Do the women in your house do heseiba (lean)? Home › Forums › Yom Tov › Pesach › Do the women in your house do heseiba (lean)? This topic has 15 replies, 13 voices, and was last updated 9 years, 7 months ago by WolfishMusings. Viewing 16 posts - 1 through 16 (of 16 total) Author Posts March 6, 2013 12:41 am at 12:41 am #608469 playtimeMember Do the women in your house do heseiba (lean by the pesach seder) during the 4 kosos, and matza? March 6, 2013 12:49 am at 12:49 am #1070793 BYbychoiceMember yes as far as i can rememeber… is there a reason they shouldnt? March 6, 2013 1:04 am at 1:04 am #1070794 TheGoqParticipant its funny the fat ones lean more than the lean ones. March 6, 2013 1:07 am at 1:07 am #1070795 147Participant My wife & daughter are both an “Isho Chashuvo” so as pair the Remo, they are Mechuyovos to lean. As for unimportant women, they are off the hook for having to lean. March 6, 2013 1:11 am at 1:11 am #1070796 WIYMember We make them lean by the marror only. (channeling Popa) March 6, 2013 1:43 am at 1:43 am #1070797 sharpMember The ones who feel like it do; the ones who don’t, don’t. March 6, 2013 2:11 am at 2:11 am #1070798 TheGoqParticipant After all the pesach cleaning and the tons of cooking its a wonder they dont fall over completely. March 6, 2013 2:56 am at 2:56 am #1070799 sharpMember The Goq, Believe me, they sometimes do 😉 March 6, 2013 5:02 am at 5:02 am #1070800 oomisParticipant I sometimes fall asleep in my soup by Shulchan Oreich. Does that count? March 6, 2013 5:25 am at 5:25 am #1070801 popa_bar_abbaParticipant I sometimes fall asleep in my soup by Shulchan Oreich. I sometimes fall asleep on my shulchan aruch. March 6, 2013 5:38 am at 5:38 am #1070802 Torah613TorahParticipant Yes, but I don’t find it comfortable. March 6, 2013 11:25 am at 11:25 am #1070803 ToiParticipant i think my rebbe said no. March 6, 2013 5:38 pm at 5:38 pm #1070804 mofrMember No. March 6, 2013 11:00 pm at 11:00 pm #1070805 playtimeMember 147: The Rema says even that nowadays every women is considered an Isha Chashuva/important (who must lean), women do not do Heseiba at all nowadays. (I don’t know what the minhag sefardim is) April 3, 2015 12:25 am at 12:25 am #1070806 JosephParticipant They’re busy serving so they have little time to lean even if the minhag hadn’t been for them not to. April 7, 2015 6:14 pm at 6:14 pm #1070807 WolfishMusingsParticipant Yes. The Wolf Author Posts Viewing 16 posts - 1 through 16 (of 16 total) You must be logged in to reply to this topic. Log In Username: Password: Keep me signed in Log In