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The OP is telling you that he/she does have a need for a response.
I was referring to a response that would enhance the dialogue. what you’re referring to is an emotional need. If that emotional need is for the poster to be acknowledged, than I suppose every poster should keep a record of who posts and make sure to respond, at least occasionally, to each fellow poster.
What it originally sounded like was that the OP felt that her (?) posts were not being read, or not deemed worthy of consideration. What I was pointing out was that a poster whose post is not responded to should not feel that it was ignored, or that other, non-responsive posters didn’t find the post valuable.
I don’t think anyone ignores anyone here. It may be that the point you might make does not require a comment, because it was so well-made, it stands on its own. I don’t know. I read most psots, but don’t respond to all of them.
I agree 100% with a ‘like’ button!!
In my experience, as kid I preffered ignored. I hung out with kids who I knew were not my pears and would ultimately ignore me, rather than be snubbed by my peers. These days I don’t have much time to “hang out” and am most friendly with a)my direct neighbors and b)no strings attached friends who feel comfortbale enough to call me or I call them on an as-needed basis with no “maintenance” needed.
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Nottelling – I heard a shuir from Paysach Krohn. He said:
“A person will only hurt your feelings if you let them.”
I am super sensitive (I feel for you) and try to remember this all the time. It helps to get difficulties into perspective.
Don’t let comments hurt you, and try to give person the benefit of the doubt. Maybe not feeling well? up at night etc. Hatzlocho
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i have- uncharacteristically for me, been on cr a lot this past week. and i do realize now that not getting responded to makes you wonder if anyone has read, or registered what you wrote. sometimes you feel like you are just shouting into nothing. i think a like button, or an agree, or disagree button would help people feel connected. if you write and care enough to give advice or share something it would be nice to know that someone heard it. by the way , i’m generally extremely unsensitive , and suffer from an excess of self-esteem rather than the opposite.
Not all people read ALL comments. Sometimes thereare just too many, bli ayin hara.
kapusta: I don’t know if you know me. I don’t always post but no, I didn’t take a break from the cr.
Oh, well. It was fun almost figuring you out.
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couldja give us a hint
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