The other thread was closed and I just had one point I wanted to mention. Rather than contacting someone directly, you may want to call some community Rabbanim and repeat what you posted here- (including your Rav’s info). A Rav may have an easier time directing you to specific people (possibly even anonymously) or with a number of people. Please do not limit yourself to Brooklyn, I’m sure many people in other communities would be happy to help.
Hatzlacha with everything. Please let us know when things improve. (IY”H soon!)
*kapusta*