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  • #2125730
    AviraDeArah
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    I will give credit where it’s due. YU is doing the best thing in the circumstances that they’re currently in. Is this the beginning of change there? I would be glad to accept them; no malice, no grudge holding. Will this “start a conversation” in YU about how they ended up at this point? Will they wake up and become a Landers yeshiva?

    They’re actually sacrificing for Hashem and Torah. I honestly did not think they were capable of doing this… embarrassing themselves in front of the goyim and esteemed universities. They’re being brave. I commend them.

    #2125838

    Avira, yasher koach.

    #2125982
    ymribiat
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    In today’s political climate, with the constitution of this Supreme Court, please elaborate, what exactly is YU risking?

    #2126018
    AviraDeArah
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    Ym – teshuvaso betzidah

    Today’s political climate, especially in the academic circles which YU usually seeks to mingle with, is off-the-rails leftist, thinking that there is absolutely no room for even discussing gay rights.

    #2126025
    ymribiat
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    @ Ada Notre Dame has LGBTQ+ counseling. The Southern Baptist Church Seminary has lectures on why homosexuality is a sin.
    YU is threading a needle where it accepts gay and welcomed gay students while refusing to host official clubs.
    So no, I don’t particularly see the risk. The left is happiest having something to advocate for, and the right is satisfied with meeningless gestures.

    #2126030

    > Notre Dame … Southern Baptist Church …

    those are not in Manhattan. Avira is right – going against the environment is difficult.

    #2126044
    Lostspark
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    Would there be this much commotion if there was a pro Avoda Zara club, or a pro Frankist/Sabbatean club? This club is no different in my eyes. LGBTQ+ is a evangelical and corrupting movement.

    Banning all clubs was the cowardly move that causes many people to lose opportunities to network.

    #2126088
    AviraDeArah
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    I don’t see any cowardice; they’re making a statement that they will not have toevah clubs. They’re doing it using a clever eitzah – they can’t stop it because the court ordered them to recognize it.

    What they’re doing is a sacrifice, both in terms of making students lose out on something that they (erroneously) believe is worthwhile, and by becoming the laughing stock of the academic world.

    Who knows… Maybe they’ll have the courage to close up their school if they’re forced into recognizing toevos…

    #2126175
    Marxist
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    “What they’re doing is a sacrifice, both in terms of making students lose out on something that they (erroneously) believe is worthwhile”

    Clubs certainly help on one’s resume. That’s besides the fact that people genuinely enjoy them and it gives one the chance to develop non-academic skills.

    #2126202
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    Most of the people at YU think they are in the perfect paradigm for a frum Jew. I don’t think Rav Solovietchik wanted it to be like this nor do some of the Rabbeim there do. For a good many people who go to YU if it wasn’t around they would have gone to secular colleges and would be davening in conservative shuls today if any.

    #2126215
    ymribiat
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    @ 1 Point of fact, of it was not for Rabbi Kotler, many of today’s Rabbis would have gone to secular colleges, or into business, or according to some biographies, into professional sports.
    It’s amazing how quickly some people are to inflate the challenges some yeshivas face while glossing over the failures of their own.

    #2126228
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    Lakewood is against going to college so yes it stopped a different demographic from doing so. However the MO do go to college so if there wouldn’t have been YU they would have gone to different universities. I’m not a YU or a Lakewood guy so I can talk up the pros and cons of both.

    #2126253
    ujm
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    YU, is at most, a b’dieved for those that would have done even less without it.

    #2126255
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Marx, they’re just a waste of time; what I meant is that to a Torah jew, it’s not a big sacrifice – just don’t have any clubs; not the end of the world. For YU, it’s a big sacrifice, because they care about such “fun” things.

    It would be like telling an adult that you can’t have cotton candy anymore, versus telling that to a child.

    #2126256
    AviraDeArah
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    So a child sacrificing cotton candy means a lot more than if an adult did so.

    #2126434

    > YU, is at most, a b’dieved for those that would have done even less without it.

    I know a family whose kids went to a moderni school and they went to YU while others were going to Ivy and looking down at them. In this case, it was definitely l’hatchila. It is a sacrifice for someone who can get into a high-end academic school to go to YU instead – both academically and financially.

    I am not sure how it would be b’dieved. If someone can’t get to best schools, he can get to a comparable quality at way cheaper and easier to access places. Please explain.

    #2126435

    So, there will be less clubs, more time for learning and training for parnosah, less tuition (?), so more time for father to learn. Only good comes out of it.

    You can put an internship instead of a club onto your resume. I don’t know who hires based on clubs and, frankly, would not advise going to such an employer.

    #2126440
    Marxist
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    “You can put an internship instead of a club onto your resume. I don’t know who hires based on clubs and, frankly, would not advise going to such an employer.”

    Nobody hires you solely based on your clubs. Just like they don’t hire you solely based on your GPA. It’s a combination of things that gets the deal sealed. Employers like seeing that you are part of clubs, that you are social and have good communication skills. Ask any college career advisor.

    #2126455

    Marxist > Ask any college career advisor.

    You would be better off asking an employer, like me. Demand that YU refund the club money and use this money to join a club of your choice. Most colleges spend more than 50% on “overhead” (I know precise numbers for those with which I did business), this is not counting wasted classes… Most reasonable professors lament that their colleges spent so much money on buildings and other nonsense. What if a Jewish college shows rachmonus on Jewish parents and decrease extras and tuition. Will they lose customers? Probably. So, then it is “our” fault for demanding these clubs, not the university’s.

    #2126398
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Further in the interest of emes, after seeing an man on the faculty list of azrieli school of Jewish education who is openly married in a toeva “family” with an unfortunate adopted baby… Who also teaches classes… Sporting a hat and jacket to boot..

    His husband says that they’re accepted in the Washington heights community. What about his rebbeim? How do they feel? Why haven’t they stopped him from becoming involved in the school? Who else is involved in the school who is a wanton sinner and mechalel shem shomayim? Was it only a powerful minority which forced the school’s hand in blocking all student clubs?

    What is the real YU, and is it rotten to its core, beyond repair?

    #2126835

    > His husband says that they’re accepted

    This sounds sad, but do you actually have evidence beyond the obviously posul person?

    #2126868
    AviraDeArah
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    Aaq, unfortunately i do have evidence; Yeshiva university, the revel graduate school for Jewish studies, wished the sinful couple a mazel tov on the arrival of their daughter on Facebook. They’re aware of the “marriage” and allowed this toeva man to be a student liasion, communications worker, and Hebrew teacher

    #2126874
    Lostspark
    Participant

    Is there an article related to this outrageous issue?!?

    #2126888

    I was told here that graduate school is a separate institution, associated with YU just for accreditation. According to this shitah, this would be kosher. I do not like it, the names of people, and institution should mean something. “Revel” may be the appropriate name, though.

    #2126898
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Lost, I’m referring to the teacher who was BH fired from the Brooklyn yeshiva – the teacher is married to another man, who i described above

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