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August 11, 2011 8:39 pm at 8:39 pm #598578adorableParticipant
thought about this because of the WIC thread. does anyone here have food stamps? can you explain me why so many people are so embarrased when they pay in the store with their food stamps credit card? also, is it honest to buy ice cream and take out food with your food stamps? if you can afford that, how can you be “poor” enough honestly (with reporting ALL the money that you make) to buy that stuff?
August 11, 2011 8:53 pm at 8:53 pm #798970HachamMemberI have no qualms at all using food stamps. And since the law allows any food items (other than prepared food i.e. restaurant), it can be used for any food items.
August 11, 2011 11:34 pm at 11:34 pm #798971☕️coffee addictParticipantwhy wouldn’t it be honest to give your kid a treat now or then
August 12, 2011 1:50 am at 1:50 am #798972squeakParticipantWhy are people embarrassed? We have made excuses for ourselves. We have degraded ourselves by freely accepting these types of assistances that are intended to provide for the helpless. We have failed to look past the free lunch and see what it says about us as a society. Chaval. V’Hakesef Ya’aneh es Hakol.
At least a little busha at the checkout counter can’t hurt. The middah of busha is vital to Klal Yisroel.
August 12, 2011 2:20 am at 2:20 am #798973mom12Participantdepends which neiborhood you in.
I am not embarrassed. sometimes there is too much month at the end of the money.. and we a little hungry..
August 12, 2011 2:24 am at 2:24 am #798974ObaminatorMemberYou should have the same busha to use a food stamp card that you have using a credit card. No more, no less.
Should an oni be made to have busha if he pays for his milk and bread with tzedakah provided him? That’s not the Jewish way. There is a reason tzedakah is specifically given btznius.
August 12, 2011 1:36 pm at 1:36 pm #798975adorableParticipanthas anyone ever seen the busha that I am talking about
August 12, 2011 4:30 pm at 4:30 pm #798976kakoParticipantI think it depends whether or not the person really qualifies for that assistance.
August 12, 2011 4:38 pm at 4:38 pm #798977ObaminatorMemberIf he qualifies he shouldn’t have any busha from his poverty. If he doesn’t qualify and lied to get it, he won’t have any busha anyways.
August 15, 2011 6:54 pm at 6:54 pm #798978☕️coffee addictParticipantwhy do you say so, a person should strive not to accept handouts and it’s good to have busha while he is still in that matzav
August 15, 2011 10:19 pm at 10:19 pm #798979bptParticipant” has anyone ever seen the busha that I am talking about “
I live in what might be called the “Food Stamps Capitol” of the jewish world, and not once, did I ever see someone feel uncomfortable using the card. In fact, they sneer and folks like me for being “dumb” enought to pay for things with real money.
Maybe I’m shopping in the wrong stores, but when you whip out the EBT card and pass it to the cashier with a hand sparkling with a 1.5 carat stone, (set in platinum, of course), its really hard to see the busha.
I can see your point when it comes to tomche shabbos packages. That’s a real tough choice, and the kids on the block can be a real source of pain. But to buy nosh and convenience foods? No, that’s not busha. That’s contempt.
Are there poor people out there? Of course there are. I know several of them.
Are there people who are milking the system? You bet. Those are the ones that make the cashier at Walmart say the things they say about us.
August 15, 2011 10:42 pm at 10:42 pm #798980600 Kilo BearMemberFood shtemps, food shtemps far alle Yidden
Food shtemps in velfare, s’iz shtark tzi frid’n
Food shtemps in yeder Yiddishe geshtelt
Fin Fetter Shmeel nem’n mir inzerer gelt!
(Niggunei Creedmoor)
August 15, 2011 10:53 pm at 10:53 pm #798981600 Kilo BearMemberbpt, you really are a sucker! I know a place where you can get a 1.5 carat stone ring set in platinum with an EBT card! What’s more, it might be the same one that disappeared from your neighbor’s house a few weeks ago.
