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December 8, 2019 6:48 pm at 6:48 pm #1808884Shopping613 ๐Participant
I’m a kallah everyone!
Just wanted to let ya’ll know ๐December 8, 2019 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1808934Reb EliezerParticipantI am happy for you. Mazel Tov! It should turn into a wonderful union.
December 8, 2019 7:27 pm at 7:27 pm #1808936GoldilocksParticipantMazel Tov!
December 8, 2019 8:23 pm at 8:23 pm #1808969YW Moderator-29 ๐จโ๐ปModeratorBaruch Hashem! ๐ฅณ
December 8, 2019 9:10 pm at 9:10 pm #1808985JosephParticipantMazal Tov!!!
December 8, 2019 9:12 pm at 9:12 pm #1808963yitzchokmParticipantamazing news! BH!!
December 8, 2019 9:13 pm at 9:13 pm #1808944TRUEBTParticipantB’Sha’a Tova U’Mutzlachas!
Tizki L’vnos Bayis Ne’eman B’Yisroel!December 8, 2019 9:14 pm at 9:14 pm #1808958โ๏ธcoffee addictParticipantMAZEL TOV!!!!!
(Jumping up and down shrieking like a girl)
December 8, 2019 9:14 pm at 9:14 pm #1808957GadolhadorahParticipantMuch hatzlacha to both of you both in terms of building a bayis ne’man bayisroel and for contributing to the war Shidduch Crisis threads).
December 8, 2019 9:14 pm at 9:14 pm #1808959knaidlachParticipantMazal Tov!
Is the Chasan someone from the CR?December 8, 2019 9:34 pm at 9:34 pm #1809001philosopherParticipantMazel tov! All the best to you and your chosson!
December 8, 2019 10:10 pm at 10:10 pm #1809004GadolhadorahParticipantKnaidlach: Have there been any prior cases of verified shiduchim achieved here in the CR?
December 8, 2019 10:43 pm at 10:43 pm #1809033JosephParticipantShopping: I’m mochel my shadchanus gelt. You can make a contribution to tzedaka, in any amount of your choosing, to the cause that is closest to your heart, in its stead.
December 8, 2019 10:53 pm at 10:53 pm #1809039YesOrNoParticipantMazel Tov! May you be Zoche to build a Bayis Neโeman BโYisroel!
Thank you for sharing the good news!December 9, 2019 12:34 am at 12:34 am #1809045oyyoyyoyParticipantMabel Tov!!
December 9, 2019 1:05 am at 1:05 am #1809054Shopping613 ๐ParticipantI’m not aware of him being from the CR – although I know he does read.
December 9, 2019 7:58 am at 7:58 am #1809064JosephParticipantWait… You haven’t got to know him well enough yet to be sure whether he’s a poster here?
December 9, 2019 7:58 am at 7:58 am #1809065catch yourselfParticipantMazel Tov!
May you be zoche to build a Bayis Ne’eman B’Yisrael!December 9, 2019 7:59 am at 7:59 am #1809073NechomahParticipantHey that’s wonderful. Mazel Tov. It should be a bayis ne’eman b’Yisroel. When is the chassanah? Would love to just show up.
December 9, 2019 8:02 am at 8:02 am #1809077โข๏ธ Rand0m3x ๐ฒParticipantMazel tov.
December 9, 2019 8:03 am at 8:03 am #1809097banjobobParticipantMazal tov!! that’s great news!
December 9, 2019 8:31 am at 8:31 am #1809123poshiteryidParticipantMazel Tov. Unsure why that has to be on here! This is not meant to be a social media platform for news and simchas!!
Good job you cant post a picture on this like some of those other not very kosher/jewish websites!!!!December 9, 2019 9:09 am at 9:09 am #1809138Shopping613 ๐Participant@poshiteryid since I’ve been posting on here since I’ve been 14 and was a very active user for many years. I would love to share my simcha with posters who have known and seen me for the past 7 years.
I haven’t been so active as of late so perhaps we are not so familiar with each other – but I’ve made friends on this platform and have had many many conversations with the posters here.
Trust me; I’m not bored enough to post this information on random forums around the world.
December 9, 2019 9:41 am at 9:41 am #1809173Little FroggieParticipantMAZEL TOV!!!!
