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December 30, 2010 4:10 pm at 4:10 pm #1073091mikehall12382Member
I think someone should contact Rabbi Moshe David Tendler. He is the rabbi of The Community Synagogue of Monsey. He is a senior Rosh Yeshiva at Yeshiva University’s RIETS and the Rabbi Isaac and Bella Tendler Professor of Jewish Medical Ethics and Professor of Biology at Yeshiva College. He has a Ph.D. in Microbiology and is noted as an expert on Jewish medical ethics and their relationship to Halakha.[1] [3]
you can google him to find out more….something tells me he is OK with college as well
December 30, 2010 4:11 pm at 4:11 pm #1073092CedarhurstMemberDear MikeHall: I very much have “stepped foot on a college campus or took any classes.” Indeed I have spent years on them. And earned a degree in them. And I know of what I speak. And I forgot to add rampant anti-semitism.
A big statement indeed. And a very accurate one.
December 30, 2010 4:29 pm at 4:29 pm #1073093mikehall12382MemberDear Cedarhurst
Not sure which University yoy went to , but my experience was very oposit then yours. As I mentioned above, lets contact Rabbi Moshe David Tendler, in Monsey. I would love to hear his opinion on the matter.
December 30, 2010 4:35 pm at 4:35 pm #1073094gavra_at_workParticipantCedarhurst:
If you saw any of those in Touro, City, Brooklyn, etc. within the past 50 years I would be shocked.
So where did you go to college? And How much do you need to earn to live in the Five Towns?
(directly related to if you need post high ed. in something useful or not, and s/he still hasn’t responded).
December 30, 2010 4:37 pm at 4:37 pm #1073095SJSinNYCMemberMikehall, while I have a lot of respect for Rabbi Tendler, to the Yeshiva World, he is an extremely controversial figure. He also frequently (and publically) disagrees with R’ Elyashiv.
Cedarhurst, where I went to college, there was no antisemitism. There weren’t classes that were breeding grounds for atheism,secularism, militantism, anachorism, and rampant sexual immorality. They had a wide variety of liberal arts classes to take and most of them would pass the “kosher” test. Unless you think European History is immoral to learn?
Maybe its because it was mainly an engineering/technical school.
It was also a great place for frum men because classes were mainly male (I was frequently the only woman in the room), there was an active Jewish Student Union where mincha was available. Professors were very understanding of Jewish holidays. Frequently, I would work with department heads to make sure that classes for majors weren’t scheduled late on friday afternoon.
Sure, if you want to go to a major party school, you can find tons of pritzus. But if you research wise you can choose the right place to get both a good education and not have to worry about your list.
December 30, 2010 4:42 pm at 4:42 pm #1073096rabbiofberlinParticipantIt is sad to see that some of the posters have no clue about our Jewish history. Rav Hildesheimer was the founder and head of the illustruous “Rabbinerseminar” in Berlin and died late in the nineteenth century (1899). To call him ‘a pioneer of modern orthodox judaism’ is not only false but makes no sense as this term has only recently come into vogue (20 years/ 30 years?)
Incidentally, see wikipedia, he was a talmid of the “aruch laner” amongst others.
The fact is that all German gedolim went to university and that the vast majority of german orthodox jews did so too. Their brand of Judaism has survived and prospered. It may be that it was the precursor of “modern orthodoxy” but it had little in common with it(note that German orthodox jewry was mostly anti-zionist)
Rav herzog was chief Rabbi of Israel after rav kook zz’l,was a huge talmid chochom and had the respect of all the chareid gedolim in his time.
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December 30, 2010 5:13 pm at 5:13 pm #1073097HomeownerMemberSeveral people have used the word “anachorism” [sic]. What is the actual word you mean?
December 30, 2010 5:19 pm at 5:19 pm #1073098mikehall12382Member“Mikehall, while I have a lot of respect for Rabbi Tendler, to the Yeshiva World, he is an extremely controversial figure”.
too you, but not for me. Is he controversial because he supports Zionism and went to a secular university? For many ortho Jews that is not an issue at all…I assume Rav Moshe Feinstein had no issue with him as he allowed him to marry his daughter….the bottom line is we have the freedom to follow whom we wish, not everyone is going to agree on every issue, but just because it may be something you may not be comfortable with, does not make it wrong. As Jews we have enough problems with the outside world, the last thing we need is more problems and conflicts from within.
