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  • #595964
    knowsitall
    Member

    Hi! I always read the posts, but I never actually took the bother to make a user name and post. However, I think the CR is getting out of control. Although I am far from narrow-minded and do come from a rather open-minded home, the topics discussed, are in my opinion, not made for a kosher cite- especially one that carries the name of “yeshiva world”.

    I know that there are many different people posting, including some members who think that there is nothing wrong with some of the topics, however there are also singles and bachurim surfing the web.

    Am I the only one who feels this way?

    #753811
    Grandmaster
    Member

    Am I the only one who feels this way?

    No.

    #753812
    oomis
    Participant

    You might not be the only one, but you are CERTAINLY absolutely free to a) express your opinion and b) refrain from continuing to read posts that offend your sensibilities.

    #753813
    i am here
    Member

    some stuff should not be discussed on this site – I definitely agree.As being kosher and all that. well i hav not posted here in a while. now i actually have something to post and to agree with the op

    #753814
    Papa Bear
    Member

    I agreevcertain things should not be discussed here on yeshiva world

    #753815
    eclipse
    Member

    Please be straightforward:

    Are any of my postings offensive to anyone?

    #753816
    mamashtakah
    Member

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking the law of the land, whether it’s “halachically permissible” or not, should be taken down and/or blocked.

    #753817
    SJSinNYC
    Member

    Just by being MO, I’m naturally offensive 🙂

    #753818
    smartcookie
    Member

    I’m not getting it. Can you be more specific? I haven’t found a website that’s more Kosher than this one.

    We can’t ONLY discuss Shidduchim. This aint a teenage blog after all.

    #753819

    examples…everything seems pretty clean here, especially with the mods working overtime 🙂

    #753820
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking the law of the land, whether it’s “halachically permissible” or not, should be taken down and/or blocked.

    So any mention of doing a bris milah in Communist Russia or R’ Akiva being moser nefesh to teach Torah should be banned from Yeshiva World?

    #753821
    Grandmaster
    Member

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking the law of the land, whether it’s “halachically permissible” or not, should be taken down and/or blocked.

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking halacha, should be taken down and/or blocked. Anything that conforms to halacha, whether it’s “the law of the land” or not, should be allowed.

    No sweat. You’re blocked

    #753822
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Just by being MO, I’m naturally offensive 🙂

    Being MO is not natural at all. 🙂

    #753823
    ZeesKite
    Participant

    Please, please. Remote tickles to all!!

    #753824
    metrodriver
    Member

    Daas Yochid; If YWN Coffee Room were running in the good (Bad, really) old USSR or the Roman Empire, any threads about Bris Milah or Learning Torah would be banned. In addition, you (who posted on these topics) would hear from the NKVD (Or, KGB) at 3AM with a knocki on the door.

    #753825
    s2021
    Member

    So being Yeshivish means not talking about contraversial topics? Being a molded from a cookie cutter??

    #753826
    hudi
    Participant

    These are topics that people, even yeshivish (gasp!) people discuss. They just don’t do it out in the open.

    And I don’t think there’s a problem with singles and bochurim. Have you seen anything inappropriate?

    #753827
    blueprints
    Participant

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking the law of the land, whether it’s “halachically permissible” or not, should be taken down and/or blocked.

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking halacha, should be taken down and/or blocked. Anything that conforms to halacha, whether it’s “the law of the land” or not, should be allowed.

    No sweat. Your blocked

    I don’t think that’s fair at all considering he was right not controversial!

    He’s out of line all the time. Don’t get us started. It’s his way, or the highway.

    #753828
    mytake
    Member

    knowsitall

    You are so right. All this dating talk, yuuuck.

    #753829
    parbenbakar
    Member

    The CR is a blemish on an otherwise excellent and appropriate website. Recently there was an inappropriate post describing abuse from an ex-husband. YWN represents the “yeshivishe” type on the web. Frankly the silliness and veiled references of some of the posts are a Chillul Hashem. I recommend that the CR be shut down.

    #753830
    real-brisker
    Member

    parbenbakar – You can asked to get Blocked if you want, don’t oblige others.

    #753831
    s2021
    Member

    parben..- but Im yeshivish type

    #753832
    MDG
    Participant

    Sof haDavar HaKol Nishmah – At the end all will be heard.

    Why? because we are allowed to discuss all topics. BUT, as the passuk continues, it must lead to Yirat Hashem and doing Mitsvot.

    We talk about difficult situations to help others with their situations and feeling arising from those situations.

    Areivim ze lezeh. Areiv can also mean sweeten, as used in bircat haTorah. All Jews sweeten each other.

    #753833
    smartcookie
    Member

    Parben- discussing abusive hubs is not Yeshivish?

    Maybe the jokes thread is more fun, but nothing inappropriate about the former.

    You’re not the newest Joseph, are ya?

