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oh ha now i get why that said “oh and moish.” it was supposed to come after the other one but it got posted first 😉
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just the pepsi comment which got deleted
moish you sound very close with her 😉 Nothing much you can do if shes moving, shes moving she can be happy about it or upset but it wont help the situation too much.
*kapusta*
wow lucky she’s not friends with you. anyone ever tell you you’re cold? i’m a guy and i’ve got more sympathy than that.
Do you really think I’m cold? It’s not that I don’t care; I do. But it sounds like you already sympathized with her and what else is there to do? Complain for the next 6 months?
*kapusta*
39, I’m sorry about that.
moish, you’ve got sympathy? Good, use it. There’s not much else you could do. I’m sorry for you, too. Sounds like you will miss her an awful lot.
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no. but i didn’t think practical advice was gonna help. not the day she find out she’s moving to the other side of the world and leaving everyone. plus she can’t stand her family. so telling her she’s gotta cope would just make her hang up and probably cry or something.
moish what was she doing if not crying? Just be there for her, thats basically all you could do. (and I’m not too worried about her losing you; you’re usually up on Israel time anyway 😉 )
everyone like it?
Mod 39, are you happy now?
kapusta: i gotta say i liked the smile. but this is good too 🙂
AOB, thanx but mod 39 objected, and what he says, goes!
hey it never made it through. wonder why.
sure she was crying part of the time (oh god) and yeah we could talk but you can’t live life over the phone. i still feel really bad for her. and there’s nothing anyone can do except for talking to her parents which is completely out of the question because i highly doubt they approve of me.
yeah, i know. it just made you seem like a very friendly person 😉
moish, no, practical advice won’t do much right now. The only thing to do is stand by her during this difficulty. It’s hard to watch someone you care about struggle with something and be the one standing by helplessly. You’re support during this time is really important to her.
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AOB, not to worry, I’m still the same friendly kapusta I always was!
moish, yes, its harder to be friends over the phone, but you have to make do with what you have. And if thats all you have, then take it. REAL support, as distant as it may seem, is still support, and is always helpful.
yeah. well she’s still here for a few months so i told her to live it up while she’s here and we’ll talk about it when it comes closer. not sure she loved that but what else should she do? cry for the next 3 months?
AOB, (can I try and get you to laugh?) now I’ll probably have to stop myself from signing my texts and emails with…
🙂
(Sorry, mod 39, but shes upset, and I can’t fight my own nature so much, especially when it’s a good habit)
is it even 39 moderating now?
moish, if you want to give her the tools to actually handle living in Israel, maybe when she eases up to the idea a little bit in a month or two, try to make her a little more open minded about the whole thing. for when she gets there, it’ll make the transformation a whole lot easier.
moish: shame your done with the milkshakes! about your friend that moving: i wish there was more to say, just you gatta be there to listen and sympathize! i too have a friend going through a really tough time-magnified a lot of times from what your friends going through! never the less there’s nothing i could either do, but listen to him talking about it & being their to support him through it! g’luck buddy!
thanks kapusta 🙂
thats even weirder cuz smiles are universal but i can just imagine opening an email signed “kapusta” even if i knew what it meant – cabbage??? 😉
moish01: not that this helps now, but once she moves, if you really want to keep in touch, make an effort to speak/write to her every once in a while. i’ve had friends who i started out talking to & stuff, but eventually we lost touch because every day i just didn’t bother (& probably she did more or less the same thing)
AOB, yes but you’ve made it clear that you’re younger than me, and I can’t think of anyone offhand who I text/email that’s younger than me.
Random: Do you remember I were sure you were someone else? Well tonight, she asked me for a username for something (not for the CR,) and I was about to say, an open book!
AOB, kapusta means cabbage.
kapusta: i know, that’s why i said that. it would be pretty weird to find an email signed *cabbage* 😉
Hey, great news!!! My sick firefox just healed itself!
what do you mean it healed itself?
kapusta: Congratulations
moish01: It means she couldnt figure out how to fix it, but it just started working again.
auss, thanks- that much i was able to figure on my own. complete air head, i’m not.
kapusta: that’s such exciting news! harray!
that’s great, kapusta 🙂
moish, you’re sure? jk, something weird just happened, the font just got bigger…
aussie, thanx!
kapusta: it got bigger than before (wasn’t it already bigger?)?? or it just got back to normal & then messed up again?
moish01: Your not? 😉
kapusta: Your welcome.
Jax and AOB, thanx it’s very exciting, I can actually see what I’m about to post.
AOB, first it got much bigger and then it got tiny. I hope it stays the way it is now, it’s good.
i find it so relaxing, reading through old threads that are no longer on the cr homepage!
kapusta: The problem could have been that you changed the zoom level.
39, sticking around?
Moish, you’re off by 3.
oops! my bad – you wanna play hangman?
hey i knew i wasn’t going insane – 39 was just here a couple of minutes ago- he posted on the “what is yeshiva education worth thread”
Maybe we are the same person with an identity crisis
why would you volunteer that information.
anyway you live in LA and he lives in England, no?
Did i hear someone say hangman? Yay!
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How can I live in two places at once?
define: I
Either way we are near an Ocean. Atlantic? Pacific? does it really matter?
i guess if you’re blank when it comes to geography… but you don’t strike me as the type to be so blank… at least one of you doesn’t… i don’t get to speak to your other half all that often… (schizo??????)
Half???, dude more than just these names.
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