i am impressed with your level. I have lost sleep (literally) over this since he disappeared, Jeff’s brother was a good friend of mine in high school and I couldn’t deal with the thought of their pain. I know you are right about respecting their privacy but it is very difficult not to want to know what happened. I’ll work on it.
Syag- I agree that it’s very difficult not to want to know what happened. I think most of us are curious. But unless it’s publicized, we’re probably not supposed to know.