That’s WONDERFUL news. Thanks for sharing with us.
May you build a home together worthy of having the Shechina join in. May accomplishment, happiness, gladness and goodness accompany you and yours forever more…
..the croakings of Little Forggie..
December 9, 2019 9:41 am at 9:41 am #1809165GadolhadorahParticipantPoishete Yid: You just explained your posting name. However, mediocrity is a step below “plain” or “ordinary”. Perhaps you are having a bad hair day mourning the loss of Oscar the Grouch from Sesame Street who it was announced was niftar yesterday.
December 9, 2019 2:20 pm at 2:20 pm #1809349CSParticipantMazal Tov!!! Glad to hear!
December 9, 2019 2:21 pm at 2:21 pm #1809348knaidlachParticipantso if the chasan is reading this, lets wish him Mazal tov too. so Dear Chasan, Mazal tov! binyan adei ad with all good brachos. you got a great Kalla, she is always ‘SHOPPING’ for another mitsva of the ‘613’. and both of you, if you need any advice about preparations to the wedding or about life in general, here in the CR is the place to ask. we are the experts in all matters of Torah and mitsvos, in Nigla, Nistar, Halacha, according to Peshat, Remez, Derush and Sod, and in all matters of life in general.
Mazal Tov! Mazal Tov!December 9, 2019 3:46 pm at 3:46 pm #1809389IBoughtShopper613ParticipantHey!
Mazel Tov! Mazel Tov!
I am the lucky chosson! I am very fortunate to have such a wonderful Kallah! Thank you all for the good wishes and brachos.Presents are welcome ๐
IBoughtShopper613
December 9, 2019 4:56 pm at 4:56 pm #1809418JJ BadchenParticipantMazel Tov!
Let your Choson know that I am a “BADCHEN”……December 9, 2019 4:56 pm at 4:56 pm #1809419JJ BadchenParticipantDo you need my phone number????
December 9, 2019 6:17 pm at 6:17 pm #1809480lowerourtuition11210ParticipantJJ: No “ich been a kalter litvak”. no need for a badchen.
December 9, 2019 7:46 pm at 7:46 pm #1809491Reb EliezerParticipantShould be Ich bin ein Kalte Litvak. So you need it even more to be warmed up.
December 9, 2019 7:47 pm at 7:47 pm #1809488โ๏ธcoffee addictParticipantI highly doubt that iboughtshopper is the chassan especially since her screen name is SHOPPING
December 9, 2019 7:47 pm at 7:47 pm #1809487IBoughtShopper613ParticipantNo need for a badchen. Thanks for the offer though. I guess you can now say Iโm a fellow CR member…
December 9, 2019 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm #1809502knaidlachParticipanthey Badchan, lets hear/read a sample of your badchonos
December 9, 2019 9:00 pm at 9:00 pm #1809504chashParticipantMy opinion, if anyone cares…
First off, I wish a hearty mazel tov to the kallah and the chosson and families involved.
Now, It is my belief that we have become weak minded when we feel the need to throw random Mazel Tovs to a person we never met, and we dont even know if they actually exist (in the form portrayed anyway).
Of course we do this (as I have above) to share and encourage in this persons simcha. And that IS a beautiful thing. However, there is another angle to this. What lunacy is it to have a bunch of random people who dont know one another congratulate each other in a way that you have no idea who is congratulating you?
Would someone stop a random person in the street and say “hey i’m engaged”? I daresay most people would consider this outside the realm of normal behavior. So why is it different to post such on an anonymous group chat of people you have no idea?
As evidence to this, look at the type of ridiculous comments that followed not long after. My point is, this is only possible in a world where the virtual has become the reality and socially becomes off.
Now to be clear. To the kallah who posted it, I am not criticizing you at all. You presumably posted it in a spurt of “i want to shout it to the world” feeling which IS, absolutely normal. My point is, that in a healthy world people would see that and say “wow, thats one excited kallah” and go on, because the venue isnt apropos. (akin to a person who just got their long awaited direct deposit from their boss while waiting in the bank and then shouting “yes”). Only in a world where people take the virtual as reality and their feelings would possibly be hurt by anonymous strangers not responding would the reaction of my fellow coffee room ‘posters’ have to post as they did. And for that, we cry.
