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August 12, 2016 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #1179117MenoParticipant
Sparkly,
I’d rather not give too much info about myself.
Yes, mostly physics and math and some biology and chem classes.
August 12, 2016 6:37 pm at 6:37 pm #1179118SparklyMemberMeno – i understand.
August 12, 2016 7:29 pm at 7:29 pm #1179119Sam2ParticipantSparkly: All throughout high school and several college-level courses. I have also tutored high school and college students in biology and chemistry.
August 12, 2016 9:30 pm at 9:30 pm #1179120SparklyMemberSam2 – do you have a degree in any kind of science? high school science is not counted as taking science no offense. people barley learn anything in high school compared to college.
August 15, 2016 2:22 am at 2:22 am #1179122LightbriteParticipantThanks for the heads up Sparkly 🙂
August 15, 2016 3:00 am at 3:00 am #1179123Abba_SParticipantScience is the study of nature. The concept of nature is the denial of g-d. The vast majority of scientists are atheist. Religious Catholics who are trying to have their children taught creationism in public school but are being opposed by your scientists. Are there some Religious Scientist? Yes. The same logic that says smoking causes cancer can be used to say the study of science causes atheism.
August 15, 2016 3:53 am at 3:53 am #1179124hiram king of tyreMemberi smoke and am pretty religious dont think im otd
August 15, 2016 3:55 am at 3:55 am #1179125hiram king of tyreMemberi dont understand the label otd, as jews we do many things and are not allowed to do many other things. some ppl have failings in some things and some in others but we are all jews tryting to be good jews so why the hate and labeling
August 15, 2016 3:57 am at 3:57 am #1179126SparklyMemberhiram king of tyre- what do you consider pretty religious?
Abba_S – not true because everything in science proves that their has to have been a G-d, Hashem who created it.
August 15, 2016 3:58 am at 3:58 am #1179127hiram king of tyreMembernone of us is perfect so one action does not define who we are. so if u have a hangup about smoking (its debatable whether its assur or not) then please refrain from broad brush painting ppl
August 15, 2016 4:02 am at 4:02 am #1179128🍫Syag LchochmaParticipanthiram – I don’t think she means to hate with her labeling. She just seems to perseverate a lot on otd and mo and it kinda comes up in all the conversations. I feel bad for newcomers cuz it sounds kinda insulting but I know that if the mods don’t let the posts thru they get blamed for that too.
August 15, 2016 4:04 am at 4:04 am #1179129SparklyMemberSyag Lchochma – that is true i do NOT try to insult people sorry if i did.
August 15, 2016 4:05 am at 4:05 am #1179130hiram king of tyreMembersyag hear that no offense taken personally, just dont think think its a rational forum with that kind of talk
August 15, 2016 4:12 am at 4:12 am #1179131SparklyMemberhiram king of tyre – im sorry if you feel that way. but others disagree. im assuming your a guy getting offended because thats what we were referring to? maybe you want to tell us why we shouldnt consider “frum” boys who smoke not otd?
August 15, 2016 2:45 pm at 2:45 pm #1179132HealthParticipanthiram king of tyre -“(its debatable whether its assur or not)”
It’s Not debatable, just there are a lot of people who are in denial about the fact that addicted to smoking is a big Aveira!
August 15, 2016 2:46 pm at 2:46 pm #1179133SparklyMemberHealth – that is true and it sounds like hiram king of tyre smokes and feels bad about it.
August 15, 2016 11:44 pm at 11:44 pm #1179134shaulykaganMemberAnyone who says smoking is OTD is completely messed up because it may be wrong, unhealthy, stupid, or dangerous but it does not make someone OTD!!!!!!!!
August 16, 2016 3:53 am at 3:53 am #1179136SparklyMembershaulykagan – why do you say that?
August 16, 2016 8:56 am at 8:56 am #1179137Abba_SParticipantHealth- Some of the Greatest people (Rosh Hayeshavas) smoked in previous generations. Are you saying that they too are sinners? There is a Gammarah in Chullin concerning the donkey of R’ Pincos Ben Yair, that G-d wouldn’t let it eat grain that wasn’t tithed because it was a sin, so surely G-d wouldn’t permit the Tzadick to sin. But you hold that these Saintly Rabbis who smoked are sinners, you are rewriting history.
