So I went to visit some friends in a different shul between mincha and maariv.
And I was there, and sitting in the back talking to my cousin. And there was a guy speaking in front. But I was talking.
So explained to my cousin, that some people think it is disrespectful to talk during a speech. But I think the opposite. Because I want the guy to see that even the people who want to talk still come to his speech.