If a chosson is blind, is unveiling his kallah enough?

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    Lightbrite
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    Would a chosson who is blind need to check that the kallah is his via another means than sight, such as hearing her voice or touching her face?

    Technically, even if he unveils his kallah, if he cannot see her, then how can he be sure if he doesn’t use another sense to ensure it’s really her?

    Thank you πŸ™‚

    #1292361

    He would trust the assembled crowd. (If he were to think he was marrying one woman,
    while the bride present was actually another woman, that marriage would be invalid.)

    #1292449
    midwesterner
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    Gemara asks the question (suma heiach muttar b’ishto, uvnei adam heiach muttarin l’neshoseihen balayla) and answers tevias eina d’kala, i.e. voice recognition

    #1292453
    Joseph
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    How does a blind deaf person get married?

    #1292471

    What kind of question is that?!

    #1292502
    Meno
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    What kind of question is that?!

    I think it’s a good question

    #1292572
    midwesterner
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    I think his question was a legitimate follow up to the gemara that says blind people get married with tevias ayin of kol, and a deaf person can not hear and recognize that kol, how would he manage?

    The marriage itself wouldn’t be the problem. The problem would be the potential violation of issurim down the road if one can not identify the person he/she is with.

    #1292578

    If one must have sight or sound recognition of their spouse for them to
    be permitted to each other, how does a blind deaf person get married?
    It’s a logical question.

    #1292803
    blubluh
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    Isn’t this issue then also relevant in cases of post-Chuppah vision loss?

    #1292844
    yehudayona
    Participant

    Deafblind couples have other problems. Since they communicate tactually, nidah presents an issue.

    #1292860

    Isn’t this issue then also relevant in cases of post-Chuppah vision loss?

    Yes.

    #1293127
    Lightbrite
    Participant

    blubluh: Excellent point about couples losing vision and hearing later in life! πŸ™‚

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    I wonder if they can text in braille.

    #1295076
    Redleg
    Participant

    The unveiling of the Kallah is not only for the Choson. The Eidei Kiddushin must also get a good look at the Kallah or their eidus is not valid. How can they be mayid that Plonis bas Ploni is married to Chaim Yankle Plonawitz if they don’t know what Plonis looks like?

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