December 30, 2010 5:26 pm at 5:26 pm #1073099YW Moderator-80Memberim guessing anarchism was meant
December 30, 2010 5:26 pm at 5:26 pm #1073100Derech HaMelechMemberrabbiofberlin:
I think you will find my feelings best understood in light of the last paragraph on that same wikipedia page.
I would argue that calling him “a pioneer of modern orthodoxy” is not that difficult to understand when he himself describes his stance as “faithful adherence to traditional teachings combined with an effective effort to keep in touch with the spirit of progress”.
The fact is that a lot of controversy surrounds the German rabbonim because of their stances. Possibly precisely because they went to university.
It is well known that Germany was a bastion for the enlightenment and some may argue that the rabbonim of the country had to make a horo’as sha’a to keep the remaining Jews frum. But out of necessity or not, the large majority of gedolim were against this.
Incidentally, being the talmid of someone is not like a haskamah for a sefer. I’d point your attention to yoshka as the most extreme proof of that. However there are less extreme examples that I can offer as well.
December 30, 2010 5:27 pm at 5:27 pm #1073101SJSinNYCMemberMikehall, he isn’t controversial to me. I grew up in his shul 😀
But to the Yeshiva World, he IS controversial. Yes, Rabbi Tendler learned with Rav Moshe Feinstein and yes he approved of the shidduch.
It doesn’t change the fact that Rabbi Tendler often publicly disagrees with R’ Elyashiv. For the most part, the Yeshiva World holds R’ Elyashiv in much higher regard than Rabbi Tendler.
December 30, 2010 5:28 pm at 5:28 pm #1073102WolfishMusingsParticipantSeveral people have used the word “anachorism” [sic]. What is the actual word you mean?
My guess is that he means “anarchism” (i.e. the idea that there should not be any central authority) or “anachronism” (i.e. the idea that we should go back in time and place futuristic objects in the past — i.e. like giving the Jews AK-47s to fight the Babylonians to prevent the first churban.)
My guess is on the latter. 🙂
The Wolf
December 30, 2010 5:50 pm at 5:50 pm #1073103SJSinNYCMemberI wonder if it means they didn’t go to college 🙂
December 30, 2010 6:01 pm at 6:01 pm #1073104gavra_at_workParticipantMy guess is that he means “anarchism” (i.e. the idea that there should not be any central authority) or “anachronism” (i.e. the idea that we should go back in time and place futuristic objects in the past — i.e. like giving the Jews AK-47s to fight the Babylonians to prevent the first churban.)
My guess is on the latter. 🙂
The Wolf
The Yidden at the time of the churban had much better weapons at their disposal (such as the ability to levitate the city), if you read the Medrashim. They just didn’t help, since Hashem wanted them to lose.
If they had AK-47’s, the bullets would have just plopped out, with the next one complaining how hard it was to push out the first bullet.
December 30, 2010 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #1073105HomeownerMemberWolf said,
. . .”anachronism” (i.e. the idea that we should go back in time and place futuristic objects in the past. . .
This sounds like the plot of a television show called “Star Trek,” assuming that is, that one had a television. Oh wait, I forgot, you can watch it on the internet.
December 30, 2010 6:27 pm at 6:27 pm #1073106gavra_at_workParticipantHomeowner:
Or “A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur’s Court” by Twain.
December 30, 2010 7:38 pm at 7:38 pm #1073107havesomeseichelMemberWhat about the idea that not everyone is a gadol, can be a gadol or will ever get to this coveted status ever? I am not being pessimistic but I try to think of myself as a realist. There are those boys out there who may be “great boys” but just are not “gadol” quality. They may not have any disability or behavioral problem- not everyone is cut out to learn. What are those boys to do? Are they to become janitors?
torahis1- how can you dare say that you don’t rely on what they did before they were gedolim? Is there some sort of award ceremony or pronouncement made “so and so is now “A Gadol”? What is the point you decide someone is a gadol? When you start agreeing with what they say?
December 30, 2010 8:14 pm at 8:14 pm #1073108mikehall12382MemberDid anybody listen to the above mentioned shiur (the beginning of the thread) and cath the name of the Rabbi in Bnei Brak who insisted that all his students go to and get an advance university degree in engineering and related fields. Therfore having apart in saving the life of Lawrence Keleman’s new born child?
