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October 19, 2010 3:19 am at 3:19 am #592683chesednameParticipant
Is it Lashon Hara to say something bad about a member, or moderator, here?
we don’t know them so all we’re really saying is screen name xyz is a so and so??
same thing with name calling?
October 19, 2010 6:52 am at 6:52 am #702187HelpfulMemberAll I know is that chesedname is a bad bad apple…
October 19, 2010 10:10 am at 10:10 am #702188minyan galMemberIn my opinion, yes. It is true that we don’t really know the person but if you read these threads often enough you can often get a pretty good idea about somebody along with some of their life history, political beliefs, etc. Even though we only know somebody by the screen name that they use here it does become almost their alias. No, I don’t know Sidney Segal (fictional name) but I know “Monkeyseemonkeydo” (another fictional name) which is how Sidney is known around here so speaking Lahon Hora about Monkey is like speaking it about Sidney. I hope this makes sense – I know what I am trying to say and hope that others can figure it out.
October 19, 2010 1:46 pm at 1:46 pm #702189chesednameParticipantI know what you’re saying, that was the question is it lashon hara if we know the person, but at the same time we don’t know them??
October 19, 2010 11:33 pm at 11:33 pm #702190HelpfulMemberIt probably does not technically qualify under the prohibition of L”H (if no one knows who he is.) Nevertheless, that doesn’t make it okay.
October 20, 2010 2:09 am at 2:09 am #702191Ben TorahParticipantIt is situation dependent.
October 20, 2010 5:07 am at 5:07 am #702192kapustaParticipantWhy should it be different to say something about someone IRL using their real name than in the CR using their SN? I dont understand why it shouldn’t be L”H.
October 20, 2010 12:49 pm at 12:49 pm #702193Ben TorahParticipantProbably because in the CR no one knows who IRL it is you are talking about (assuming that is the case.)
October 20, 2010 1:47 pm at 1:47 pm #702194mghanooniMemberI think that technically, it would not be L”H, BUT it still is not a proper way of communicating.
October 20, 2010 4:00 pm at 4:00 pm #702195so rightMemberIf you call someone (even in real life by name) “a jerk” (i.e. name calling), is that considered “lashon hora”?
October 20, 2010 5:08 pm at 5:08 pm #702196oomisParticipantThe possibility exists that SOMEONE might know someone personally in the CR, so I say, don’t do it.
October 20, 2010 5:24 pm at 5:24 pm #702197chesednameParticipantso right
YES
the gemara and seforim say terrible things will happen if you call someone names.
October 20, 2010 5:53 pm at 5:53 pm #702198YW Moderator-80MemberIs it Lashon Hara to say something bad about a member, or moderator, here?
its lashon horah as regards a member, but motzei shaim rah as regards a moderator
October 20, 2010 8:21 pm at 8:21 pm #702199WIYMemberChesedname
I think its best to avoid insulting the Mods for common sense reasons.
October 20, 2010 10:10 pm at 10:10 pm #702200chesednameParticipantmod
i get the joke haha
WellInformedYid
i’m not scared to say the truth to the mods, if they don’t post it, it’s their problem. i don’t kiss hmmm to have my thoughts posted.
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