August 15, 2011 11:02 pm at 11:02 pm #798982deiyezoogerMemberWhen this thread gets closed (like it happend to the WIC thread) we can start one about section 8….
August 15, 2011 11:12 pm at 11:12 pm #798983600 Kilo BearMemberSection 8? You mean Parshas Shmini? The only part of the Torah that people say was written by Fetter Shmeel?
August 15, 2011 11:59 pm at 11:59 pm #798984HealthParticipantHey , this topic answers the other topic of Derech Halimud. How come they can’t get past Daf Zein here, the whole Zman? Because everyday they have another appt. -First it’s Food Stamps, Next it’s Jersey Care, then it’s WIC and of course don’t forget Parshas Shmini, which is a Chiyuv D’oorysa to get (A whole Parsha dedicated to HUD)!
August 16, 2011 1:32 am at 1:32 am #798985happiestMemberMy parents get food stamps legitimately and yes, when using it is kind of embarrassing. You are advertising to the world and very often the more well to do people (cuz it always happens that they’re the ones right in back of you on the checkout line) that you are in a hard financial situation. I don’t know. It’s not something that I want to advertise even though it might be known about my family.
We could be looking at it from the wrong perspective and if we are, please feel free to correct it but for now this is our feelings.
August 16, 2011 2:27 am at 2:27 am #798986always runs with scissors fastParticipantI go without a lot of things in my home, cupboard and kitchen. And yet we will not take welfare, food stamps or tomche shabbos. Every cent coming in our house is kosher, And BELIEVE Me you can count the money coming in in CENTS. My husband is not a professional. Oh he’s professional alright if you count being a professional a shlepping-blue-collar-worker making a bit above minimum wage.
And yeah, i Have Tynnis against my neighbors who are receiving tomche shabbos (although its suppose to be delivered discreetly) and yet they go to the country, summer trips and get furniture deliveries.
I wonder about the other neighbor whose husband is in kollel and its obvious they are not rolling in $ yet they bought a house!
It is a chillul Hashem like bpt wrote when we flash 1.5 carats and yet are needy.
August 16, 2011 3:46 am at 3:46 am #798987mexipalParticipantnu, uncle sam is throwing free money into the street. it would be a chillul hashem not to take advantage
August 16, 2011 4:15 am at 4:15 am #798988mra01385ParticipantJust because someone is on foodstamps doesnt mean they werent rich once upon a time. It could be the lady with the 1.5 carat diamond ring got it a long time ago when she had lots of money, (or it could have been an engagement ring) and now for some reason they are out of money either due job loss, or big business loss.
Let me tell you, I just moved from Florida to Queens thinking that I and my husband would have jobs right when we got here, but unfortunately those job opportunities fell through. So now we both have no income so we got onto foodstamps to help us buy food. However, we still have 2 laptops not because we are cheating the government in order to get foodstamps, but because we bought the laptops when we had money. Im sure due to the economy there are many people out there who were once rich, but lost a lot of their money. That doesnt mean that they had to get rid of all their fancy things that they bought when they were rich.
August 16, 2011 4:52 am at 4:52 am #798989apushatayidParticipantThere are those who once upon a time were able to afford all those carats set in platinum but now need the SNAP program to feed their kids. I don’t believe the government asks you to hock every last asset prior to becoming eligible for benefits.
Let’s try not to assume the worst about everyone all the time. Yesh din, vyesh dayan. It isn’t you or I.
August 16, 2011 4:59 am at 4:59 am #798990StamperMemberThe Food Stamp program does not care how much assets you own in determining eligibility. You can own a Lexus and have very little income, and qualify for food stamps.
If you have an issue with that, take it up with your legislature or Congressman. Not the fully legally eligible participants who qualify and receive benefits.
August 16, 2011 3:51 pm at 3:51 pm #798991always runs with scissors fastParticipanti have no problem with those who are actually living in poverty and need. But….
August 16, 2011 3:58 pm at 3:58 pm #798992a maminParticipantAlways runs: I think we need to STOP looking in our neighbors homes to see what they do and do not have. You never really know what’s going on by your neighbors home inside( unless you live there).Live and let live!