December 30, 2010 8:20 pm at 8:20 pm #1073110YW Moderator-80Memberi heard the tape a long time ago
i think the name was something like Rabbi Feur
if this isnt right maybe it will jog your memeory
December 30, 2010 8:22 pm at 8:22 pm #1073111mikehall12382Memberthats it…
December 30, 2010 8:23 pm at 8:23 pm #1073112mikehall12382Memberby the way Rabbi Lawrence Keleman has a undergradute degree from UCLA and masters from Harvard 🙂
December 30, 2010 8:23 pm at 8:23 pm #1073113Derech HaMelechMemberYeah, I think its Rav Feur too.
December 30, 2010 8:41 pm at 8:41 pm #1073114HomeownerMemberGAW, Thank you.
Do you read English-language books, just so I know to whom I am talking? 😉
December 30, 2010 9:11 pm at 9:11 pm #1073115gavra_at_workParticipantHomeowner:
No clue what you are getting at, but I do read (as I have posted on other threads). I believe it is important for a person and well as a yid to be well versed in the classics.
December 30, 2010 9:14 pm at 9:14 pm #1073116charliehallParticipant“For the most part, the Yeshiva World holds R’ Elyashiv in much higher regard than Rabbi Tendler. “
In the shiurim I attend I hear more halachic opinions attributed to R’Tendler than R’Elyashiv.
December 30, 2010 9:16 pm at 9:16 pm #1073117charliehallParticipant“It is well known that Germany was a bastion for the enlightenment and some may argue that the rabbonim of the country had to make a horo’as sha’a to keep the remaining Jews frum.”
That is not what Rav Hirsch himself wrote; he clearly stated that secular education was a good thing on its own merits.
December 30, 2010 9:21 pm at 9:21 pm #1073118charliehallParticipant“It is common knowledge that there is a strong dispute between Rabbi Soloveithchik and many of the Charedi gedolim of the time.”
It is common knowledge that Rav Soloveitchik was very respected by the charedi gedolim, who made him a member of the Moetzes Gedolei HaTorah while he was still in his 30s. He was particularly close to R’Hutner who was his classmate at the University of Berlin, to the Lubavicher Rebbe whom he had also met in Berlin, and to R’Kotler who had him speak at the first Chinuch Atzmai fundraising dinner.
(It should be noted that Rav Soloveitchik’s Zionism was very different from that of Rav Kook.)
December 30, 2010 9:21 pm at 9:21 pm #1073119tzippiMemberIs that Rabbi Feuer of medical referral fame?
December 30, 2010 9:29 pm at 9:29 pm #1073120charliehallParticipant“today are breeding grounds of atheism, secularism, militantism, anachorism, and rampant sexual immorality”
Other than promiscuity, I found none of that when I attended Harvard and Johns Hopkins. And I’m not sure that the promiscuity was any greater than in non-college environments among young adults at the same age who are not living at home.
December 30, 2010 9:38 pm at 9:38 pm #1073121Trying my bestMembercharliehall: Haven’t you previously stated you are a congregant of Rabbi Avi Weiss’ synagogue?
December 30, 2010 10:01 pm at 10:01 pm #1073122Derech HaMelechMemberLook, the point that I was trying to make until now and continue to try to make is that there is a strong dichotomy between many of the Rabbis mentioned in this thread and the majority of what we call Charedi gedolim.
The fact is that certain talmidei chachamim of the previous generation held views that were not widely accepted by the rest of the gedolim. While this did not necessarily affect the high regards that they were given as talmidei chachamim it did preclude their acceptance as leaders of the Charedi people.
So you find today that Rav Kook is primarily associated with the charda”l hesder yeshivahs, despite his previously strong relationship with many Charedi leaders. Rav Soloveitchik is generally associated with the modern-Orthodox YU, despite his great-grandfather, grandfather, father, and brothers having been considered among the preeminent leaders of Charedim.
This being so, the views and actions of these talmidei chachamim and those who have held similar to them are irrelevant to chareidim because they are contrary to those that are and have been counted among the leaders of the Charedi public.
