Getting lost

Act calmly, and turn on the GPS.

Guys test girls reaction by pretending to get lost. Girls, you need not only be on your best behavior when he gets “lost”, but if you reject a date because he got lost then you failed the test. He wants to be “rejected” if that’s how you feel. He doesn’t want to marry a picky girl who flips out when someone gets lost.

I think that getting lost is a real test for both the guyt and the girl. The girl can see what the boys reaction is I.e if e goes crazy or just calmy turns around and same to the guy I.e if the girl gets annoyed or edgy. This is a test to see how the person will react in a stressful or pressured time. It’s a normal thing to get lost remember that!

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“It’s not his fault he got lost, the question is, how does he want the girl to react?”

Brilliant question. I think he wants you to roll your eyes and say something sarcastic because that would make him feel even better.

Let’s hope no one get’s lost on a date… Only losers do…

this is true! The boy would stop going out with you…

Funnybone what was the end of the story?

Shiratobala I’m happy you understand me sorry if icame out to strog

shiraTobala- try getting lost

why should i get lost? lol!

Just wondering — is it a violation of the laws of yichud to drive alone with a date?

I guess it depends on who you hold by. From a summary I found:

“An important question arises whether driving in a car is considered Yichud. Rav Moshe (Teshuvot Igrot Moshe 4:65:3) rules that one should do his best to avoid driving a car alone with another woman even during the day on well-traveled roads. He reasons that although one is not secluded when driving, he can readily find a relatively private place alongside the road. Thus, since one has such easy access to sin when driving a car, Rav Moshe rues that driving alone with a woman in a car should be avoided except in case of great need. Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach appears to adopt the same approach in his Teshuvot Minchat Shlomo 1:91:21.

However, this makes dating in most circumstances quite difficult if not impossible. In fact, many Poskim disagree with Rav Moshe and rule that traveling alone in a car with another woman does not constitute Yichud unless one is driving in a very remote area or at a time when there are very few cars on the road. These authorities include Rav Mordechai Eliyahu (the former Sephardic chief rabbi of Israel who is a highly regarded Posek in many circles in Israel, cited in Techumin 10:311), Rav Aharon Lichtenstein (in a Shiur delivered to students of Yeshivat Har Etzion), and Rav Mordechai Willig (in a Shiur delivered at Yeshiva University).