I got married! The shidduch crisis is over

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    whitecar
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    This obviously sounds extremely obnoxios and insensitive but why is it different when others say “theres no crisis just a lack of bitachon” or “stop being so picky, so what if he or she has a tail” to say that things are going well and the crisis is fake (especially when you yourself are married) is pretty much saying “if it doesnt bother me then there is no crises, so stop trying to make me believe there is”.

    #1666076
    Joseph
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    I got married! The shidduch crisis is over

    Lemme guess… you became akuperma’s wife?!

    #1666100
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    “theres no crisis just a lack of bitachon”.

    There are singles who say that, and people who have kids who need shidduchim.

    They may be wrong, but automatically saying they’re insensitive is unfair.

    Also, they’re right on an individual basis, just wrong that it’s not a societal problem.

    #1666101
    Mammele
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    Who would’ve thunk the next marriage equality issue results in cars getting married?! And nuch a racist WHITE car…

    #1666121
    whitecar
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    Yes @daas yochid I agree

    #1666122
    whitecar
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    @mammela i had a white car when i made my account. Now i have a gray car

    #1666267
    Mammele
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    Oy vey iz mir… The bi-racial car got married, and if I’ll protest almost all cars will start spewing gas at me!

    #1666376
    ☕️coffee addict
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    Lol @ mammale

    But seriously to address the op if I kept to my conviction (not marrying someone from NY) I wouldn’t be married to my wife

    If you don’t compromise on things it won’t happen IMO

    #1666470
    Health
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    whitecar -“I got married! The shidduch crisis is over”

    So What? I got married also! But the shidduch crisis is NOT over, because I’m divorced.

    #1666446
    Ex-CTLawyer
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    Whitecar………………..
    Did you get the nice mailbox I sent as a wedding gift?

    #1666915
    whitecar
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    @CTLAWYER yes thank you. My wife loves it

    #1667017
    Ex-CTLawyer
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    @Whitecar,
    Make sure you open and install it, not a handyman. There’s an envelope inside for the two of you

    #1667029
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    CTL, how’s your wife doing?

    #1667056
    whitecar
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    @CTL perfect. This looks perfect next to my car next to it and I put some MAGA stickers on the mailbox as a token to our friendship and loyalty to the republican party. Thank you for the check, i made a donation in your name to the RNC. We greatly appreciate your generosity

    #1667063
    Ex-CTLawyer
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    @DY
    Thank .you for asking
    B”H Mrs. CTL is improving slowly and is at home. We are trying to get her strength up, as she must have major surgery next month to bypass the problem organs.

    #1667302
    Shopping613 🌠
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    “theres no crisis just a lack of bitachon”.

    That’s like saying there’s no issue with drugs, bullying or abuse in the world.
    Yes, whatever happens to you is meant to happen, but if that something is too common we should find a way to prevent it.

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