Do Kiddush Clubs still exist?

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  • #948855
    Yserbius123
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    Many Chassidish shuls have kiddush clubs, it’s not something exclusive for Modern Orthodox shuls. There are several shuls near my parents which are known for being basically hangouts for tuna beigels and other near-off the derech Chassidim. They all have unofficial kiddush clubs.

    Funniest story was once when my brother overslept and ended up at the 9:30 shteibel minyan. Halfway through Chazaras Ha’Shatz Mussaf he realizes that there’s barely a minyan in shul. The rov stops the chazzan for a second, goes to a nondescript door in the back and bangs on it going “Nu? Nu?”. Door opens to a room packed with men, kugel, cholent and whiskey.

    #948856
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Funniest story was once when my brother overslept and ended up at the 9:30 shteibel minyan. Halfway through Chazaras Ha’Shatz Mussaf he realizes that there’s barely a minyan in shul. The rov stops the chazzan for a second, goes to a nondescript door in the back and bangs on it going “Nu? Nu?”. Door opens to a room packed with men, kugel, cholent and whiskey.

    Oh do I want to join that shul

    #948857
    2scents
    Participant

    So your comparing MO to Chasiddishe hangouts?

    #948858

    In terms of having a kiddush club yes.

    #948859
    2scents
    Participant

    So lets put it this way, it is rare to have a kiddush club in a chasidishe shull. (unless its a near off chasiddishe or tuna beigle shull..)

    #948860
    Yserbius123
    Participant

    I would say just the opposite, Chassidishe shuls are much more of a community center than Misnagdish shuls. Mispallelim feel very at home and I could say with absolute certainty that the vast majority of Chassidishe shuls I walked into on Shabbos had a large group of people eating and drinking in a separate room while davening was going on.

    #948861
    2scents
    Participant

    Yserbius123

    This is not true, I have been to plenty Chassidishe shuls, I have not seen any eating and drinking while davening. especially not in any mainstream chasiddishe shul.

    #948862
    Yserbius123
    Participant

    2scents: Really? Nobody standing by the coffee and cake when the chazzan is saying brachos? Nobody walking out early to get a bit of kugel? Nobody (on Yom Tov) sneaking into the smoking sukkah for a quick puff?

    #948863
    WIY
    Member

    Yserb

    I think you are talking about the smaller shtieblach and the more “cool” chassdish shuls. I think an actual chassidiusses shul like Bobov or Satmar is much more serious although I cant say for a fact because I dont Daven there but I have seen what goes on at certain Chassidish shuls so I know what you mean.

    #948864
    2scents
    Participant

    I cannot recall seeing any cake in a shull during davening, OK maybe when there is a kiddush, they would bring it out at the end of mussaf.

    I have davened in plenty of chasiddishe shulls, yet I have never been at a kiddush club. yes, I dont go to those near off chasidishe shulls..

    Any decent and serious chasiddishe shull has no ‘events’ going on during davening.

    You mentioned coffee, although coffee is not the subject here, I will agree that this is an ‘issue’ in a lot of chassidishe shull, but it is not an event, it only takes a few minutes to drink a coffee and is no way a social gathering.

    #948865
    Yserbius123
    Participant

    I’m not talking about smaller shuls (although shtieblech definitely have that issue) I’m talking about the main shuls for various very big Chassiduses. I guess I can be dan l’kaf zchus and assume that those people davened at earlier minyanim, but in most of the Rebbish shuls I’ve seen, you are guaranteed to find at least two rooms where there is a minyan or more sitting around eating and drinking while the main davening is going on.

    It’s simply inconceivable that a Chassidus where thousands are davening at their Rebbe that there *aren’t* a few dozen who sit it out. Combine that with the openness that Rebbish shuls usually have, being more of a community center than a shul/beis medrash.

    #948866
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Oh my, kiddush club this week was awesome. We had a celebrity appearance, but I shan’t say who.

    Booze: Dalwhinnie 15; Balvenie 14 (Caribbean cask)

    Herring: Matjes herring, homemade by popa.

    Crackers: Ritz.

    Donuts: Yes, but not telling which; too identifying.

    Cupcakes: Excellent ones, didn’t see whom by.

    #948867
    2scents
    Participant

    So now it has changed to a few sitting out from official kiddush clubs.

    I have not met an official kiddush club in any mainstream chassidishe shull.

    #948868
    Health
    Participant

    PBA – You must have a Minyan in your house and you speak during the Kiddush.

    #948869
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I wouldn’t want a minyan in my house, bec then I’d need to be on time.

    #948870
    Daniel Rosen
    Member

    It is the people who used to be reformed or conservative Jews and are now modern orthodox that join kiddish clubs for the most part.

    #948871
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    It is the people who used to be reformed or conservative Jews and are now modern orthodox that join kiddish clubs for the most part.

    No, that isn’t the case.

    #948872
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    No, it’s the alcoholics.

    #948873
    Yserbius123
    Participant

    2scents: Sitting out, “official” Kiddush club, does it make a difference? Fact of the matter is a lot of people come to shul to socialize and drink during davening. In most shuls it’s not tolerated and all the food and drink is locked up until davening is over. In some old fashioned Modern Orthodox shuls, Chassidishe shteibels and Rebbishe batei k’nessiois it’s not only not discouraged, but there is a large enough and kavuah enough chevra to say that it’s almost encouraged.

    #948874
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    In some old fashioned Modern Orthodox shuls, Chassidishe shteibels and Rebbishe batei k’nessiois

    Hmm, mine is not really any of those three.

    #1807354
    RebbeDebbie
    Participant

    We have one at my current shul.

    #1807395
    Gadolhadorah
    Participant

    Could someone explain the difference between Rebbishe batei k’nessiois and say small shtieblach in the home of a chabad shaliach?

    #1807407
    Uncle Ben
    Participant

    What’s up with the 6 year gap, were all the Kiddush club members in alcohol induced comas?

    #1807405
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    Mine too

    Maybe we go to the same shul

    #1808091
    huju
    Participant

    I have always considered any walkout of daveners right before or during the rabbi’s speech/sermon/devar Torah to be an insult to the rabbi. And so (regrettably in my opinion), as long as there are rabbis, there will be kiddush clubs.

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