For The Right Reason

I remember when I was going out with someone in another state. I stayed by a nice host while going out. The host didn’t like the character or this person. She told me that she knows that I want to get married, but I shouldn’t do it just for the sake of being married. It has to be the right person. She’s right, when we marry, it’s for life. We need to do it Wisely. —

I went out with someone that I was infatuated with and it was nice at first, I liked the person so much. But then there were issues with insecurity and control. It didn’t work and we walked away. Pay attention to red flags. Of course, not everything is a red flag, so ask someone whether or not this or that is normal.

Also, there are a lot of nice people that get ignored because they are not considered interesting, or have good yichus, or look a bit nerdy etc. We should look past that and see the inside. They might be the one who would make a great partner.