I understand that my views here might seem extreme, perhaps because I have been in E”Y for a number of years already and the borders are much stronger here. However, I think for the most part what I have said in this post generally reflects the views of mainstream Charedi Yeshivos such as Mir, Chain Berlin, Lakewood, Ponovezh etc.
I am not the PR officer for these yeshivos though, this is just a reflection of my understanding of the hashkafa I was taught.
December 30, 2010 10:26 pm at 10:26 pm #1073123HomeownerMemberGAW, I apologize for the confusion; I was trying to be funny, hence the wink. I was alluding to the opening of the “television ownership” CR thread.
December 30, 2010 11:32 pm at 11:32 pm #1073124blueprintsParticipantcharliehall: are you related to mikehall 12345678
December 31, 2010 12:52 am at 12:52 am #1073125iyhbyuMemberKitniyos is 100% assur on pesach!
That is what alot of you sound like. If your Rav holds that college is assur-then great. I don’t think there are many today who would make such a blanket statement, and more would evaluate each person individually, but either way, there are legitimate Rabbonim who hold otherwise. Are any of you poskim? I don’t think so. This is such a ridiculous argument. Who cares whether or not there are current gedolim who went to college? The requirements of being a Gadol don’t require college. There aren’t any Gedolim who are mechanics. Does that mean it’s assur to be a mechanic. (I’d also like to mention that I don’t know many gedolim who have internet.)
A lot of you are displaying tremendous ignorance. Maybe when R’ Moshe made that speech, college was only needed for getting a Cadillac but nowadays just paying for the basics and tuition alone is incredibly hard to do without college.
Just who do you think you are? How many of you models of perfection are supporting a family without having gone to college? How many of you aren’t being supported either directly or indirectly by people who went to college?
If you are than you have zero right to speak. Would you take money from someone who made their money in drugs or worse? Then why are you taking this money? You are just providing incentive for more people to go to college.
I’m going to be dan l’kaf zchus and assume that most of you are 15, and wish you much Hatzlacha when you get older.
December 31, 2010 1:33 am at 1:33 am #1073126Trying my bestMemberSpeech from Rav Elya Svei:
It says further, in Targum Yonoson, that one should not be a false witness. I want to stop here. In public life here in Brooklyn, there is false testimony. We have merited, through blood and sweat and with the Almighty’s help, to establish large Yeshivos for the boys and Bais Yaakovs for the girls. And these schools produced students of whom all can be proud. But then someone comes and says that they are still incomplete. When the boys go out of the Yeshiva, they are still not finished — they still need more studies: they still have to go to “Touro College” to be well-rounded. That is the biggest false testimony against the Torah. The boys do not need such “completeness”.
One is not allowed to be friends with them! One is not allowed to be partners with them! What will be with our children? From where will our great Torah leaders come? From Touro College they will not come! And mothers of Gedolei Torah will also not come from Touro College, because the Gemorrah says that to merit children who will become Gedolei Yisroel, one has to have modesty. And modesty cannot be acquired in Touro College!
December 31, 2010 1:40 am at 1:40 am #1073127popa_bar_abbaParticipantI don’t understand this thread.
It seems as if the debate is whether we can prove that gedolim support going to college since many people who the posters here consider gedolim, went to college.
If the Novominsker went to college, it was before he was the Novominsker. I don’t rely on the the 20 year old Nachum Pelow, even if he was probably a nice boy. I rely on the Novominsker Rebbe as he is who he is today.
So I don’t understand what the proof is.
Maybe we should just debate the merits.
December 31, 2010 1:48 am at 1:48 am #1073128Trying my bestMemberThe Chasam Sofer in Parshas Beshalach states clearly that certain secular knowledge is useful for learning certain Torah topics, such as cow anatomy being useful for shechitah, and arithmetic for Eruvin and Sukkah. But that before we embark on obtaining secular knowledge – and of course that means only to the extent that it is useful for our Torah studies – we must first fill ourselves with Torah-only knowledge. After we are strong in Torah, only then can we move to acquire the useful secular knowledge that we need for our Torah studies.
