    #1086557
    Joseph
    Participant

    gavra, and I’ll quote myself in regards to that point:

    There is no concept of “morality” within Judaism that differs from halacha in any way.

    #1086558
    gavra_at_work
    Participant

    Joe – exactly. You define morality as Halacha. Therefore, you are discussing something different than everybody else here.

    #1086559
    Joseph
    Participant

    gavra, so far no one else here has specifically defined a morality that differs from halacha and what that has to do with the Torah, if anything. I’d like to read your comment where you’ll be the first to define it otherwise as such.

    Thus far the consensus agrees with how I defined it.

    #1086560
    gavra_at_work
    Participant

    Joe – go back to the prior threads where this has been discussed ad nauseam. The one Streetgeek referenced is one of many.

    #1086562
    sushibagel
    Member

    Man made morality is relative the torah is not.

    #1086563
    frumnotyeshivish
    Participant

    lol. me and joe agree? a first.

    I suppose that if morality is defined as “beliefs about correct behavior” (which is a paraphrase of me quoting websters in the above link), it can be subjective and thus relative.

    If however, the question is not “what are the beliefs?” but rather “what should one’s beliefs be?”, the answer that orthodox judaism proffers is “whatever god says” otherwise known contemporaneously as “torah applied” or as “halacha.”

    #1086564
    goofus
    Participant

    Not sure of morality, but I would define ethical as the lessening of suffering of conscious beings.

    Maybe that can get us on the right track.

    #1086565
    Avi K
    Participant

    Regarding machloket, it depends. if it is l’shem Shemayim it is very important as it clarifies positions. Rabbi Yochana fired Rabbi Eleizer ben Pedat as his chevruta becuase he was a yes-man (Baba Metzia 84a). The test is whether or not they are friends outside the context of the machloket.

    As for morality in general, ye, it is relative. Lying is generally an aveira. However, Hashem lied to Avraham about Sara’s laughing for the sake of shelom bayit.

    #1086567
    Sam2
    Participant

    Really, mods? If you didn’t let the link through, fine. But what’s wrong with the post?

    R’ Aharon Lichtenstein wrote a classic article on this issue titled, “Does Jewish Tradition Recognize an Ethic Independent of Halakha?”

    #1086569
    Brisker Rov
    Participant

    First off I have never heard anyone refer to ???? as a process. You be refering to Mesorah, but not a process. Furthermore, the difference between morality halachah is quite simple. Halachah doesnt change yet morality can. In a non GOD system morality can be a moving target. Take abortion, one decade it was considered immoral and the next decade it wasnt. Take the nazis yms”m. They were able to kill yidden on a daily basis, yet when they got home at night, they were able to kiss their kids good night and sleep peacefully. In a non GOD system: in a democracy, society dictates what is moral and what isn’t. In a dictatorship, the dictator decides what is moral. In a GOD system where there is halachah, it remains a constant. The reason we respect our parents is because the torah says so and not because society says that is the moral thing to do. ????.

    #1086570
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Morality doesn’t change. People’s ideas about it can.

    #1086571
    Brisker Rov
    Participant

    Reb Yid, morality when god doesn’t exist is just an idea, and those change. There are many topics you can go back over time and see how they have changed. Toeivah marriage for example. It was considered immoral for thousands of years, yet according to the progressive left liberal agenda one needs to be inclusive and otherwise is immoral.

    #1086572
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Histakel b’Oraisa uvara alma.

    HKB”H created morality, and gave people the ability to tune into it. Avraham Avinu did the ultimate in this regard; he kept kol haTorah kulah without a direct tzivui because he reached such a high level that his ratzon was in sync with Hashem’s.

    Asking what the world would look like without Hashem (or what morality would be) is an exercise in futility. It’s like asking what would the ocean be without water. It’s definitionally impossible.

    What is a little more reasonable to ask is how much morality can one have without knowing any Torah. I doubt we’re held responsible for not achieving what Avraham Avinu did, but I think a certain level of morality is expected, such as not killing, not stealing, and arayos. It comes from an inherent sense of right and wrong which Hashem granted to human beings, which on its most basic level manifests itself in what we refer to as “morality”.

    Talking about morality without Hashem, or talking about anything without Hashem, is futile, because nothing exists or can exist without Him, not even “in theory”.