August 16, 2011 4:08 pm at 4:08 pm #798993adorableParticipantwhy was the wic thread closed?
August 16, 2011 4:11 pm at 4:11 pm #798994gavra_at_workParticipantAnd yeah, i Have Tynnis against my neighbors who are receiving tomche shabbos (although its suppose to be delivered discreetly) and yet they go to the country, summer trips and get furniture deliveries.
Tomche Shabbos is not food stamps. If you have reason to believe that the family in question should not be receiving Tzedaka, mention something to whomever is in charge and they will investigate.
Food stamps, as Joe points out, follow legalities. One can “bend” the laws to get benefits, just like one can do so to pay less in taxes.
August 16, 2011 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm #798995bptParticipant“We could be looking at it from the wrong perspective”
Happiest – there is no question; in some cases, outside help is a fact of life, and as a society, we have an obligation to help the people who truly need the help.
But unfortunatly, there are those who take advantage of society’s kindness. How to tell which one is ahead you at the register? Here’s a simple test:
If the shopping cart is filled things like vegetables, fruit, bread, milk, eggs, chicken, ect then the person is doing what they need to do to feed their family. And that is just what food stamps are intended to do.
If the cart is filled with things like dips, smoked fish, nosh, pre-mixed chocolate milk (because its SOO much better than the one you make on your own), then you are looking at a person who is only thinking of themselves.
August 16, 2011 6:08 pm at 6:08 pm #798996bptParticipantMRA / Stamper –
You have a point, and technicaly you are right. But that is no reason to flaunt your possessions.
What galls us non-stampers is the attitude of entitlement we so often see and hear from the folks on the take.
August 16, 2011 6:59 pm at 6:59 pm #798997anon1m0usParticipantStamper: Actually, Food Stamp Admin. does look at some of your assets. They look at your bank accounts, income, savings, 401k. They do not look at you home or cars.
When I was unemployed, I tried getting Food Stamps because on the Income Level I was eligible. However, since I had a 401K I was denied. I was told I must take out that money before I can receive Food Stamps.
But the plan was, if we did receive Food Stamps, we’d go someone where no-one recognizes us to purchase food because of the busha.
August 16, 2011 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #798998minyan galMemberIn the province I live in there is a Home Care program – it is NOT income based, but based on health needs. Among the services they provide are nursing care, personal aids for assistance with bathing and dressing, cooking services and home cleaning. I have had various services during the years. In the past 5 years I broke both of my hips and had 2 more surgeries for hip replacements. I also have severe back problems and cannot bend over far enough to do some household chores such as changing my sheets and vacuuming. I have had cleaning services for several years – which is one hour every 2 weeks. You are assessed yearly by a “case coordinator”. At one time these coordinators were all RN’s and now they have mainly social workers doing the job. How a social worker can assess medical needs is beyond me. I recently was assigned a new coordinator and from the minute she walked in, I just felt in my bones that she was a “cholerya”. She looked around and said:”you live in a nice place and have such beautiful furniture and ornaments. I find it very difficult to believe that you cannot afford to pay for your own household cleaning.” Like an idiot, I began telling her that I inherited a lot of things, that I used to have a house and a husband and a good job, but now I am on a fixed income. It was none of her business (I later found out) and when I said that paying for help would be a hardship, that should have been enough. After she left, I got angrier and angrier. I made it my business to find out who her supervisor was and I wrote a letter to her (with a cc to the cholerya) documenting the entire visit. I received a phone call in less than a week and things were ironed out. So, you can’t judge people by what they have because nobody knows what financial position they are presently in. Yes, there are many abuses of the system but I think that even if for every 3 abuses, there is a genuine person in need, that is how it must be. You cannot judge a book by its cover.
August 16, 2011 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm #798999mddMemberIf a Yid gets food stamps legally, but something appears unseemly to an objective outside observer, it is Chillul HaShem and Eiva(causing animosity).