[please make sure you understand what i’m getting at before you respond in indignant fury, thank you]December 9, 2019 10:39 pm at 10:39 pm #1809527silvershadchanParticipantMay I ask how old you are?
December 9, 2019 11:48 pm at 11:48 pm #1809552Little FroggieParticipantChash… Obviously you’re new here. This place has been “home” to many peoples, all walks of life, for many a year. You may not know… this place – scratch that – this home has a long history. Some have moved out, (some have moved UP) some are still here. This place went through a LOT (putting it mildly), many cycles… ups and downs, right, left and mostly upside down! Many personalities, opinions, feelings, ideas and ideals. Each had what to offer… Every once and a while someone ‘from the old time’ would come by and leave another “I WAS HERE (AGAIN)” post in the form of another quip…
Though I may not “Know” my sister at the opposite side of the mechitza, a fitting Mazel Tov best wishes is surely proper. Family is family, no?!?
December 10, 2019 8:04 am at 8:04 am #1809597Shopping613 ๐Participant@chash I’m sorry you don’t understand. These aren’t random people. I posted a lot in the past and I’ve become friends with users here to the point that we’ve found ways of getting in touch through the coffee room (although it isn’t technically allowed).
These members aren’t random people to me (well some of the newer ones are) but others I’ve known for 7 years.
Also I do want to clarify the chosson posting is my chosson. He wanted to thank everyone for their well wishes.
December 10, 2019 10:40 am at 10:40 am #1809690LightbriteParticipant๐ค๐๐ฅ๐๐Yays!!!! Mazal TOV *Shopping613*๐ค๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐
May Hashem bless you all with shalom bayis, nachas, parnassah, and all the revealed good blessings!!!๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค
December 10, 2019 1:50 pm at 1:50 pm #1809761manofwisdomParticipantMazal Tov!!
December 11, 2019 6:48 am at 6:48 am #1809807beeeParticipantsince Iโve been posting on here since Iโve been 14 and was a very active user for many years. I would love to share my simcha with posters who have known and seen me for the past 7 years
Hey! we are te same age! do i know you?
Mazel tov!!!!!December 11, 2019 6:48 am at 6:48 am #1809808beeeParticipantsince Iโve been posting on here since Iโve been 14 and was a very active user for many years. I would love to share my simcha with posters who have known and seen me for the past 7 years
Hey! we are te same age! do i know you?
Mazel tov!!!!!December 11, 2019 9:34 am at 9:34 am #1809973yitzchokmParticipantPY
Chsh
While true that the posters here are Anonymous, many of us have been involved with this platform for about a decade. As Shopping pointed out, she sort of grew up with forum so, its perfectly appropriate to share the great news that she is on her way to getting married.I haven’t posted in sbout a year and I came out of my early retirement to congratulate her.
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December 13, 2019 3:57 pm at 3:57 pm #1810661chashParticipantlol, everybody seems to be confirming my point about the virtual becoming a reality. After all, you all virtually know her!
December 15, 2019 10:53 am at 10:53 am #1810858Shopping613 ๐Participant@chash what’s the difference between this and pen pals? Writing letters to strangers as many did 20 years ago and becoming friends with them?
I have a few e-pals and some of them were also users on here too.
December 15, 2019 11:33 pm at 11:33 pm #1811013chashParticipantactually, that IS a good point. check mate then ๐
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MAZEL TOV!December 16, 2019 6:20 am at 6:20 am #1811041streekgeekParticipantMazel tov Shopping! Your news made me so happy ๐
May you and your lucky chosson build a bayis neeman and know of only Bracha and mazel!
@chash Oh if only you knew how appropriate this announcement is on here. You missed out on some good times…@littlefroggie hi there
Now Iโll go climb back in to my hole. Nice seeing yโall
December 16, 2019 1:57 pm at 1:57 pm #1811195Little FroggieParticipantWB Streek….
LOOOOOOOOOONG time no see…. (actually, that’s a good sign!) Hope everything is fine…
December 16, 2019 4:39 pm at 4:39 pm #1811206๐ต โจ GamanitParticipantMazel Tov!! I definitely feel like I got to know you a bit from the CR. I’m glad you chose to share your good news here.
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