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December 22, 2014 1:50 pm at 1:50 pm #614527MedakdeikMember
I find it extremely distrurbing when (well-meaning) good-doers see fit to disrupt the quiet concentration of the Tzibur with an outburst of “YAALEH VEYAVO!!! or MASHIV HARUACH or AL HANISSIM or VESEIN TAL UMATAR!!!! (Today we could have all four!)
Surely this violates the halachic requirement of saying ALL of Shmoneh Esrei QUIETLY (so that even your immedaite neighbour cannot hear – bit that’s another rant…) But even if halachicaly admissable, what an achrayus these guys have to disreuot the mispalleleim!!
Am I the only one who feels this way?
December 22, 2014 3:08 pm at 3:08 pm #1050424Jewish ThinkerParticipantI think halachikly it’s not proper to say out loud things that are not meacav the shemona esrei (like yaaleh veyavo, rosh chodesh, maariv). But for things that are meacav (Vesien tal umatar) you are saving people from having to repeat the entire shemonei esrei so you should say it out loud but don’t scream it
December 22, 2014 4:00 pm at 4:00 pm #1050425Chochom-ibberParticipantYALEH VIYOVOY!!
December 22, 2014 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm #1050426mik5ParticipantTaken from revach:
Shmoneh Esrei must be said silently. When Yaaleh V’Yavo, Al HaNissim, Mashiv HaRuach, need to be added, people often say the first few words very loud in order to remind the others not to forget. Is this proper?
The Tshuvas HaRashba holds the by Maariv the Gabbai may announce Yaaleh V’Yavo after Kaddish before Shmoneh Esrei. The Maharshal argues and holds it is assur to be mafsik. Therefore he advises that the Gabbai should start Shmoneh Esrei earlier than the Tzibbur and when he gets to Yaaleh V’Yavo he should say the words Yaaleh V’Yavo very loud. From here we learn, says the Be’er Moshe (4:10) that it is permissible for anyone, not only the Gabbai, to say the words very loud in middle of Shmoneh Esrei to remind everyone to say Yaaleh V’Yavo.
He does caution that after the first person does it, no one else should do it since the purpose has already been served. The continuous screams of “Yaaleh V’Yavo” will only disturb people’s tefila and turn davening into a big joke
December 22, 2014 5:27 pm at 5:27 pm #1050427GoldilocksParticipantJewish Thinker, while giving others advice is great, there is a time and a place for everything. You should not be advising others while you and they are both in the middle of shemone esrei.
Not to mention that you WILL almost certainly be disturbing others.
December 22, 2014 6:11 pm at 6:11 pm #1050428MedakdeikMembermik5, Thanks for your authoratitive answer.
Your second paragraph is most pertinent to people who,(have one in my minyan) after exploding with a booming YALEH VIYOVOY!! , they then wait a few seconds for the poor mispallelim to recollect their shattered thoughts, and then, jsut as we have all settled back, he follows up with a resounding YOIM ROYSH HACHOYDESH HAZZEH!!!!!!! (just in case the initial shock made you forget waht day it is)
I suppose it takes all types to make a world!
December 22, 2014 7:06 pm at 7:06 pm #1050429Jewish ThinkerParticipantGoldilocks-you are correct that there is a time and a place for giving advice but when someone is going to have to redo his entire shemona esrei because he forgot yalleh vyavo and the only way to make sure it doesn’t happen is to say it out loud, it is the correct time to do it. As I said before you shouldn’t scream it, just say it out loud instead of silently.
December 22, 2014 7:30 pm at 7:30 pm #1050430my own kind of jewParticipantWhy not just have the Gabbai stand up before Shmona Esrai and say something along the lines of “everyone, please remember to say…”
Serves the same purpose and doesn’t disturb people while they are trying to pray.
December 25, 2014 11:07 am at 11:07 am #1050431MedakdeikMemberHey-
Today I heard someone say out loud “Vechol HaChayim….” – just to remind us all NOT to say Al Hanissim any longer!
December 25, 2014 7:28 pm at 7:28 pm #1050432147ParticipantI find it extremely disturbing when but so much less disturbing than a cell phone having the audacity to blare during the silent Amida, or any time during services, including a wedding I attended the other day, when people during the Chuppo let their cell phone ring during the Chuppo as they were making their way out of the Chuppo room to answer their cell phone during the chuppo.
