being followed

Call 911.

call shomrim & a friend/neighbor

restraining order….dun dun dun

Check for horns. If yes then it’s me!

(Actually I’ve got a small antenna, but its not noticeable)

yoyo- you have a real issue- not that ppl are following you but because its in your head! Sac- well said i was going to say the same! can you be more specific with what type of “following you” is meant in your post? I am very confused@!

Did the cops apprehend the suspect after your police report?

maybe a husband if possible…..same here btw

am yisrael chai

You’re right. It’s not a joking matter. So if it’s really happening, this isn’t the place to get help.

hey zees i see tonz of ppl with antennas you got to be more specific

Yoyo,

Is this the same person (at that store) that you mentioned in your other thread? Or is this in another store?

Also, what are the chances that it is coincidence? How often has it happened?

If you are afraid of this person, tell your parents or call the cops. If you are not afraid of this person then turn around and walk right up to her/him and confront them.

You say? What a coincidence that you have been everywhere that I have been the past couple of days? Where are you going next? Maybe we can just go together?

chill

Yoyo, how foolish do you think she will feel when you confront her? That will be the end of it. What is she going to do? Break your arm?????

That would be a start.

Yoyo, as I said, don’t ask her, just play the game. That would make her feel foolish. She expects you to ask her “are you following me?” She doesn’t expect you to play nice. That will make her feel awkward and not know how to behave.

And what would stop you from asking that? What makes you think a boy is having you followed? Why would a boy do that?

yoyo – Do not come to a public forum and expect strangers to solve your private problems. Noone here knows whether this is a figment of your imagination or not. If something like this occurs again, get on your cell and call your parents. This is what parents do. Do not call 911, unless you have reason to believe your life is in danger. Even though Aries means well and she takes you at your word, you might not be explaining the situation properly. If you call the cops and you accuse someone and they investigate and find nothing wrong, you have just committed a crime. Whether they will arrest you or just shrug their shoulders, will depend on a lot of factors. If this happens again call your parents immediately and follow their advice. You do have parents, don’t you?

but im getting a little nervous i want to know why she is following me did a guy tell her to or is she just actin wierd

It sounds like the store manager is interested in finding out why you don’t talk with him. You have not described him as a tsniut person.

yoyo-calm down! your life isn’t over! Very likely that these ppl are all in it 2gether. Don’t confront them-it would b rly awkward and theyd probably deny anyways. Stare at the person as if theyr nuts, make them feel really stupid. Be a snob. If that doesn’t work then tell your parents or just dont go near that store anymore. Sooner or later theyll give up on you. Ignore the managers, act as if you don’t know them. Hopefully theyll get the point. (I didnt read the other thread)

Health, It wasn’t I that said to calll the police.

YoYo, again don’t get paranoid. It is probably nothing, and way too foolish. Who has time before pesach to follow another person as a whim for the guys in the store. If you see her walk over to her and stop being so nervous. At best you can both have a good laugh. At worst she will be embarrassed.

happiest – “I think you are wrong about the criminal part.”

I’m not wrong. You’re very naive. Let’s say this a figment of her imagination (I’m not saying it is, but it could be), calling the cops could be (not definitely) considered harrassment.

Would you want someone calling the cops on you because you decided to stare at someone. I offered the most logical advice. I don’t think another high school girl is going to hurt her, nor do I think Frum managers at a grocery store are upto hurting other people.

First of all, she should tell her parents that she is not ever going back to this store and she should say why. Second of all, if she ever feels she is being followed by someone, she should call her parents immediately. They are adults -they can investigate. If they feel it is a matter for the police, they can call. If they feel she suffers from sort of paranoia, they can get her the help she needs. I feel a lot of the advice here is a disservice to this teenager. Noone here is able to judge up the situation and I don’t think anyone here except perhaps Aries is capable of judging up someone’s mental state. And this is difficult to do even for mental health professionals who do it in person.

I’ll reiterate my point – she should seek advice from her parents only and not from a bunch of anon. bloggers. Usually people can come here for advice and a lot of advice is on the mark, but I don’t see how anyone can accurately figure out what exactly is going on here. You need someone to be there in person to see how much this is imagination and how much is truth.