Finding Out if It Will Be a Boy or Girl?

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  • #1028770
    SayIDidIt™
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    Isn’t there an ayin hora to prepare the child’s needs in advance?

    When asked, Rabbi Chaim Kanievsky said it is a ???? ???? not to prepare before the baby is born.

    SiDi™

    #1028771
    SayIDidIt™
    Participant

    Um, chocolate or vanilla? Huh?

    SiDi™

    #1028772
    oomis
    Participant

    Did I really type expectating???????

    #1028773
    notasheep
    Member

    Oomis, I never noticed, so I doubt anyone else did

    #1028774
    oomis
    Participant

    We are required to notice our OWN shortcomings 🙂

    #1028776
    oyyoyyoy
    Participant

    Waiting to find out the gender of the baby cause you like the surprise is silly, completely delayed gratification. Thats like never checking what color tie youre wearing for nine months and then you look in the moirror and say “cool! its red!”

    #1028777
    notasheep
    Member

    oyyoyyoy – have you ever been pregnant and then given birth? Cause I have, and I’ve never found out because I like the surprise. I don’t call it delayed gratification, because the feeling I get after giving birth and seeing whether it’s a boy or a girl is just amazing. It just completes the whole birth experience for me.

    #1028778
    WolfishMusings
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    Waiting to find out the gender of the baby cause you like the surprise is silly, completely delayed gratification. Thats like never checking what color tie youre wearing for nine months and then you look in the moirror and say “cool! its red!”

    Talk about silly… that’s one of the silliest comparisons I’ve seen on this board.

    First, of course, is the fact that I know what color tie I’m wearing because I chose it.

    But, second, and far more important, is that most people have more an emotional investment in a baby than in what tie they’re wearing.

    And third, delayed gratification is a good thing. 🙂

    The Wolf

    #1028779
    oyyoyyoy
    Participant

    Talk about silly… that’s one of the silliest comparisons I’ve seen on this board.

    wolf, im honored. seriously.

    First, of course, is the fact that I know what color tie I’m wearing because I chose it.

    with your eyes closed? try it, tons more fun. (btw my original post was about undergarments but i think the mods werent so happy.)

    But, second, and far more important, is that most people have more an emotional investment in a baby than in what tie they’re wearing.

    and

    notasheep- I don’t call it delayed gratification, because the feeling I get after giving birth and seeing whether it’s a boy or a girl is just amazing.

    What i think both of you are saying is, regardless whether or not you believe delayed gratification makes sense, on a scale as large as this one its worth it. And my point is that either you believe delayed gratification is nonsense or you dont.

    I beleive it is nonsense and Wolf doesnt.

    #1028780
    MurphysLaw
    Member

    Not worth the bother finding out, It could be both, or half of each…

    anyways, not worth getting to excited it can all go horribly wrong…

    #1028781
    my own kind of jew
    Participant

    “Talk about silly… that’s one of the silliest comparisons I’ve seen on this board.

    wolf, im honored. seriously.

    First, of course, is the fact that I know what color tie I’m wearing because I chose it.

    with your eyes closed? try it, tons more fun. (btw my original post was about undergarments but i think the mods werent so happy.)

    But, second, and far more important, is that most people have more an emotional investment in a baby than in what tie they’re wearing.

    and

    notasheep- I don’t call it delayed gratification, because the feeling I get after giving birth and seeing whether it’s a boy or a girl is just amazing.

    What i think both of you are saying is, regardless whether or not you believe delayed gratification makes sense, on a scale as large as this one its worth it. And my point is that either you believe delayed gratification is nonsense or you don’t.

    I believe it is nonsense and Wolf doesn’t.”

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    It doesn’t really matter what you believe or not, or what he believes. What maters is that for whatever the reason, silly or not, Wolf is happier not knowing until they’re born and oyyoyyoy isn’t. it’s just a matter of preference.

    #1028782
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    I agree with notasheep. It’s a surprise worth waiting for. When you are in the throws of such intense, severe pain, it is nice to have something to ‘look forward to’ besides just an end to it all the contractions.

    #1028783
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Syag, most women say it’s the baby, not finding out the gender, that counts.

    #1028784
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    It is certainly the baby that counts, but focusing on the baby at that time is a bit painful. Focusing on the thrill of finding out the gender is a bit more bearable.

    v’hamaivin yavin

    #1028785
    oyyoyyoy
    Participant

    Syag, I’ll never give birth and id like to try understand what you mean.

    It’s like a distraction type of thing? whats your position on delayed gratification?

    Am i being crazy by harping on this delayed gratification? i just cant split the two.

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