I realized one thing – Women love salads. The more the better. I would make a salad bar by the ladies with all diff types of salads, ceasar, brocccoli, red cabbage, italian, Greek…. Then u can have some flat breads and assorted crackers on the table. Trust me, salads and fruits GO. If ur doing it Milichigs have another table with coffee and cheese cake. U wont have a crumb left over!