I think I once met one, but I wasn’t mekarev him. It was at a single’s event, so it wasn’t really the appropriate venue for Kiruv. Also, he considered himself to be Frum, and I didn’t feel qualified to explain to him why he’s not.
I don’t remember what color his hair was, but can guys be blondes? Or is it like brunettes that you have to be female?
LU: I don’t know… lol, I wanted to say something without saying much, so I ended it with “counterparts,” hoping that by now I’d have a clever (and PC) response if someone asked… oh well 🙂
I grew up with a girl who is now a meteorological paleontologist. She studies the weather from the supposed time of the dinosaurs. I did not try to be meKarev her. But she tried to make me be less frum.