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ever hear of this inyan? when i was in E”Y, i was at a teachers house, and a few of my friends and myself noticed a gorgeous black and gold plaque with hers and her husbands wedding engraved into it. we thought it was a gift and asked who gave it, or where they got it, or something, and she told us there is an inyan of a chosson inviting his kallah to their own wedding, so that’s the way he did it. i never heard of such a thing before. can anyone enlighten me?
you want her to show up, dont u!!!!??? so u better personally invite her. and give her whatever pleases her that she comes. lol
The Choson is acquiring the Kallah and wants to make sure she shows up happily.
she should invite him her parents are paying the lions share
He is not literally being “koneh” her – he is making a kinyan in her. If she needs an invitation to show up to her own wedding, I don’t know if things are starting off on the right foot.
I have not heard of this before.
What a waste of money.
Not everything has to be made into an “inyan”
To each their own. Not everything is a minhog.
I hope he wants me to come…..but I dont think I need to invite him! After all, I’m paying for the meal so maybe I should invite him(or have my parents invite him to be more accurate.)
this is very interesing (and weird) to me…. inviting his Kallah?!! (sigh) who eva hoyd of somthing as funny as this, i tell you…oy…lol
Its more of a chassidish thing I think I got one too its usally sent for shabbos kallah w flowers
It sounds strange to me too, but hey… as long as you’re not going to insist that I have to do it too, go ahead. It doesn’t bother me if you insist on inviting your kallah to your wedding.
The Wolf
The inyan does make sense, however in this day in age I must concur with adorable and the goq- technically since the kalla paying for majority she should be the one to do the inviting.
But women, complain, I wouldn’t mind something like that:)
Things have gotten too shticky.
Was there also an engraved return card; or was she only invited to the chuppa?
It has noting to do with any minhag, its about the engraving store makung money, When my parents got married 43 years ago it was very “in”.
I don’t know about any inyan, but when I got married, back in the dark ages, many of us sent our chossonim and kallah’s invites.
I file this under the category of tasking the broken glass bits and making them into a mezuzah case for the new couple. It’s not assur, so who cares what they do, if it makes them happy?
I dont care if people do it, its actualy a nice home decoration, but I have a problem with people making it an “inyan”.
were some of these posts deleted? like mine for example!?!??!
Off topic but I was wondering abot the Mezuza case made from glass pieces.
Is this for outdoors in sunlight? Might be looking for trouble as the glass bits may intensify the heat and damage the Mezuza
yummy, will you show up even if you don’t get an invitation? 😉
Will Gefen be getting an invite? What about the rest of your (CR) family?!
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