He quotes the Rambam, who he describes as “the father of philosophy” in our religion, in Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah, stating that a person may not learn philosophy until after he has “filled his stomach” with Shas and Poskim, which are the things, and only the things, that bring us Olam Habah. Then he quotes the Rashba, saying that there is a cherem against learning any secular studies if you are under age 25! The he quotes the Gemora in Brachos “Keep your children away from science” (higayon, as some meforshim translate it), noting that the Gemora is directing its prohibition at “your children”, but not at the adults, for adults, who are already advanced in Torah knowledge, need some secular knowledge, such as cow biology (I keep emphasizing that so that we do not make the error of thinking that the secular knowledge that we need is a college education). But it is dangerous for us to pursue it until we are armed and ready with a Torah foundation. This is because someone with a Torah perspective looks at the value and culture of of secular studies differently than does someone ignorant of Torah. And we do want to get the proper perspective.
It’s kind of like firemen putting out a fire. They have to (a) dress in their heat-resistant protective outfits, and (b) run into the fire and put it out. But of course, they have to do it in the right order.
And that is indeed what it boils down to – do we value the Torah’s standards of education more than that of the secular world or vice versa? The choice is simple: All the secular “education” that you get will be useless to you in the next world. There, they will not ask you if you know how many US presidents were re-elected in history, or whether you are familiar with the policies of Chairman Mao, or if you know how to program a computer. They will bring a Sefer Torah scroll to you and ask “do you know what it says in here?” The more you know of that, the more you will be considered “educated”. The less you know, the more you will be considered ignorant. So the question is – do I want to be educated on this world or on the next?
And please note, there is no minimum threshold for the amount of Torah you are obligated to know. The rule is: more is better; less is worse. And the difference between just a little more and a little less is staggering. As the Vilna Gaon points out, one word of Torah knowledge gives you more holiness than an entire lifetime’s worth of doing other Mitzvos.
And here we thought that a secular education is expensive! Its much more expensive than you think – you can acquire it only at the expense of your time and effort that you could have been putting toward becoming educated in Olam Habah.
Two things, though. First, the prohibition is only to learn secular studies as a regular curriculum. To read about them occasionally in your spare time is permitted.
December 31, 2010 1:52 am at 1:52 am #1073129OfcourseMemberPreaching no college works for Chassidim and the Ultra Ultra Yeshivish, who are either willing to take blue collar jobs or are ready to live with hand me downs and whatever they get from Gmachs.
Most Lutvak- Lakewood guys I know, these days, would rather ________ (Id rather not say it) than work at a blue collar jobs or live the “Relying on Gmachs” lifestyle with hand-me-downs, etc.
The Shtaitel mentality of being Sameach b’Chelko, with bread and water and hand-me-downs, is no longer.
December 31, 2010 1:55 am at 1:55 am #1073130Trying my bestMemberIn Michtavim U’Maamaromim 5:533 (pg. 137) Rav Shach further writes that citing the success of those people who were able to achieve greatness in Torah despite their involvement in secular studies are the “ma’aseh satan” for using such examples will entice others to follow suit, only to be doomed.
December 31, 2010 2:34 am at 2:34 am #1073131farrockgrandmaParticipantIs the problem really the college education, or the ‘college experience?’ There are (at least) two ways to make it work – the Jewish colleges – YU, Stern, Touro, or night classes. I took night classes at a community college several years ago. The student mix there were not a very high class group, but they generally were several years older, held down a daytime job, and took the college very seriously. None of that fun and games stuff going on there. If a full-time daytime program looks like the way to go, our community is large enough and diverse enough that you should be able to find someone who has been there and can tell you what to expect.
December 31, 2010 2:55 am at 2:55 am #1073132WolfishMusingsParticipantThe Yidden at the time of the churban had much better weapons at their disposal (such as the ability to levitate the city), if you read the Medrashim. They just didn’t help, since Hashem wanted them to lose.
If they had AK-47’s, the bullets would have just plopped out, with the next one complaining how hard it was to push out the first bullet.
For Heaven’s sake, it was only a joke. Ease up.
The Wolf
December 31, 2010 3:55 am at 3:55 am #1073133mikehall12382MemberTMB…”charliehall: Haven’t you previously stated you are a congregant of Rabbi Avi Weiss’ synagogue?”
Do YOU really want to go down that road?
December 31, 2010 3:56 am at 3:56 am #1073134mikehall12382MemberI am not related to CharlieHall, but from his posts I like his train of thought.
December 31, 2010 8:49 pm at 8:49 pm #1073136iyhbyuMemberCare to respond to my post?
