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May 29, 2012 2:40 am at 2:40 am #603598popa_bar_abbaParticipant
The quality of advice columns has sunk really low. So I decided to start my own! On this advice column, you can ask anything you want; about relationships, chinuch, life, whatever. I will share with you sage popa wisdom, and will even be nice.
But first, I will share with you some of the bad advice I’ve been seeing.
In Readers Digests’ “Ask Laskas”, someone asked that she rides a school shuttle, and every day an older woman boards and asks this girl specifically for her seat–every day. Laskas says to shut up and give her seat!
In some random one called “Ask Amy”, I saw multiple horrible advice, but not for YWN.
In some frum one, a guy asks that he has been to multiple frum therapists, and just now he went to a non-frum one. The non frum one was the first to ask him about his relationship with G-d. So he wants to know if that is an appropriate discussion for his therapy. The advice columnist says it is appropriate, and sort of leaves it at that.
Blazes! That is precisely why you should only go to a frum therapist! Because frum people’s emotional issues are inextricably linked to their religion.
So, ask what you will. I’ll be nice and sage.
May 29, 2012 3:08 am at 3:08 am #1091860Feif UnParticipantExcuse me, but I started the original advice column here. This is hasagas gvul, and you have no right to do this.
May 29, 2012 3:09 am at 3:09 am #1091861popa_bar_abbaParticipantCould you pose that as a question, please?
(I mean, oops, sorry, I didn’t remember. Link to it)
May 29, 2012 3:19 am at 3:19 am #1091862wanderingchanaParticipantHow about Torah Jeopardy instead?
May 29, 2012 3:25 am at 3:25 am #1091863ChulentMemberDear Popa,
Should I eat Cheerios or Corn Flakes for breakfast?
May 29, 2012 3:41 am at 3:41 am #1091864popa_bar_abbaParticipantHow about torah jeapordy instead?
That is a very good question. I would suggest both.
May 29, 2012 6:00 am at 6:00 am #1091865May 29, 2012 6:18 am at 6:18 am #1091866I need a serious aitza to help me stop biting my nails.
May 29, 2012 11:57 am at 11:57 am #1091867DisgruntledGoatMember@R’KKW
Agreed. Just cant COPE with my nails anymore!
May 29, 2012 12:56 pm at 12:56 pm #1091868wanderingchanaParticipantI’m sorry, but you have to phrase your answer in the form of a question.
May 29, 2012 1:06 pm at 1:06 pm #1091869popa_bar_abbaParticipantBiting nails:
Popa once needed to stop wasting time on the internet when he was working on the computer. So he said he would give 10 dollars to obamas campaign each time he did it. Try this for a few weeks.
May 29, 2012 1:20 pm at 1:20 pm #1091870TheMusicManParticipantAre diversified polysyllabic meanderings of the grandiloquent form in direct contradiction with the eclectic prolixity apparent in entirely unverifiable (and heavily redundant) oxymorons which use excessive nomenclatural terminology?
May 29, 2012 3:52 pm at 3:52 pm #1091872May 29, 2012 8:14 pm at 8:14 pm #1091873No One Mourns The WickedMemberBrilliant title!
May 29, 2012 8:33 pm at 8:33 pm #1091874TheMusicManParticipant@OneOfMany: You should see my post there!
May 29, 2012 11:02 pm at 11:02 pm #1091875Doodle-Man™MemberDear Popa Bar Abby,
Why don’t we have cheesecake on Chanukah?
May 29, 2012 11:15 pm at 11:15 pm #1091876popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa Bar Abby,
Why don’t we have cheesecake on Chanukah?
People often eat things when there is a yetzer hara to eat them. That is why people eat milchigs on shevuos, because you are obligated to eat meat, so they have a yetzer hara to not eat meat.
On chanuka, however, there is no mitzva to eat meat specifically every day, so there is no yetzer hara to eat milchigs.
May 29, 2012 11:40 pm at 11:40 pm #1091877ItcheSrulikMemberDear Popa bar Abby,
1.500 years ago someone sat on a bench in my garden and broke it. He never even apologized, let alone offered to pay for the bench. Can I take him to court?
Sincerely,
Reuven (or maybe Shimon)
May 30, 2012 12:05 am at 12:05 am #1091878popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa bar Abby,
1.500 years ago someone sat on a bench in my garden and broke it. He never even apologized, let alone offered to pay for the bench. Can I take him to court?
