mdd: Please. You made several accusations of sinas chinum. Very briefly and clearly, what is the “hate” you’re writing about, and where has it been seen in this thread.
That line about “frummer” does smell of motzie shem ra!
Truth be told, when people can not deal with others because of insignificant, stupid details, you can not have achdus in Klal Yisroel, rather you risk pirud and sinas chinom.
mdd: How do you come around demanding others ignore cultural differences for consideration in potential marriage, when you’ve previously indicated your own sinas chinam that you wouldn’t date (and even dislike!) Chasidim?