    #1086573
    LoIbud
    Member

    No.

    #1086574
    Matan1
    Participant

    Yeshayahu Leibowitz has some (albeit quite controversial) interesting views on Torah and morality. He pretty much rejects that the Torah and halacha are moral. He argues that because God is so above human understanding, any attempt to qualify mitzvos as moral is pointless. Again, very controversial,but interesting.

    #1086575
    bigben2
    Participant

    Similar discussion: click here

    #1086576
    Sam2
    Participant

    Brisker Rov: It’s a Machlokes Rishonim whether “Natural Law” exists and why that may or may not be relevant.

    #1086577
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    Brisker Rav

    I dont think you read my OP.

    “In a GOD system where there is halachah, it remains a constant.”

    Halacha is not at all constant. There very much is a process and the halacha can be different for different people given the exact same circumstances. Take your first example of abortion. For a talmid of the Tzitz Eliezer it would be 100% mutar to abort a tay sachs fetus, even fairly late in the preganacy. For a talmid of R’ Moshe in the exact same circumstance it would be assur.

    Thus assuming halacha=morality=halacha which a few posters maintain.

    for the first person aborting the tay sachs fetus is not immoral while for the second it is.

    This may very well be the case, but it seems funy that the exact same situation is moral for one and immoral for another.

    #1086578
    LoIbud
    Member

    ElizabethTower2, as you said, it’s a similar discussion, but not an identical one. The question there addresses whether an innate sense of morality is independent of that which one is taught, whilst the debate over moral relativity or moral objectivity centres on whether an action that is undoubtedly immoral from one point of view, for example, from the point of view of a terror victim, can be moral from another’s view, e.g. perpetrator of said terror attack. The debate here doesn’t seem to truly recognize what moral relativity as a a concept actually is. I accept that moral relativity may not be the subject here, and the title may be somewhat misleading.

    And moral relativity, despite being probably the most common moral standpoint as far as philosophy students are concerned, it being the most adhered to viewpoint in most universities and schools, many consider it a cop-out that allows for double standards.

    #1086579
    bigben2
    Participant

    ElizabethTower2 – Really?

    #1086580
    LoIbud
    Member

    There’s nothing wrong with being pedantic.

    #1086581
    frumnotyeshivish
    Participant

    Ubiq- the idea that halacha says two different things to two different people is not necessarily true. One person views halacha legitimately one way another views it legitimately another way. Each one must follow what they see as objective truth. One is right and one is wrong yet eilu vaeilu. Pehaps it “seems funny” that we can have subjective views about objective truths in your subjective view. Objectively speaking though I don’t know what “seems” or even “funny” is…

    #1086582
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    frumnotyeshivish

    “the idea that halacha says two different things to two different people is not necessarily true.”

    ” One person views halacha legitimately one way another views it legitimately another way. “

    So halacha does says two different things to two different people.

    This isnt surprising. We are all familiar with the concept of “eilu veleilu”

    #1086583
    oomis
    Participant

    I have not read the replies yet, only the topic. Morality absolutely IS relative. TORAH morality is not, however, and is absolute and for all time. Once upon a time it was considered immoral for two men to be a couple. Now, given the relative morality of the times, there are people who believe it is immoral for them to NOT be allowed to be a married couple.

    Only a Torah-observant Jew or Noachide-law observant non-Jew is empirically (did I use that correctly?) moral. Everyone else does what they THINK is morally correct, subject to the times in which they live, and of course what one person thinks is correct, ain’t necessarily so.

    #1086584
    streekgeek
    Participant

    Morality absolutely IS relative. TORAH morality is not, however, and is absolute and for all time.

    And this, my friends, sums up the entire question in 16 words. Thanks oomis!

    #1086585
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    So you consider it moral because the world thinks so?

    #1086586
    Joseph
    Participant

    Oomis described it well. And she demonstrated that what the world at large considers to be moral and how they define morality, is irrelevant to Jews and the Torah world.

    #1086587
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    oomis

    I dont think you read the OP, or perhaps I wasnt clear.

