I suppose you’re directing the question to me. Capital “YOU”. Well, I didn’t make it to work. Unless you consider my keyboarding this reply to you “work”. In that case the answer is – by walking over to my computer.
Dating for any longer than a few dates to know whether you want to get married or not is a bad idea. A long distance engagement has pros and cons. It may force you to marry sooner, but it may complicate the chasuna planning process. It is a bad idea, and I wouldn’t recommend it, bichlal.
“Dating for any longer than a few dates to know whether you want to get married or not is a bad idea.” No caveats? Any evidence, logic or argument? Have you experienced it? What compels you to make such a bizarre statement?