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February 1, 2015 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm #1057177FFBBT613Member
I’m so sorry! I just want you to know that there are other people in your situation- you’re not alone at all. I can totally relate, & honestly, most people have no idea that I really have no friends! Sometimes it’s much better to be in your own company than false company.
February 1, 2015 2:43 pm at 2:43 pm #1057178flatbusherParticipantI am truly sorry to hear this. I know what it’s like to be friendless, but I also had to do inner self evaluation to see what I was doing to be in that situation. I don’t know you or your situation, but I suspect two things: It’s not your hearing issues that is a problem, and perhaps you have also rebuffed friendly overtures from people. Do you tend to be needy and clingy to someone who wants to be friends? From my experience, I know that is a turnoff. It happened to me in my youth and I learned to give people their space even if it meant I was alone or lonely. So take a piece of paper and write down what you see as your weaknesses in forming friendships and what you offer, and then build on those strengths.
February 1, 2015 2:43 pm at 2:43 pm #1057179Rema711MemberC.I. Boy I will be ur friend
February 1, 2015 3:03 pm at 3:03 pm #1057180Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantMe too, I have been there.
Welcome FFBBT613!!!!
February 1, 2015 5:09 pm at 5:09 pm #1057182flatbusherParticipantIt’s a shame there is no way to get in touch with people who post here.
February 1, 2015 6:03 pm at 6:03 pm #1057183Rema711Memberflatbusher yea there is
February 1, 2015 6:25 pm at 6:25 pm #1057184Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantNo there isn’t…
What way?
February 1, 2015 7:53 pm at 7:53 pm #1057185flatbusherParticipantI notice that this thread began 6 months ago and FFBT613 picked up on it just a few hours ago even though the original poster doesn’t appear to be around, or at least he hasn’t posted in response to anything. I think people should be more careful about restarting old threads.
February 1, 2015 8:43 pm at 8:43 pm #1057186Rema711Memberflatbusher me too
February 1, 2015 10:22 pm at 10:22 pm #1057187👑RebYidd23ParticipantThere is a way. You put a classified ad in the paper.
February 2, 2015 12:05 am at 12:05 am #1057188kj chusidParticipantI would give anyone who wants my number from here it i would post it. I have no problem
February 2, 2015 12:53 am at 12:53 am #1057190flatbusherParticipantModerators won’t let you
February 2, 2015 1:41 am at 1:41 am #1057191kj chusidParticipantI know
February 2, 2015 2:59 am at 2:59 am #1057192Rema711Memberkj chusid unless u become a mod but…
February 2, 2015 5:33 am at 5:33 am #1057193kj chusidParticipantAh levai
February 2, 2015 6:08 am at 6:08 am #1057194Rema711Memberkj chusid do u like living in kj
February 2, 2015 6:18 am at 6:18 am #1057195kj chusidParticipantYea it’s nice
February 2, 2015 6:42 am at 6:42 am #1057196Rema711Memberkj chusid do u own a big house in kj
February 2, 2015 7:00 am at 7:00 am #1057197Yayin Yashan B’Kli ChadashParticipantKj chusid i was just in kj and i think i saw you. You were by the 4:35 minchah, in the back left corner, on your phone? Of course i have no clue what you look like,i just saw that guy and thought of you.
February 2, 2015 7:05 am at 7:05 am #1057198Yayin Yashan B’Kli ChadashParticipantAnd CI Boy: you always have friends here on the CR. Anyone who believes in Hashem is a friend of ours here. We don’t see anyone, so we don’t get to discriminate based on chitzonios.
February 2, 2015 1:03 pm at 1:03 pm #1057199Rema711Memberyayin yashan bkli chadash did u take a pic of kj chusid
February 2, 2015 4:40 pm at 4:40 pm #1057200kj chusidParticipantI daven in bnei yoel shul and I don’t take my phone out in public
February 2, 2015 5:33 pm at 5:33 pm #1057201kj chusidParticipantAnd no I have a decent home but nothing that fancy
February 2, 2015 6:19 pm at 6:19 pm #1057202Rema711Memberkj chusid so u walk a few minutes to get to shul
February 2, 2015 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #1057203oomisParticipantI like to think that we are all friends here, just that most of us have not met each other IRL. Sometimes it is easier to be friends with people whom we do not see, especially when we are shy. I would hope that people feel comfortable in the CR to express themselves (respectfully, of course) on most any subject, and about their feelings.
February 2, 2015 6:24 pm at 6:24 pm #1057204Yayin Yashan B’Kli ChadashParticipantIs it assur to have a smartphone in kj?
February 2, 2015 6:25 pm at 6:25 pm #1057205Yayin Yashan B’Kli ChadashParticipantAnd i was in yetev lev, so it wasn’t you.
February 2, 2015 6:39 pm at 6:39 pm #1057206Rema711Memberkj chusid u aren’t allowed to own a smartphone in kj
February 2, 2015 6:42 pm at 6:42 pm #1057207kj chusidParticipantI never went inside over there and plenty of people have smartphones
February 4, 2015 4:39 pm at 4:39 pm #1057225a maminParticipantCI Boy : Didn’t mean to go off topic, how are you doing???
February 4, 2015 5:30 pm at 5:30 pm #1057226flatbusherParticipantA mamin, dont know if you noticed but CI Boy first posted 6 months ago and from what I can tell has not commented on any of ther recent posts.
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