i was just having a discussion with my friend about tznius, but really this could fall under any catagory. i was saying that all the rabbis and everyone say “four inches” and whatever, and some people have NO problem at all doing it! but i was saying that i seriously CAN NOT bring myself to wear that, and i think that if i DID do that, i wouldnt be happy about it. and then i was thinking like lets say with things i watch, or things i read….so i know many people who would NEVER read things that i read but then i know MANY people who have no problem with it. (and im not talking about terrible things…)so i asked myself this question: do i wanna stop doing these things? and my honest answer was……no. i dont really wanna. so if its something that i shouldnt be doing, then why dont i wanna stop???