Changing The Tone On Looks In Dating

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  • #718898
    Sacrilege
    Member

    PB

    Your not?!

    Where do I sign up 😉

    #718899
    pumper
    Member

    OMG! This is getting serious! PB, I know Sac is charming and all, but you must be really smitten to agree to go out without necessitating a picture. Good for you!

    #718900

    Sac

    lol Idk! Ask the Mods?

    Pumper

    Hi!

    #718901
    Sacrilege
    Member

    pumper

    My ridiculously good looks will just be the icing on the cake 😉

    PB

    Work your magic.

    #718902
    pumper
    Member

    PB-

    Hi there!

    #718903
    pumper
    Member

    Sac- Maybe this will begin a trend!

    PB will become a Renaissance man! A revolutionary!

    #718904

    Sac

    Ask them to give you my contact. I dont want to break a rule…

    #718905

    although this is all a joke… MODS???!!! Where are you?

    #718906

    fasting

    #718907
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    What is this? WIY tried for years and now PB gets a date in three days?

    #718908

    Popa

    I guess its my rediculously good looks;-)

    Mods feel free to give it to sac, and you’ll get the shadchanus money. And don’t worry. The fast is almost over.

    #718909
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I just want to mourn my thread, and how there are barely any posts on the original topic in this hundred+ post thread.

    But, really, this thread is a success. The tone is changed. Everyone on this thread is acknowledging the validity of caring about looks in dating.

    #718910
    dunno
    Member

    Come on Mods! Give the info!!

    #718911

    Popa

    You have to look at the good in all situations.

    #718912
    pumper
    Member

    popa-

    interesting… because PB just “agreed” to meet Sac without seeing a pic first.

    And in my humble opinion, WIY was beating around the bush for too long. PB deserves it cuz at least he is straightforward.

    #718913

    okay

    #718914
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    pumper:

    I did not mean because of that. I meant before it got totally hijacked and it was about how girls should dress for dates.

    And, you are right, with WIY, they were both playing “hard to get”, and they played it too well. They were too hard to get.

    #718915
    cshapiro
    Member

    pb and sac u do realize ur gonna have to invite all ur cr friends to the wedding iyh!!!

    #718916

    Thanks Mod!

    #718917
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Big deal. Sac and PB are the same person. And WIY.

    #718918

    Lol oh no! cshapiro saw..now she is going to want her downpayment

    #718919
    pumper
    Member

    cshapiro-

    Wow! Ur getting ahead of yourself!

    #718920

    Mazal Tov!

    #718921

    Popa

    Shoot! How did you figure it out? Were actually a few more people too…I get it…conspiracy theorist, unless you wanted to go out with Sac…lol

    #718922
    cshapiro
    Member

    pb…come on i def had a hand in it i deserve my cut..!!!!

    pumper: ahead of myself???? i already bought a gown…and im shopping for matching shoes rite now!!!

    #718923
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I am getting a cut on the shadchanus. It happened on my thread.

    #718924
    dunno
    Member

    Oh wow! This is really getting fun!

    #718925

    Watch them get all shy when he calls her for the first time…

    #718926
    pumper
    Member

    cshapiro-

    if you can’t beat em, join em. We have to start thinking about names for the kids, iy”h.

    #718927
    cshapiro
    Member

    Good point pumper, I like the way u think!!! …def gotta name the first one after me that’s for sure!!!

    #718928

    Lol oh wow! This is deff an interesting thread now. And of course, everyone is planning the kids already, but forgetting to tell Sac!

    #718929
    cshapiro
    Member

    yeah we should prob discuss color scheme for the wedding, i was thinking pumpkin orange or spongebob yellow???

    #718930
    an idea
    Participant

    I’d like to change the tone of this thread back to poppa’s topic. I fully agree with your sentiment no one is going to marry a girl for her looks. Guys want to feel like they connect well with a girl as a person and also want to her to be attractive. As was mentioned this is the teva that hashem created them with.

    I also agree with the concept that girls should try to present themselves in the most appeasing way possible not only for dates but also in their everyday life. I think its important for people to be concious of how they present themselves to others. You don’t have to shop at sacks to look presentable.

    #718931

    An Idea

    I don’t know if you are a guy or girl, but I know some guys that had married because of looks. They became infatuated with the girl once they saw her and overlooked everything else. I’m not going to say that the girls did the same thing, but hey, they did agree to it. I also agree that girls should make sure they look good without being on a date, but the same goes for guys.

    cshapiro

    I was thinking it can be a beach wedding, though here it is pretty cold. But you need to ask Sac what she wants, I don’t want shalom bayis issues so soon! lol

    #718932
    stamagoy
    Member

    i didnt really have time to read all the long comments that ppl left but i was thinking that it goes both ways a lot of times girls r very into mundane things abt the guy such as what car does he drive?? Does he read the newspaper?? Does he have nice clothes?? i think that everyone involved in shidduchim has to start focusing on the more important things in life. Why do the important questions such as does he have good middos?? often come later than a question abt the car

    #718933
    cshapiro
    Member

    pb ur 100% rite theres nothing worse then going into a marriage with shalom bayis problems, so…when u say the beach, do u mean st lucia??? cause im totally game for that!!!

    #718934
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Because you can always change your middos, but a car is a car.

    #718935

    how come when i tried opening a cr shidduchim thread, it got taken off? i think this is so cute!!!!!

    #718936

    cshapiro

    Well…come on. You should know by now, we gotta confirm with Sac bkz of shalom bayis;-)

    #718937
    cshapiro
    Member

    idk, sac seems to have gone mia…

    #718938

    popa thats pretty much the dumbest thing i ever heard in my life but if ur that shallow u shud be a good shidduch for someone i know.

    Goes by the name PEanut Butter

    #718939
    dunno
    Member

    Yea Sac, where are you? This is your wedding being discussed…

    #718940

    yea I think she got scared off…

    #718941
    pumper
    Member

    I hope Sac didn’t get scared off by all this wedding talk. Maybe she’s getting cold feet!

    #718942
    dunno
    Member

    chayavinishlivisumay:

    Chill, it was a joke.

    #718943
    mamashtakah
    Member

    Yes, most guys can tell you if they found her attractive or not. But details…forget about it.

    It’s funny, I used to stay with my aunt and uncle in NY when I went in for dates, and they always teased me because I came back afterwards and never knew details, like the color of the girl’s eyes. The one time I paid attention, and was able to tell them – that girl eventually became my wife!

    #718944

    chayav……

    Sorry. I am straight.

    #718945
    cshapiro
    Member

    i bet shes just doing her makeup….i heard pb asked her out tonight….!!

    #718946
    dunno
    Member

    cshapiro, pumper:

    We’re gonna help Sac through this together, k?

    #718947
    cshapiro
    Member

    If you’re suggesting we spy on their first real date….I’ll have to check my schedule…:))

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