August 16, 2016 10:14 am at 10:14 am #1179138Person1MemberNobody is perfect. Smoking is bad but you can’t define the whole person by one traithabit. You can’t judge someone’s yiras shomaim by a single trait or habit.
And what does it mean “considered otd ” should they be despised as otd? Well are you supposed to hate otd people?
Or does it mean they are at risk of abandoning the torah? That doesn’t make sense.
Or does it mean the community shouldn’t condone smoking and smokers? The western world is going in that direction. I don’t like it myself. I think individuality is more important than health risks. But I can live with that.
Many frum people think they know the single formula to being a good jew (“?? ????? ??????? ?? ???”) some say it’s not having a computer and internet. Others say it’s never having a job and staying in kolel all your life. Now I heard about not smoking being the most important. The fact is the torah is bigger than any of that.
August 16, 2016 1:27 pm at 1:27 pm #1179139SparklyMemberPerson1 – when did i say that?
August 16, 2016 1:47 pm at 1:47 pm #1179140kaganysMemberSparkly- I say that because it just happens to be that smoking is not OTD. If u said it was OTD to drive a car I would say your messed up so too here u say smoking is OTD so I’m saying that your messed up
August 16, 2016 1:52 pm at 1:52 pm #1179141Abba_SParticipantI would like to apologize for my comments regarding someones ability to write. My criticism didn’t correct the problem and so serves no purpose. I am sorry if you were offended.
Smokers now a days are rebelling against society, if you treat them badly or even call them OTD, that maybe the straw that breaks the camel’s back and causes them to really go OTD.
August 16, 2016 2:05 pm at 2:05 pm #1179142HealthParticipantAbba-S -“Health- Some of the Greatest people (Rosh Hayeshavas) smoked in previous generations. Are you saying that they too are sinners? But you hold that these Saintly Rabbis who smoked are sinners, you are rewriting history.”
Your whole post is Absurd! The length that some people will go to defend smokers & smoking.
First of all, who said smoking was dangerous back then?!?
A lot of sickness is probably from the additives that’s in the cig.
Secondly, maybe it was B’shogeg? Even Moshe Rabbeynu did Aveira.
August 16, 2016 8:50 pm at 8:50 pm #1179143SparklyMemberkaganys – you do not call someone messed up that is a HUGE insult.
Abba_S – im not saying go up to all yeshiva guys that smoke and tell them their otd. i would NEVER do that. also the guys that i know arent that type to smoke b’h.
August 17, 2016 1:29 am at 1:29 am #1179144WolfishMusingsParticipantI would say your messed up
I’m saying that your messed up
I’m saying that your grammar is messed up.
(Try using “you’re” instead.)
The Wolf
August 17, 2016 2:05 am at 2:05 am #1179145kaganysMemberSparkly-It’s a BIGGER insult to call someone OTD
August 17, 2016 2:11 am at 2:11 am #1179146kaganysMemberAnd by the way, many of the rabbonim Lakewood smoke 3 packs a day
August 17, 2016 2:32 am at 2:32 am #1179147SparklyMemberWolfishMusings – how do you consider that NOT an insult?
August 17, 2016 2:40 am at 2:40 am #1179148WolfishMusingsParticipantWolfishMusings – how do you consider that NOT an insult?
I don’t believe I commented on whether it was an insult one way or the other. All I did was correct the person’s spelling.
The Wolf
August 17, 2016 2:51 am at 2:51 am #1179149WolfishMusingsParticipantAnd by the way, many of the rabbonim Lakewood smoke 3 packs a day
Is that an argument in favor of smoking? All it proves is that even the biggest talmidei chachamim can do stupid things.
The Wolf
August 17, 2016 3:02 am at 3:02 am #1179150SparklyMemberkaganys – how so? i think this is giving me a want to argue this out with the guy that i said that i was arguing with him before about how i said smoking is bad and only not frum boys smoke and he was arguing with me.
WolfishMusings – that is an insult.
August 17, 2016 3:08 am at 3:08 am #1179151WolfishMusingsParticipantWolfishMusings – that is an insult.
