Once, in the midst of some enjoyable family time, when the discussion shifted to the Ashkenazic practice of naming children only after the deceased, versus the Sephardic practice of naming even after the living, when I astounded my family with my brilliance:
??????? ?? ????? ??? ???? had five sons: ?????, ?????, ?????, ?????, ?????.
????? his eldest son wasn’t named after his father; perhaps he named him after his father in law. But why wasn’t his second son at least named after his father?
“It must be,” I concluded, “that his father was still alive, and the custom of old was apparently not to name children after living people.”