December 28, 2014 1:57 am at 1:57 am #1050433☢️ Rand0m3x 🎲ParticipantNo mention of klopping before Shmoneh Esrei,
which is mutar l’chol ha’dei’os ? For shame!
(My own kind of Jew, see above:
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/interrupting-shmoneh-esrei#post-550892 )
December 28, 2014 6:43 am at 6:43 am #1050434takahmamashParticipantJewish Thinker:
. . . but when someone is going to have to redo his entire shemona esrei because he forgot yalleh vyavo and the only way to make sure it doesn’t happen is to say it out loud, it is the correct time to do it.
I strongly disagree. You’re interrupting the davening of the majority for the needs of a few individuals. If they were paying attention to their davening they wouldn’t forget the extras and changes in any amidah. It’s not your responsibility to do the reminding unless you’re the gabbai, and if you’re the gabbai, you’d find a way to remind people without creating a disturbance.
December 28, 2014 11:33 am at 11:33 am #1050435MedakdeikMembertakahmamash – It is so refreshing to hear some common sense!!
147: – I beleive that in some shuls the gabboim are authorised to isssue $20 -$30 on-the-spot-fine to anyone who’s phone rings for any reason whatosover. This has apparently proven to be highly effective. Maybe it should also be applied to our ‘tal-umottor shouters’ too….
December 28, 2014 11:36 am at 11:36 am #1050436☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIf they were paying attention to their davening they wouldn’t forget the extras and changes in any amidah.
If you were paying proper attention to your davening, you wouldn’t notice the interruption.
December 28, 2014 2:58 pm at 2:58 pm #1050437takahmamashParticipantMedakdeik:
Thank you!
DaasYochid:
If you were paying proper attention to your davening, you wouldn’t notice the interruption.
I wasn’t the one saying I noticed the interruptions. I was just making a general statement in support of those who are interrupted. The minyanim I attend, in general, don’t have this problem, or at least I haven’t noticed.
December 28, 2014 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm #1050438☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI wasn’t specifically referring to you, takahmamash, I was just pointing out that if we go with your approach of idealism, it’s a non-issue to begin with. If we are concerned, however, with people who are less than perfect who will be disturbed, then we should be concerned with those who are less than perfect and may forget Ya’aleh V’yavo.
There are all sorts of halachos about what to do if someone omitted Ya’aleh V’yavo; the poskim don’t simply say, “you should have paid better attention, you’re on your own now”.
December 28, 2014 4:43 pm at 4:43 pm #1050439takahmamashParticipantThere are all sorts of halachos about what to do if someone omitted Ya’aleh V’yavo; the poskim don’t simply say, “you should have paid better attention, you’re on your own now”.
That’s true; do the poskim say anywhere that people in the minyan should daven certain words out loud during the Amidah?
December 29, 2014 6:39 am at 6:39 am #1050440☢️ Rand0m3x 🎲ParticipantDecember 29, 2014 1:42 pm at 1:42 pm #1050441takahmamashParticipantThat post is referring to one person doing it, not multiple people in the same minyan.
December 29, 2014 3:16 pm at 3:16 pm #1050442☢️ Rand0m3x 🎲ParticipantYou’re right – I hadn’t realized what you meant. It does sound
sensible to say that there is no reason for multiple people to do it.
Perhaps those people who do it after the first one does were
concentrating properly on their own tefillah and didn’t notice? 🙂
December 29, 2014 3:58 pm at 3:58 pm #1050443theroshyeshivaParticipantIt’s perfectly mutar to say those things aloud, since we all daven from siddurim (see hilchos rosh hashana).
I think most people are not bothered by it but are appreciative for the public service that their fellow mispalelim are doing.
December 30, 2014 4:11 pm at 4:11 pm #1050444WolfishMusingsParticipantWhen davening, I often don’t mind the first person who says “Ya’aleh V’yavoh” in a slightly louder tone. Many a time, he has served as a reminder to me when I otherwise would have forgotten.
What annoys me is when a second person, barely a second later, does the same. Does he think that I forgot that soon after the other one did it? Or is just making a public statement of “I didn’t forget.”
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