Sincerely,
Reuven (or maybe Shimon)
Dear Reuven (or maybe Shimon),
I’m sorry. But I’m still not paying; it was going to break anyway.
Love,
Popa Bar Abby
May 30, 2012 12:08 am at 12:08 am #1091879Doodle-Man™MemberThank You!
This is so much better than those other advice columns.
May 30, 2012 12:33 am at 12:33 am #1091880ItcheSrulikMemberDear Popa bar Abby,
No, not that case. The one that the gemara says is pshita.
Sincerely,
Shimon (or Reuven)
May 30, 2012 12:36 am at 12:36 am #1091881cinderellaParticipantDear Popa Bar Abby,
There’s leftover cheesecake that I really want to eat. Should I? If yes, should I have the mocha or the Oreo one?
Sincerely,
Really wants to eat cheesecake but doesn’t know if she should
May 30, 2012 12:41 am at 12:41 am #1091882RazzleMemberDear Popa bar Abby,
I sent an email to somone and they answered on shabbos should I still email them???
May 30, 2012 12:55 am at 12:55 am #1091883ZeesKiteParticipantDear Popa bar Abby,
I can’t think of anything to ask. Help me.
May 30, 2012 12:57 am at 12:57 am #1091884popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa Bar Abby,
There’s leftover cheesecake that I really want to eat. Should I? If yes, should I have the mocha or the Oreo one?
Sincerely,
Really wants to eat cheesecake but doesn’t know if she should
Dear Really wants to eat cheesecake but doesn’t know if she should,
It is proper to eat leftovers from yontiff, because that way one will not cook to little for yontiff. You should eat both.
However, if you are normal like me, and think that cheesecake is disgusting, then you should throw them both at your wife.
May 30, 2012 12:57 am at 12:57 am #1091885popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa bar Abby,
I sent an email to somone and they answered on shabbos should I still email them???
I would personally try to not email them right before shabbos anymore.
May 30, 2012 1:01 am at 1:01 am #1091886popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa bar Abby,
I can’t think of anything to ask. Help me.
Dear Help Me,
It sounds like you have no relationship problems. If so, it probably means you are being too careful, and not looking out for your interests enough. I would suggest spending an extra half hour at the bar each night before coming home.
May 30, 2012 1:05 am at 1:05 am #1091887Doodle-Man™MemberDear Popa Bar Abba
Why did you say something about someones wife when they clearly stated they were female?
Sincerely
Confused at Popa Bar Abby’s Ignorance
May 30, 2012 1:12 am at 1:12 am #1091888popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa Bar Abba
Why did you say something about someones wife when they clearly stated they were female?
Sincerely
Confused at Popa Bar Abby’s Ignorance
Dear Confused,
The passuk calls the livyason a male, even though it really is a female, because it is more tznius. I do the same.
May 30, 2012 1:20 am at 1:20 am #1091889cinderellaParticipantDear Popa Bar Abby,
Your advice really worked!! I feel so fulfilled and accomplished now. I don’t know where I would be without your advice.
Sincerely,
Fat and Grateful
P.S. Are you calling me a livyasan?
May 30, 2012 1:22 am at 1:22 am #1091890popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear fat and grateful,
Did you eat them, or throw them at your wife?
P.S. Ummm, no comment?
May 30, 2012 1:27 am at 1:27 am #1091891ChulentMemberDear Abby,
Should I delay marriage while I pursue a higher education?
May 30, 2012 1:29 am at 1:29 am #1091892cinderellaParticipantDid you eat them, or throw them at your wife?
Well, I don’t have a wife to throw it at so I just ate it. But I think you may need help if you don’t like cheesecake. Why don’t you write a letter to yourself?
May 30, 2012 1:33 am at 1:33 am #1091893popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Abby,
Should I delay marriage while I pursue a higher education?
Dear afraid of marriage,
Blazes no! If you are delaying marriage, you should do something fun meanwhile. Save the higher education for when you’re married anyway.
I suggest being a ski bum in the winter, and a backpacking in the summer.
Love,
Popa bar Abby
May 30, 2012 1:34 am at 1:34 am #1091894popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear doesn’t like cheesecake,
Cheesecake is how we are mechaper for eating milchigs on yontiff. You should eat it specifically because it is disgusting.
