how do you deal with a disturbed sibling

I feel really bad about bring up this topic, since it’s about someone that is very close to me, however I need somewhere to vent my feelings, and I supose it would be best if I vent these emotions anonymously…

this person was naive, immature, uneducated when they stepped out into the big wide world, and it’s having an impact on thier life in a number of different aspects, this person is not at peice with themselves, they are insecure they phone ‘home’ almost every day in anticipation that it is the way they had left it. they are taken advantage of, they allow people to tred on thier toes, this person at the same time as being disturbed, has also been fulfilled, they got married had children, in a world before they were able to comprehend the reality of the intricacies of life. it is now hitting them slowly in the face, hitting a grave sense of reality of what the ‘real’ world is all about. something that they should have worked out before enbarking on life’s important mission. but they are forcibly engulfed in a world of thier own without the slightest clue of what reality is.

every conversation the topic that’s brought up majority of the time is;- QTpie what’s news?????- meaning shidduchim, all that’s on in this person’s world is shidduchim, babies, chasuna, simchos, bar mitzva, sheva brochas, nothing else exsists for this person. they realise it in a very suttle way, however they were yanked away from the realities of career at a very ‘early’ age therefore these realities will never become apart of their lives. However they feel they are yearing for something, I hear it in that lonesom voice, ‘young’ and innocent, and ever so vulnerable. I’m not saying anything wrong with all those beauties that this person engulfs themselves in however there would have been nothing wrong to have a career atributed before enbarking on life’s journey…

I know I’m babling however those of you who have something in common with this phnonmina, would you please shed some light of how I can help this person achieve what they could have achieved…