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PB
Your not?!
Where do I sign up 😉
OMG! This is getting serious! PB, I know Sac is charming and all, but you must be really smitten to agree to go out without necessitating a picture. Good for you!
Sac
lol Idk! Ask the Mods?
Pumper
Hi!
pumper
My ridiculously good looks will just be the icing on the cake 😉
PB
Work your magic.
PB-
Hi there!
Sac- Maybe this will begin a trend!
PB will become a Renaissance man! A revolutionary!
Sac
Ask them to give you my contact. I dont want to break a rule…
although this is all a joke… MODS???!!! Where are you?
fasting
Popa
I guess its my rediculously good looks;-)
Mods feel free to give it to sac, and you’ll get the shadchanus money. And don’t worry. The fast is almost over.
Come on Mods! Give the info!!
Popa
You have to look at the good in all situations.
popa-
interesting… because PB just “agreed” to meet Sac without seeing a pic first.
And in my humble opinion, WIY was beating around the bush for too long. PB deserves it cuz at least he is straightforward.
okay
pb and sac u do realize ur gonna have to invite all ur cr friends to the wedding iyh!!!
Thanks Mod!
Lol oh no! cshapiro saw..now she is going to want her downpayment
cshapiro-
Wow! Ur getting ahead of yourself!
Mazal Tov!
Popa
Shoot! How did you figure it out? Were actually a few more people too…I get it…conspiracy theorist, unless you wanted to go out with Sac…lol
pb…come on i def had a hand in it i deserve my cut..!!!!
pumper: ahead of myself???? i already bought a gown…and im shopping for matching shoes rite now!!!
Oh wow! This is really getting fun!
Watch them get all shy when he calls her for the first time…
cshapiro-
if you can’t beat em, join em. We have to start thinking about names for the kids, iy”h.
Good point pumper, I like the way u think!!! …def gotta name the first one after me that’s for sure!!!
Lol oh wow! This is deff an interesting thread now. And of course, everyone is planning the kids already, but forgetting to tell Sac!
yeah we should prob discuss color scheme for the wedding, i was thinking pumpkin orange or spongebob yellow???
I’d like to change the tone of this thread back to poppa’s topic. I fully agree with your sentiment no one is going to marry a girl for her looks. Guys want to feel like they connect well with a girl as a person and also want to her to be attractive. As was mentioned this is the teva that hashem created them with.
I also agree with the concept that girls should try to present themselves in the most appeasing way possible not only for dates but also in their everyday life. I think its important for people to be concious of how they present themselves to others. You don’t have to shop at sacks to look presentable.
An Idea
I don’t know if you are a guy or girl, but I know some guys that had married because of looks. They became infatuated with the girl once they saw her and overlooked everything else. I’m not going to say that the girls did the same thing, but hey, they did agree to it. I also agree that girls should make sure they look good without being on a date, but the same goes for guys.
cshapiro
I was thinking it can be a beach wedding, though here it is pretty cold. But you need to ask Sac what she wants, I don’t want shalom bayis issues so soon! lol
i didnt really have time to read all the long comments that ppl left but i was thinking that it goes both ways a lot of times girls r very into mundane things abt the guy such as what car does he drive?? Does he read the newspaper?? Does he have nice clothes?? i think that everyone involved in shidduchim has to start focusing on the more important things in life. Why do the important questions such as does he have good middos?? often come later than a question abt the car
pb ur 100% rite theres nothing worse then going into a marriage with shalom bayis problems, so…when u say the beach, do u mean st lucia??? cause im totally game for that!!!
how come when i tried opening a cr shidduchim thread, it got taken off? i think this is so cute!!!!!
cshapiro
Well…come on. You should know by now, we gotta confirm with Sac bkz of shalom bayis;-)
idk, sac seems to have gone mia…
popa thats pretty much the dumbest thing i ever heard in my life but if ur that shallow u shud be a good shidduch for someone i know.
Goes by the name PEanut Butter
Yea Sac, where are you? This is your wedding being discussed…
yea I think she got scared off…
I hope Sac didn’t get scared off by all this wedding talk. Maybe she’s getting cold feet!
chayavinishlivisumay:
Chill, it was a joke.
Yes, most guys can tell you if they found her attractive or not. But details…forget about it.
It’s funny, I used to stay with my aunt and uncle in NY when I went in for dates, and they always teased me because I came back afterwards and never knew details, like the color of the girl’s eyes. The one time I paid attention, and was able to tell them – that girl eventually became my wife!
chayav……
Sorry. I am straight.
i bet shes just doing her makeup….i heard pb asked her out tonight….!!
cshapiro, pumper:
We’re gonna help Sac through this together, k?
If you’re suggesting we spy on their first real date….I’ll have to check my schedule…:))
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