    “TORAH morality is not, however, and is absolute and for all time. “

    According to the Torah, there is room for many machlokism within the framework of halacha. assuming MORALITY=HALACHA, then since halacha is relatives i.e. it is dependent on your posek. Then morality IS relative too and depends on what your posek holds. Say for example if your posek holds abortion is muttar in a certain case then it is moral if not then it is immoral

    #1086588
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    No, Oomis has got it right. Your mistake is that you are using the term “relative” in two very different ways.

    #1086589
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    DY

    I am only using relative in one way, granted as i mention in the second sentance on the subject it may not be the best word in thsi case, and would love to hear another.

    The point is Jewish-morality is not absolute. Much as halacha isnt absolute.

    Eg. What is the halacha regarding opening bottles on Shabbos? Machlokes. You are on solid footing as along as you follow a legitamte posek

    What is th halacha regarding aborting a fetus w/ tay sachs? MAchlokes

    Is it moral to abort a fetus w/ tay sachs? Well it seems assuming Halacha=morality as many here claim, then this too is a machlokes. It is not absolute at all! It is relative (or insert a better term)

    #1086590
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    (or insert a better term) Subject to machlokes. It’s still absolute, it’s just a machlokes what the absolute truth is. I know you’re going to ask from eilu v’eilu, and the answer will depend on how to understand eilu v’eilu.

    Regardless, it’s still completely different from “morality” changing with the times and societal whims.

    #1086591
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    DY

    “Regardless, it’s still completely different from “morality” changing with the times and societal whims. “

    Granted. I did not mean to imply anything different.

    So regarding morality, much like halacha youd say eilu veilu?

    #1086592
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    “Regardless, it’s still completely different from “morality” changing with the times and societal whims. “

    Granted. I did not mean to imply anything different.

    Then you shouldn’t be arguing with Oomis.

    So regarding morality, much like halacha youd say eilu veilu?

    Yes, but what that means depends on how to understand eilu v’eilu.

    #1086593
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    DY.

    OOmis (and others) said Torah morality is absolute for all time.

    However I think most (all?) of us agree that it is mutar (which many here say = moral) for a talmid of the Tzitz Eliezer to abort a tay sachs fetus while perhaps not for any other person.

    This is the exact opposite of “morality is absolute”

    Am I wrong regarding the above?

    I outlined in the OP regarding eilu veilu.

    Is my understanding incorrect?

    #1086594
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Not incorrect; perhaps incomplete.

    I don’t think eilu v’eilu precludes there being an ultimate emes which is in conflict with one or more of the positions. It refers to the process; if two chachomim explore a halachah, and all of the steps are legitimate, Torah based sevaros, the results of the two psakim may be different, because there might have been a conflict between two legitimate sevaros, and each resolved it differently.

    Lo bashomayim hi, so we are only held accountable to follow the opinion which has greater weight (yochid v’rabbim, etc.). There is still an ultimate emes; klapei shmaya galya which opinion is correct (perhaps even a third unstated one).

    I’ll give a (perhaps imperfect) example. Say a bais din paskens that someone is chayav misah based on two eidim, or a rov, etc. Turns out that the eidim lied, or the metzius was with the miut.

    Was putting him to death assur? Klapei shmaya galya that it was, but they were still correct to do it.

    I would say the same thing using the word moral. Killing an innocent person is inherently immoral, but they did the right thing.

    Same with psak. Say klapei shmaya galya that the Tzitz Eliezer was wrong, but a talmid who is a doctor follows him. Klapei shmaya, what he did was assur and immoral, but after 120, he will get schar for a mitzvah.

    My understanding of eilu v’eilu is based on Rashi in Kesubos, and other sources which I can’t pinpoint. It may be in conflict with other opinions on it.

    #1086595
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    DY

    I hear you. thanks

    I always understood eilu veilu as both are right, that “klapei Shamaya” thereis no psak, Lo bashamiyim hu it is left up to us (within the proper framework) to decide, and as long as the correct process is followed regrdless of the outcome it is correct. This is what prompted my question, since while for halacha this makes sense to me, for morality it seems funny.

    #1086596
    Avram in MD
    Participant

    A loosely related question:

    Is it possible for an action to be potentially defensible on halachic grounds, yet still immoral?

    #1086597
    Joseph
    Participant

    Is it possible for an action to be potentially defensible on halachic grounds, yet still immoral?

    What does immoral or moral mean?

    #1086598
    cherrybim
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