August 16, 2011 8:09 pm at 8:09 pm #799000gavra_at_workParticipantIf a Yid gets food stamps legally, but something appears unseemly to an objective outside observer, it is Chillul HaShem and Eiva(causing animosity).
IN that vein, I hope you don’t take any tax deductions?
You do?
Tax avoidance is not evasion. Neither is an irrevocable trust, or gifts to minor children, as long as it is done legally.
August 16, 2011 9:35 pm at 9:35 pm #799001mddMemberGAW, you missed my point. I am talking about what constitutes Hillul HaShem or Eiva, not about American law.
August 16, 2011 9:53 pm at 9:53 pm #799002Abe CohenParticipantThere was a story all over the news a number of months ago, where a woman won a state multi million dollar lottery. When her food stamps case came up for renewal she drove to the FS office in her new Mercedes to renew. The workers saw that and tipped off the press. Her renewal was approved, since she had little income, despite her big bank account which legally is not considered for eligibility. Some of the state legislatures said they wanted to change the law. But it turned out that federal mandates from Congress preclude states from considering any assets, and can only look at income. (They used to consider assets also until about 5 years ago, when the law changed.)
August 16, 2011 11:19 pm at 11:19 pm #799003☕️coffee addictParticipanthe workers saw that and tipped off the press. Her renewal was approved, since she had little income, despite her big bank account which legally is not considered for eligibility.
I beg to differ
August 17, 2011 12:11 am at 12:11 am #799004Abe CohenParticipantca: There is nothing to differ about. It is a factual legal matter that assets are not considered in determining eligibility. This isn’t a matter of opinion.
August 17, 2011 3:16 pm at 3:16 pm #799005HealthParticipantsqueak -“At least a little busha at the checkout counter can’t hurt. The middah of busha is vital to Klal Yisroel.”
Unfortunately, there isn’t any Busha anymore. But this I blame the gov. for. When they had the paper FS, most Yidden would be hesitant to take it out in a big supermarket like Shoprite. Nowadays with the card, only the people right next to you know it’s the FS card, so no more Busha!
August 17, 2011 7:28 pm at 7:28 pm #799006bptParticipant“It is a factual legal matter that assets are not considered in determining eligibility. This isn’t a matter of opinion. “
While I’m not an expert in determining eligibility, and it may not be relevant to the case of food stamps, I vaugely remember hearing something about the fact that anyone who recieves public assitance, its considered a “loan” not a gift. And should this person come into any future money (inheritance, lottery, ect) the Feds are notified (as in the IRS at a casino for huge payouts), and in short order, the “winnings” are used to repay the loans the formerly poor person had been advanced.
That’s why, when the Grandfather who had 8 houses and loads of bank accounts under his name (so the true owners could collect govt goodie$) passes on (or is in imminent danger of doing so) there is a mass hysteria to shuffle assets to trust funds, ect.
Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But a huge lottery? That, I doubt would pass under the radar.
August 17, 2011 9:26 pm at 9:26 pm #799007600 Kilo BearMemberSorry, but (not in the case of the home health aide which is totally different) you absolutely should sell or hock your luxury items before you go on welfare. Many an honest businessman has had to do that with personal and business possessions during hard times – and they are the ones who go on to succeed again.
It is a complete busha and chilul Hashem berabim to use aid cards if you obviously have luxury possessions. Plenty of fraudsters double-park new luxury cars in front of the grocery and buy the most expensive things possible with food stamps they get by pretending to be single mothers because their weddings were never registered. They have nothing but expenses and their husbands have cash businesses. One day there will be an ezras nashim in the Otisville shul.
August 17, 2011 11:09 pm at 11:09 pm #799008Abe CohenParticipantThe government WANTS anyone and everyone who meets the technical eligibility qualifications to receive FS, to actually apply and receive them. The government is literally advertising all over the place begging people to apply for them. The Federal government even gives the States incentives to get as many people as possible sign up.
If you technically qualify, get them. And use them. Don’t think twice about it. If they change the law to reduce eligibility, you’ll deal with it then. Until then, bon appetit.
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