bygirl93- yes it is VERY imprtant he has good middot bec @ the end of the day wen ur married 2 the person all other materialistic things can/will fade…money, looks, charm… and you dont know what the future holds and u need those middos to pullu through whatever may come ur way.
BUT, ont he other hand (speaking as a girl) U NEED 2 b attracted to him- im not saying u should be drooling, and you cant breathe bla bla bla…but there is a concept where looks/lust brings you to a certain area of attraction thereby growing, and getting to know the person, (if its of real quaity) respecting them and then truly loving them.(but after a while the smoke screen of looks and charm fade and you can see them for who they really are and if they have no real qualities or middot then you can walk away- before its too late)
so yes, attraction is important- BUT NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING!
And dont be fooled by looks either! It goes both ways!