Love,
Popa bar Abby
May 30, 2012 1:39 am at 1:39 am #1091895OneOfManyParticipantDear Abby,
I think cheesecake is disgusting, and I want to take your advice and throw it at my wife. But I don’t have one. Am I yotzeh if I just throw it at my mother?
Sincerely,
a Livyoson
May 30, 2012 1:42 am at 1:42 am #1091896Sam2ParticipantPBA: There’s no Chiyuv to eat meat on Yom Tov. It’s a B’feirush Rama in Hilchos Aninus (337 maybe?).
May 30, 2012 1:45 am at 1:45 am #1091897squeakParticipantDear Bar Abby,
What in the world was the point of being mattir internet use for business need, when we all know mitoch sh’hutra l’tzoirech, hutra nami sh’loi litzoirech? Do they think that just because we don’t get to sit on the dais we don’t know shas and poiskim?
Sincerely,
Logged Off Forever and Trying Not To Think
May 30, 2012 1:48 am at 1:48 am #1091898popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Bar Abby,
What in the world was the point of being mattir internet use for business need, when we all know mitoch sh’hutra l’tzoirech, hutra nami sh’loi litzoirech? Do they think that just because we don’t get to sit on the dais we don’t know shas and poiskim?
Sincerely,
Logged Off Forever and Trying Not To Think
Dear Logged Off,
They assumed that without access to google, we wouldn’t be able to find mareh mekomos anymore.
May 30, 2012 1:53 am at 1:53 am #1091899Doodle-Man™MemberDear Popa Bar Abby
I am still scratching my head to the question of why did the chicken cross the road. Please help fast
Sincerely
Stuck in a Pile of Dandruff
May 30, 2012 1:55 am at 1:55 am #1091900popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa Bar Abby
I am still scratching my head to the question of why did the chicken cross the road. Please help fast
Sincerely
Stuck in a Pile of Dandruff
Dear Stuck,
You should bite your nails. That will help.
May 30, 2012 1:58 am at 1:58 am #1091901Doodle-Man™MemberDear Popa Bar Abby
If I do so I will not take your nail biting advice.
May 30, 2012 1:59 am at 1:59 am #1091902popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Popa Bar Abby
If I do so I will not take your nail biting advice.
I suggest biting the nails of one hand, and scratching with that hand.
May 30, 2012 3:10 am at 3:10 am #1091904happym19MemberDear poppa bar abby,
was my post deleted or did my computer not post it cuz its procrastinating?
sincerely,
confused ;)……..
Dear happy, it was deleted. -95
May 30, 2012 3:16 am at 3:16 am #1091905happym19Memberk thanks sorry!
May 30, 2012 1:32 pm at 1:32 pm #1091906oomisParticipantAm I yotzeh if I just throw it at my mother?”
Were you not in Shul on Sunday?
May 30, 2012 3:11 pm at 3:11 pm #1091907OneOfManyParticipantI wasn’t.
May 30, 2012 3:25 pm at 3:25 pm #1091908gefenParticipantDear Bar Abby,
It really bothers me when people say or write “yontiff”. IT’S YOM TOV – BLAZES – CAN’T ANYONE GET THAT RIGHT?
Yes dearest bar abby – you are guilty of that too.(see one of your above posts)
What can I do to get over this? Or rather what can I do to get everyone in the world to say/write it correctly? AHHHHHHH!
No – I am not hysterical. I’m a very calm, cool, and collected person. 😉
May 30, 2012 4:06 pm at 4:06 pm #1091909TheGoqParticipantDear Popa Bar Abby
I have a coworker who is a very difficult person one of their faults is they don’t know how to express gratitude this morning they got a personal call and i transferred it to them and said who was calling they said yeah, yeah? i asked dont you mean thank you for answering your personal call, they refused to to say thank you and demanded i put the call through i said sorry and told the party that this coworker was unavailable. did i overreact? how would you handle such a coworker?
Fed up in Sacramento
May 30, 2012 11:03 pm at 11:03 pm #1091910popa_bar_abbaParticipantDear Abby,
I think cheesecake is disgusting, and I want to take your advice and throw it at my wife. But I don’t have one. Am I yotzeh if I just throw it at my mother?
Sincerely,
a Livyoson
Dear Livyoson,
The ikkar characteristic of a wife is that they do your laundry. Therefore, you should throw it at whomever does your laundry. If you do your own laundry, then you should throw it-and your laundry- at your roommate. If you have no roommates, you should throw both at your sister. If you have no sister, you should get married.
Love,
Popa bar Abby
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