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What is your opinion of a girl dating someone who is the same height as her?
Horrible. How can she marry someone she doesn’t look up to?
wow thats any easy one…..what is important to you? being nice and honest etc , being slim , being tall or short?
if height is the most important then good luck to you.
Please allow me to respond with an even better question–
What is your opinion of a girl who is concerned enough to inquire about a girl dating a guy – (GASP! Please wait a minute while I get the smelling salts…) – who is the same height as her ???
It’s entirely in the eye of the beholder. Some people care, some don’t. Decide for yourself if you do or you don’t, and don’t care what others think about it.
P.S. It doesn’t make you shallow if you care.
It’s perfect if you’re going to build your own house. You save money by making the doorways just high enough for both of them. Unless they’re both very tall.
Rav Moshe’s rebbetzin was taller than him.
FWIW, my wife is only one inch shorter than me. Very happily married for almost a quarter-century.
The Wolf
wow! i didnt know trolls aren’t the same size
If there really were a shidduch crisis, no girl would ask such a foolish question.
Who says a girl is asking?
There’s no problem with it. There’s even no problem with a girl marrying a man shorter than her. It does happen sometimes. As long as the girl is still attracted to him and he is secure enough to feel OK about it, there is no problem with getting married. 90% of the time the husband is taller than the wife, but there are always exceptions, and they probably work out fine most of the time.
You raise an interesting point, yaakov doe.
Duck though, chances are there are a few mushy tomatoes flying in your direction.
If height stops a shidduch, no wonder there is a “crisis”
What’s on your “top 5” list? Decide for yourself which 5 things are non-negotiable. The rest you can decide, case by case. If height is non-negotiable, then that’s your answer.
Im taller than my husband. But he knows when he stands on his ego he is much taller then me.
Top 5:
1) Doesn’t consider purple her favorite color
2) At least 5″ shorter than me
3) Rich father
4) Likes pizza
5) Yichus
@Daas Yochid
Very funny!
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