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no one knows who I am on here (except for one person, actually), but just wanted to let everyone know that my grandfather passed away earlier today.
may we only here besuros tovos from now on, and may moshiach come speedily in our days to take away all the pain.
I’m sorry to hear that;
Thanks for sharing.
amen. Baruch Dayan Emes
I’m so sorry psach libi bsorasecha.
baruch dayan haemes
baruch deyin ha emes to you
Deiyez- BDE is to Hashem ONLY.
Hamokom ynachem eschem is for the family.
With that I say BD”E, may you and your family only have Simchas.
It’s very sad to lose a grandparent.Especially if you were close to him.
Boruch Dayan Emes. May you be filled with all the good memories that you shared and comfort in the knowledge that he loved you and had nachas from you. May you continue to bring him nachas and share simchas with your family and your friends on the CR.
Baruch Dayan Emes. So sorry for your loss… May his memory be a blessing. May you & your family be comforted amongst the mourners of Zion & Yerushalayim, and may you know only simchas in the future.
Baruch Dayan HaEmes
boruch dayan emes. hamakom yenachem eschem. if I’m not mistaken, there are also certain halachos (aveilus) for a grandchild for 3 days. all I can think of is no music, but it really gives the family a time to allow to mourn. please correct me if I am mistaken.
B”DE. I am so sorry for the pain you and your family are going through now. May Hashem comfort all of you, and bring much simcha into your life from now on. H”YE…
BD”E.
Amichai – there are no halochos of aveilus for a grandchild. The halocho is Kibud av v’em, that when a parent is sitting shiva, a child keeps certain halochos of aveilus until the first motzei shabbos (hot showers, music etc.). These halochos are regardless of whether the parent is sitting shiva for his/her own parent, or if the parent is sitting for another relative (spouse, sibling etc.)
Hamakom yenachem eschem b’soch sha’ar aveili Zion v’Yerushalayim.
Grandchildren are in the category of “silent mourners”- very painful, but no aveilus. You feel that hole in your heart, and it really hurts!
LBK:
As far as I am aware, this halacha of aveilus for the children of parents who are sitting shiva r”l, only applies when the children are in the same town as the shiva. This is out of respect for the parent who is in mourning, that they act appropriatly and not enjoying life as if nothing happened.
This is known as “Misablin imoy”
PL”B: Ask a competent Rov for a final p’sak.
To all in CR: We should always share simchos with each other!
Baruch Dayan Emes. May you be comforted along with the other mourners of Zion and Yerushalayim(if I can say that to a grandchild). My grandmother A’H passed away last year and it was very hard. Yet this is an opportunity in which we are better able to see Hashem’s hand and wonders and feel his presence comforting us(if we look out for it).
BDE, Psach libi.
We had an elder member pass away a few months ago. It was after a long illness, but it was still a real shocker. He was a “laager yid” and the hespedim really hit home, so I can imagine what you feel like.
psach libi bsorasecha-
I’m sorry about your grandfather’s petira.
Even when someone has been zoche to arichas yomim, it’s very sad when they are niftar.
May he be a mailitz yoisher for your family and all Klal Yisroel and may you have a nechama.
sorry to hear of your loss.may you only have simchas from now on.
Mi k’amcha yisroel…a yid never suffers alone.
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