January 1, 2011 6:02 pm at 6:02 pm #1073137Derech HaMelechMemberofcourse:
The Shtaitel mentality of being Sameach b’Chelko, with bread and water and hand-me-downs, is no longer.
I cordially invite you to come visit the Land of Israel. Here you will be able to witness first hand in a number of communities such as geulah, meah shearim, mekor baruch, mattersdorf, unsdorf, kiryat sefer, beitar, sanhedriya, etc. many many MANY individuals- both native born Yerushalmis and born and bred Americans, doing EXACTLY this. I have a friend who is renting an apartment from a landlord who was raised in that same apartment with his 7 siblings. It has ONE BEDROOM the size of your bathroom.
Your statement sounds like the goyim who say the Torah is too hard to keep. Pas b’melach tuchal and sameach b’chelko are not laws of the Torah, but they are also not impossible to keep.
January 2, 2011 5:14 am at 5:14 am #1073138charliehallParticipant“are you related to mikehall 12345678 “
As far as I know we are not related.
“First, the prohibition is only to learn secular studies as a regular curriculum. “
As the many gedolim who attended university prove, there is no such prohibition.
“we do not make the error of thinking that the secular knowledge that we need is a college education”
Instead we make the error of thinking that we don’t need Jewish physicians, engineers, or scientists. Rambam and Sforno worked as physicians, the Lubavicher Rebbe worked as an engineer, and Rav Herzog discovered the source for techelit.
“you can acquire it only at the expense of your time and effort that you could have been putting toward becoming educated in Olam Habah”
To the contrary, you will understand and appreciate Chazal’s science more if you know something about Greek science. You won’t understand Rambam if you don’t know something about both Aristotle and the Islamic philosophers. You will understand and appreciate Rav Lichtenstein’s torah if you have know about Milton, Blake, and Newman. You will understand Rav Hirsch better if you have heard about Kant and Hegel. And you will not be able to dismiss Rav Tendler if you have a biology background.
January 2, 2011 5:31 am at 5:31 am #1073139charliehallParticipant‘ people who were able to achieve greatness in Torah despite their involvement in secular studies are the “ma’aseh satan”‘
Rambam was the ma’aseh satan???? Well, I do recall that people did burn his books.
“it is dangerous for us to pursue it until we are armed and ready with a Torah foundation”
This may well be true! If you look at the many pre-20th century university-educated gedolim I have listed, every single one was a talmid chacham *prior* to embarking on university education. And
19 year olds are indeed very susceptible to the latest intellectual fads and will rationalize almost anything in an try to make it (incorrectly) fit into their worldview. That so many educated frum Jews espouse political and economic philosophies that owe more to Ayn Rand than to Moshe Rabbeinu is one example of this. I personally think most students would do well to wait before embarking on university studies.
However, it should also be pointed out that the YU/Touro/Bar Ilan models have clearly produced gedolim. For example, Rav Schachter and Rav Lichtenstein have undergraduate degrees from YU.
January 2, 2011 5:32 am at 5:32 am #1073140charliehallParticipant“charliehall: Haven’t you previously stated you are a congregant of Rabbi Avi Weiss’ synagogue?”
Yes, but I don’t know what that has to do with this thread.
January 2, 2011 5:53 am at 5:53 am #1073141Trying my bestMemberYes, but I don’t know what that has to do with this thread.
It explains your above (and in other threads) “hashkofos”.
This may well be true! If you look at the many pre-20th century university-educated gedolim I have listed, every single one was a talmid chacham *prior* to embarking on university education.
Okay, so make sure all the college applicants are a Talmid Chochom already first, and we may be able to bridge much of our divide.
January 2, 2011 6:39 am at 6:39 am #1073142iyhbyuMember@derechhamelech
I in fact went to one of the yeshivas whose views you claim you represent. I went to college (a touro type institution) as a necessary evil and consulted my Rabbeim every step of the way. These days college is a necessary evil in the same way that the job itself is, though it’s not just for a doctor but for most jobs. the evil isn’t as much the hashkafas that are talked about as much as it is time spent not learning. I really don’t think I have a problem with what you are saying, rather those (and I think tryingmybest has this view and correct me if I’m wrong) who say college is assur for everyone no matter what.
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