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I am a BT and am approaching the dating scene soon iyh. my parents will not be involved whatsoever and I wanted to know everyones opinions on the protocol regarding how this will work for dating. i am to call the boys references myself correct? what are good topics to talk about on a first date? Also on my resume should I include a short description of what I am looking for? (because I was told by someone not to)
Is there someone you trust who can call the references for you? I think that’s a better idea.
Have you contacted the Oorah Rebbetzins program?
Hatzlacha.
Do you have someone who you trust who could do it for you? A religious aunt, cousin, friend, neighbor? Maybe a teacher or mechaneches you connected to? You definitely should not be doing it yourself. And I agree with @DaasYochid the oorah rebbetzins program is great.
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Oorah’s Rebbetzins program provides mentors and shaddchanim for singles of Baalei Teshuva background.
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Oorah’s Rebbetzins host events throughout the year inlcuding a weekend retreat as well as local shidduch and Rebbetzins get-togethers
Rebbetzins Forum
Interesting discussions on the topic of shidduchim.
Most people don’t write on the resume what they’re looking for; whoever redds the shidduch should be able to inform the other side.
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