Ask the opposite gender

moski: Why are you sticking out your tongue at me? I was agreeing with you :[

I interpret a swag as gaava. Am I alone on this?

Also, if her friend that was asked info from repeats the whole conversation without filtering, she’s more insensitive than the guy who asked.

Mammele: No not at all. I agree. Though the real meaning is to walk in a cool way. I interpret swag as a little game for uncool people to do stuff some guy decided should be considered “cool”.

Thanks moski for agreeing with me. I was afraid I was the odd (wo)man out, and on a yeshivish site yet … Which brings me to your game — aka known as peer pressure — which I obviously was just a victim to, although I’m not such a good player…

Lol to you and zb.

Well…back to the original question…I personally like colored shirts on boys, especially on dates. A nice blue, green or pin striped shirt is great.

My questions to boys:

What do you think a girl should order on a date? What should she never order?

If she is the same height as you should she not wear heels?

Finally if it didn’t work out between the two of you would you ever consider suggesting your friend for her?

Order an easy to cut piece of chicken cutlet, if out for fleishigs, or a piece of fish if dairy. DO NOT ever on a first date order falafel in a pita, or spaghetti. BBQ ribs are a no-no, too.

Probably a good idea not to wear heels in such a case as same height.

I would always consider if someone was not for me, whether or not that personw ould be good for someone else I know. My nephew married his lovely wife because his best friend went out with her first and realized that my nephew was more shayach for her than himself. he was right.

LOL I was cracking up from this thread!! I dont think guys should ask for pictures in the first place but if the guy is asking for a picture then at least he should give a picture in return. and to guys who want to wear crazy colored sox wear them to sleep but not in the street. did anyone hear of the new site that just launched zivugzone.com ? -for orthodox singles like chassidish,yeshivish,leaning yeshivish,mchmir modern…… -can do through a shadchan as one of the options

Where do the swaggies get the money to spend on clothes and trinkets is it all money earned from odd jobs during bain hazmanim or is it

C hopped

A ssets

S queezed from

H arried parents

swag=trying to be cool! love that cash definition!

yummy cupcake- i agree with ur point especially about the internet asifa! but putting that aside people still use the internet including people like u and me. , so if the internet is still being used then we should use it for a good purpose.Boys are lost in a forest as they say and girls are lost in a dessert-so according to boys they have piles and piles of resumes to go through and they think all the girls sound the same, so if they use this website then they might actually get a girl who is really shayich for them and theyre personality.It can give girls a way to get ahold of boys as a possible shidduch for them which is something that is very hard to do these days for a girl.The more yeshivish people will do it through a shadchan of course which is one of the options.If it helps at least 1 couple get engaged then its worth it ! DOnt u think??

Swag means confidence.

It also means

arrogance, boasting

and bragging.

My Little Pony lovers

are too awesome

for the CR.

Please leave.

princess, not necessarily. well, not for me or any of my friends for that matter. they kinds of boys we are looking for would not touch a dating website… obviously, neither would we. i think for the other ppl its geared towards, it might do something, cuz they would probably use shidduch world or frumster or whatever. but no i don’t think that its gonna work for the yeshivish/very frum crowd.

yummy cupcake-well ur probably right but then again you never know!! I wouldnt be surprised if some mothers who want to get theyr sons married would take the test according to their sons personality and then if a shidduch comes up, say somthing came up to theyr son and not tell the boy where its really from till after they go out!! it depends how yeshivish people are- if they have internet then they cant be that yeshivish like u and me , even if you say u want someone yeshivish then why are you on cofeeroom??

it looks like its trying to copy jDate.

I have my personal opinion about online dating. I think a) anyone can log on and can pretend their this amazing person. You have to be careful. My experiences went from ok, to talking to a stalker, to completely wasting my time…

It CAN work but you gotta sift through the “garbage” before you can come across someone normal. But my theory is – of your normal and your on it – chances are there are some guys that are normal and are on it.

HOWEVER the biggest problem with online dating sites is I found the majority guys there were frum but much more lenient in things I found important (like being shomer). It was a big let down… I think I prefer the shadchan scene…

Thank you,

Brony,

for your poetic

addition to this site

and for your careful

more slang-filled

sarcasm,

which made me

laugh a

lot.

Goodbye!!!

Men: Why don’t you like curly hair? (& by curly I mean nice ringlets, not a frizzy mess)

interjection: Ugh I wish! Aren’t curls supposed to be wild, attractive….you catch my drift..?

Wow this post is AWESOME…

1. I have no problem with colored shirts but I do think it is nice when guys wear white shirts on shabbos and holidays

(Wearing respectable clothing shows that a guy has self respect)

2. Cologne: I have had so many times when a guy was wearing so much cologne he nearly made birds fall out of trees the smell was so overpowering….just ugh

On the other hand some guys surprisingly smell great

My favorite smells on guys would be:

Really clean smelling like some good soap 🙂

Sweet smelling cologne that is soft and light

AXE in all scents but mostly dark temptation

Or just sweet with a hint of mint

3. heels/earrings

Heels look good on shabbos or special occasions but for every day they just make the girl look like she is trying too hard

Earrings rock DEAL WITH IT

4. Wanta pet peeve TOO MUCH BLOODY MAKE UP

It makes girls look like they are covering their face with glop

A nice small amount of blush mascara and Concealer does wonders

5. Bad breath/great guy if it is a rare occasion what of it

If it is like that on a consistent basis, well…

6. brony : lovely girl rating method

I didn’t see personality anywhere on it pray tell would you date a girl who looked like a model but had like the meanest stupidest weirdest personality

AND

Uggs can look cool if you pair them up with the right clothing

p.s dont give up the thread : its way cool

and guys what are your thoughts on justin bieber,

to me he seems just stupid

+1

hmm the mysteries of the universe shall not be revealed

It’s a matter of preference for guys just as it is for girls. I know many guys who prefer curly hair.