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I’m so sorry! I just want you to know that there are other people in your situation- you’re not alone at all. I can totally relate, & honestly, most people have no idea that I really have no friends! Sometimes it’s much better to be in your own company than false company.
I am truly sorry to hear this. I know what it’s like to be friendless, but I also had to do inner self evaluation to see what I was doing to be in that situation. I don’t know you or your situation, but I suspect two things: It’s not your hearing issues that is a problem, and perhaps you have also rebuffed friendly overtures from people. Do you tend to be needy and clingy to someone who wants to be friends? From my experience, I know that is a turnoff. It happened to me in my youth and I learned to give people their space even if it meant I was alone or lonely. So take a piece of paper and write down what you see as your weaknesses in forming friendships and what you offer, and then build on those strengths.
C.I. Boy I will be ur friend
Me too, I have been there.
Welcome FFBBT613!!!!
It’s a shame there is no way to get in touch with people who post here.
flatbusher yea there is
No there isn’t…
What way?
I notice that this thread began 6 months ago and FFBT613 picked up on it just a few hours ago even though the original poster doesn’t appear to be around, or at least he hasn’t posted in response to anything. I think people should be more careful about restarting old threads.
flatbusher me too
There is a way. You put a classified ad in the paper.
I would give anyone who wants my number from here it i would post it. I have no problem
Moderators won’t let you
I know
kj chusid unless u become a mod but…
Ah levai
kj chusid do u like living in kj
Yea it’s nice
kj chusid do u own a big house in kj
Kj chusid i was just in kj and i think i saw you. You were by the 4:35 minchah, in the back left corner, on your phone? Of course i have no clue what you look like,i just saw that guy and thought of you.
And CI Boy: you always have friends here on the CR. Anyone who believes in Hashem is a friend of ours here. We don’t see anyone, so we don’t get to discriminate based on chitzonios.
yayin yashan bkli chadash did u take a pic of kj chusid
I daven in bnei yoel shul and I don’t take my phone out in public
And no I have a decent home but nothing that fancy
kj chusid so u walk a few minutes to get to shul
I like to think that we are all friends here, just that most of us have not met each other IRL. Sometimes it is easier to be friends with people whom we do not see, especially when we are shy. I would hope that people feel comfortable in the CR to express themselves (respectfully, of course) on most any subject, and about their feelings.
Is it assur to have a smartphone in kj?
And i was in yetev lev, so it wasn’t you.
kj chusid u aren’t allowed to own a smartphone in kj
I never went inside over there and plenty of people have smartphones
CI Boy : Didn’t mean to go off topic, how are you doing???
A mamin, dont know if you noticed but CI Boy first posted 6 months ago and from what I can tell has not commented on any of ther recent posts.
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