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I know how you might be feeling right now, I am also having things checked out, so I will keep you in mind for a refuah shelaima. If it is permitted to post your Hebrew name here, I will add it when I say Tehillim. B”EH you should already be well on your way to a complete refuah.
Sorry, no names allowed, but I’m sure Hashem knows who you’re davening for if you use a screename instead of a real name.
Oomis and esther H, may you hear besoros tovos about your health.
THIS will link you to the tehillim thread. in that thread there is an attached google doc that can be accessed and people can sign up to say a kapital or more daily. on the next page, names can be inserted without identifying who posted it.
compliments of the chef
“Oomis and esther H, may you hear besoros tovos about your health”
Thanks Mod26. For some reason, I did not see this post until today, and I wanted to acknowledge your good wishes. Amein. May all cholei Yisroel have a refuah shelaima.
esther have a big refuah shelaimah bekarov. Hashem should help you be strong.
estherh-
A former rebbe had to undergo chemo, and I remember the simcha we felt when he was declared cancer-free.
oomis1105-
estherh- our t’fillos are with you.
I have some close relatives going through the same- keep strong. Hashem is with you, always.
– areivim
estherh; May HB”H send you a “Refuah Shleimah!!!” May you have a full speedy recovery
B’soich Shar Cholei Yisroel, B’karov!!!
ICOT, thank you very much. Esther, chizki v’imtzi, and may the chemo do its job properly, with a minimum (if any) of negative side effects to you.Refuah shelaima and have a good Shabbos and g’mar chasimah tova.
estherh: may you have a speedy Refuah Shilamah! you’ll be in my daily Tefillos & in my Yom Kippor Tefillos! & May you have an easy year! stay strong!
p.s. you truly are an asset to the CR always with your positive additive & love for Hashem that is evident in your posts! Htzlacha Rabbah with the treatment!
-Jax
oomis: may it be nothing & a only good thing for the new year!
estherh,
May Hashem grant you a Refuah Shelaima.
estherh and oomis,
May you have a good, healthy year, full of nachas and simcha.
esther- refua shleima may you be soche to be alwaya bsimcha and always able to be msamaioch others,.i wish u a speedy recovery. may you and all of kllal yisrael only have simchas!
also about this compliment thing so here is my story:
there is this girl that i am in school with and it happens to be that we daven in the same room. i was never really friends with her and still not at all but she changed my way of davening. last yeat she sat right near me and the way she davened was unbeleivable. this seating arrangement was “random”. and this year they put us according to our hebrew names in order. and i am right next to her aagain! im telling you that the exxtent of her impact on me holds not only in school but at shul and home too. whenever i daven i feel as if she is right next to me and my davening is so diff! i bentch this girl she should only have bracha in her life. but- I CANT COME TO TELL THIS TO HER FACE tell me if im nuts but if u barely ever speak to her and not friends how should i do it?
second: i was in a store in flatbush and i saw a more modern looking girl and she was looking to buuy. it doesnt matter what the style was but it wasnt too beffiting. and in front of her friends she said NO i wont buy it! i was so impressed i wanted to stick a note in her urse, but who would actually do it? i just coulnt go adn do it! may we only have to give compliments and brachos!
esther, i dont think i will be able to do it. its just not the type. i donot know if you understand it, but it would be really uncomfomtable to me and her. we just dont click.
How are you feeling, esther?
Esther: emush, We all hope you are feeling well.
May your strong spirit, and upbeat attitude guide you B”H,
through these hard times, and may you emerge victoriously!
May Simcha & Mazel always chase you, while finding you always
in the best of healthy & happiness.
Amein. Refuah sh’laimah b’karov! Be strong…
BS”D
Refuah shelema!!
estherh-
Refuah shelaima bekorov.
I read that hypnotism can help with some of chemo’s side effects (I’m not a medical professional, this is something I read).
Googling “hypnotism chemo” brings up many links about this topic.
Refuah Shilamah!
Estherh Hashem should send you a complete refuah shelema!!
esther, i wish a refuah shilaima bikarov and u should goet thru this difficult time. in response to ure comment , i wish i can say ok fine i will do it, its just not gonna work at all. its gonna be weird awkward for both of us. its bad enough that we sit right next to each other and i barely can talk to her! thanks anyway!
sunflower, maybe you can put a note in her looseleaf or bag or something when shes not there. That way you do it awkward-free and get the message across. I’m sure she would appreciate hearing it.
hey kapusta that is a great idea. but how do i like cange my handwriting and what if i want to sign my name? if i do it will be really weird! thanks for ure idea!
As long as shes not there when she gets it/sees it, and no one ever mentions it, I can’t imagine why it would be awkward but if you still feel uncomfortable about it then try typing it and if you don’t want to sign your name then just sign with your initials or do something generic like, “a classmate” or something like that.
Hope I helped!
sunflower- i totally understand your dilemma.
i just wanted to say two things-
…1. when I was in high school I remember someone who was about 2-3 years older than me, and the way the person Davened was so inspiring! such kavanah, such an obvious connection, such pureness!
But because of the awkwardness of the situation (the person was older than me ect.), I never did it.
I wish I can now remember who that was so that I can tell them how much they impacted my davening- until today!
…2. When a friend of mine was in sleep away camp, in the older teen division, it was a summer with a lot of conflict in Eretz Yisroel. My friend decided to try to say one Tefillah with real Kavanah, maybe even shed a tear.
Later, that night by an activity, a counselor tapped my friend on the shoulder and said- “You really inspired my davening today. I couldn’t help but noticed the way YOU davened. Thank You.”
The friend was so moved, and it’s impact was long reaching…
GRAB THE MOMENT!
It might be a little hard or slightly awkward but do it!
type a note!
write with your other hand… whatever!
But know, that one single compliment, can shake the heavens and move the earth, and not only will she have impacted your kavanah, you will have impacted hers
ambush wow! u are so right but i still cant bring myself to do it. i want it to be only for her and no one else and its so weird because i sit right next to her and i can barely speak to her and if i can we talk for like a second about the most wierdest things that pertain to only then. i dont know……
eshter, u are totally correct and i know that i am wrong but there is a wall blocking me every time i would like to tell her. i know u will say to smash that wall now , but its very hard!
Wow.I just dug up a gold mine!
Whenever I search through the CR’s virtual attic,I always find interesting “artifacts”!
This thread is so old,it’s a THREADA-SAURUS.
Anyway,it’s worth reading thru these posts,very heartwarming.
Thank you, dear eclipse, what a wonderful job you do of digging up old interesting threads.
As the sage Al Capone once noted: “You can get more with a kind word and a gun than you can with a gun alone.”
Eclipse – Threadasaurus??
Oh no – this thread didn’t evolve, it was CREATED!!!
(Purim can’t be far away)
Does anyone know how Be Happy is?
yes, she still needs your tefillos, please have her in mind when you daven.
Results from a compliment depend on where they come from in a person and to where they go in the receiver.
I personally cannot stand compliments from this high ego driven woman in our community who is an attention seeking social butterfly who feels she is on top of the world and better than everyone else.
When she
pats me on the backwith her words of flattery I actually feel invaded or robbed by her approval andpunching my ticketNo one needs that.On the other hand if a sincere old heimishe woman stops me in the bank and just says a soft sincere word such as
your looking very good these days, it actually makes me feel nice.Continued refuos, be Happy.
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