    #753834
    Health
    Participant

    I don’t like posters like “knowsitall”, who thinks he/she knows it all and we all have to conform to their opinion. I totally disregard people who come here and denigrate YWN and the posters in the CR. If the OP had a legitmate Taanah he/she could have posted what topic(s), he/she finds offensive. Then we could have an open discussion -pro or con. The fact he/she doesn’t do that is because his/her purpose is just to rank out/ put down everyone here. I for one will not go on the defensive like some of the above posters.

    #753835
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I agree with health

    #753836
    yunger mann
    Member

    Is there a Rav who set guide lines for the coffe room? and if yes can we know who?

    I think that would answer many of the questions.

    #753837

    How dare you?1 Their are people that take affents to what you say! think before you speek! havent you ever red the chofeits chahim works and educations! thinking like this is a reddily aparent way away from ‘shtark’

    #753838
    real-brisker
    Member

    English Please!

    #753839
    Health
    Participant

    yeshiva world leaders – your spelling and your point isn’t coherent. Try again.

    #753843
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    metrodriver,

    I don’t understand the point you were trying to make (I’m not disagreeing, just trying to figure it out).

    #753844

    yunger mann:

    Last heard, it was the palm shaking, rain dance Rabbi from Atlanta. now him?

    #753845
    aries2756
    Participant

    The CR is a place to be able to discuss topics that people need to discuss in a Kosher Way. If you find it offensive maybe you should NOT be reading them. Try filtering and moving on to the next topic. Anyone has the choice to move on or shut their computer any time they feel something is offensive or inappropriate. Or NOT open that topic to begin with. Trying to deny others the right to speak about what is on their mind or heart is also offensive.

    There are enough MODS here to filter what THEY feel is inappropriate and enough posters to comment when remarks are offensive and need to be accounted for. That means in a heated argument when apologies are warranted.

    #753846
    yenta.morph
    Member
    #753847
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    While I don’t agree with parbenbakar in regards to the CR in general, I found that post he was referring to, inappropriate.

    #753848
    real-brisker
    Member

    reb yonte – I cant see the hebrew, can you decipher it for me please.

    #753849
    real-brisker
    Member

    Halevi – Well even so, he should not go and posel up the whole CR.

    #753850
    yenta.morph
    Member

    Koach hapoel bnifal

    the creator influences the creation

    if the creator is empty so is the creation

    #753851
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Real Brisker,

    I couldn’t agree with you more, but I’ll try.

    #753852
    Health
    Participant

    “reb yonte – I cant see the hebrew, can you decipher it for me please.”

    Just click on the link -He has post on that topic that is applicable to here.

    #753853
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    realbrisker- how do you know which post he was talking about? I personally agree that there are topics and comments that are not appropriate and am grateful when the ones that go way over are erased, but, as I have said many times, I consider it my problem and something I should deal with on my own (stop reading or posting). My job is not to change the world when I haven’t finished with myself yet. (and tweaks to the kids too, lol). But the funny thing is that the topic of abuse (I’m assuming that was the upsetting topic) is NOT something I would put an end to. I think people need to understand what is out there in the private way it has been expressed. Abuse from others and otd issues as well. My problem (again, my personal issue) are the silly, drinking related, put-down related, sometimes pushing the tznius edge, posts.

    #753854
    HAKOL TOV
    Member

    i have been reading the cr posts for a very long time but never actually contributed!

    i have to say that i have been extremely impressed!

    its amazing how everyone is here for each other and even though opoinions may vary almost all of you “agree to disagree”!!

    some of you have really impressed me!

    and this also helps us see how great the yiddishe kinder are!

    so many people from so many different backgrounds post here and most are so respectful…

    i could go on and on…

    #753855
    real-brisker
    Member

    Syag – What exactly do you want from me? Are you arguing with me about something?

    #753856
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    Huh? I was just wondering how you knew which post the OP was referring to. The rest was just my comment on the topic. Not sure why you got that impression. 🙁

    #753857
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    realbrisker-Oh gosh, it was HaLeiVi. Someone (thought it was you) said they saw the post the OP was referring to and I was just curious to know how they figured it out from the OP’s post. Sorry if it sounded confrontational. I usually work very hard to avoid confrontation.

    #753858
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    I was talking about parbenbakar’s comment. I don’t either think the abuse thread should be taken down, but there was an inappropriate description there, albeit not extremely terrible, nor that descriptive.

    #753859
    eclipse
    Member

    Was it any of my posts or not?

    #753860
    real-brisker
    Member

    Syag – No Problem

    #753861
    blueprints
    Participant

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking the law of the land, whether it’s “halachically permissible” or not, should be taken down and/or blocked.

    I, for one, think that anything that advocates breaking halacha, should be taken down and/or blocked. Anything that conforms to halacha, whether it’s “the law of the land” or not, should be allowed.

    No sweat. Your blocked

    I don’t think that’s fair at all considering he was right not

    controversial!

    He’s out of line all the time. Don’t get us started. It’s his way, or the highway.

    POSTED 1 DAY AGO #

    And yet he was innocent here

    Even if you block him I back his statement

    #753862
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Eclipse,

    The one who posted it is aware of what we are referring to. I don’t want to put pressure on that person, so I hope nobody presses on.

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