Why? Do you think that intelligent people (and even righteous people) are somehow immune from making very poor (and, yes, stupid) decisions?
An insult would be calling the person stupid him/herself. I did not (and would not) do that. But calling a specific action stupid or wrong is not an insult.
Just to bring the point home — my mother smoked. It was a stupid thing for her to do. But she, herself was not stupid.
The Wolf
August 17, 2016 3:40 am at 3:40 am #1179153SparklyMemberWolfishMusings – never said that. i was just saying that i got insulted.
-Sparkly with glitters and glue
August 17, 2016 3:47 am at 3:47 am #1179155kaganysMemberI was kidding about that
August 17, 2016 12:24 pm at 12:24 pm #1179157WolfishMusingsParticipantWolfishMusings – never said that. i was just saying that i got insulted.
My apologies. I misunderstood what you were saying.
The Wolf
August 17, 2016 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #1179158SparklyMemberWolfishMusings – its fine.
–Sparkly with glitters and glue
August 17, 2016 6:54 pm at 6:54 pm #1179159Person1MemberSparkly what I meant is that it’s ok to say smoking is wrong and that asur. But if you say people who smoke are otd you make the torah about one thing. Suppose I said: “People who have smartphons should be considered otd” (some people would say that) how would you react?
August 17, 2016 7:15 pm at 7:15 pm #1179160SparklyMemberPerson1 – i would say your out of your mind. but thats VERY different.
August 17, 2016 7:37 pm at 7:37 pm #1179161MenoParticipantSparkly,
I don’t see how that’s very different. Perhaps a little different, but not much.
If you assume that smoking is assur, and that smartphones are assur, then what Person1 said is very similar to what you said.
August 17, 2016 7:43 pm at 7:43 pm #1179162Person1MemberSparkly I don’t like to have to guess what you mean and answer accordingly. If you want to argue please state your opinion clearly. This is just a waste of time.
August 17, 2016 7:54 pm at 7:54 pm #1179163SparklyMemberMeno – please explain how smartphones are assur because i dont think their assur. smoking is pikuach nefesh so it is assur.
August 17, 2016 8:30 pm at 8:30 pm #1179164MenoParticipantSparkly,
First of all, I said “if you assume smartphones are assur…”
I never said they are assur, but there are those who say that they are.
Secondly, smoking is not pikuach nefesh. If it were pikuach nefesh then it would be permissible for one to be mechalel shabbos in order to stop another person from smoking. Since we all know that it is not permissible to do so, the logical deduction is that smoking is not pikuach nefesh. QED
August 17, 2016 8:35 pm at 8:35 pm #1179165Person1MemberSparkly just take another example: someone who listens to music on sfirat a’omer, or a guy who listens to female singers, or someone who speaks lashon arah. Surely you can find one example.
It’s obvious that you feel strongly about smoking but that’s no reason to throw words. It’s a great way to provoke but a bad way to convey a messages.
As for why I think smartphones are asur we could continue this in the off-topic thread if you like.
August 17, 2016 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm #1179166SparklyMemberPerson1 – okay please start it there.
August 17, 2016 9:42 pm at 9:42 pm #1179167Person1MemberI tried to start it there but it got deleted. I’m not sure whether it was because of the content or the place. You can try opening the subject there if you like (and maybe you can even explain why do you think they aren’t asur) and if your post isn’t deleted then we know it’s safe to carry on.
August 18, 2016 1:23 am at 1:23 am #1179169kaganysMemberSmartphones are not assur they r 100% ????
And u c we have proof from the Torah that smoking is not pikuach nefesh
August 18, 2016 1:54 am at 1:54 am #1179170SparklyMemberkaganys – wheres the proof?
August 18, 2016 1:57 am at 1:57 am #1179171WolfishMusingsParticipantAnd u c we have proof from the Torah that smoking is not pikuach nefesh
OK, I’ll bite. I’d love to hear this. What’s the proof from the Torah that smoking isn’t dangerous?
The Wolf
August 18, 2016 2:11 am at 2:11 am #1179172🍫Syag LchochmaParticipantWolf – I think it’s in the pasuk right after the one that says smartphones are 100% mutar
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