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September 9, 2016 12:49 am at 12:49 am #618350HappygirlygirlMember
Hey all my sister’s and brothers.in case you were wondering I’m still alive (although you probably weren’t wondering but that’s beside the point) I’ve been having a very busy week bh. Any of u mind if I vent? I had a stressful week and i just found out a super sad piece of information about a sibling of mine and i can’t stop crying.I’m not asking for attention I just need an anonymous and friendly place to share my thoughtz….anyone cares?
September 9, 2016 12:58 am at 12:58 am #1179808Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantHGG – I care. I hope everything gets better IYH soon!
September 9, 2016 12:58 am at 12:58 am #1179809Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantHGG – I’m sure you have your mind on other things right now, but when you feel in the mood, I just wanted you to know that I posted an important comment on your makeup thread.
September 9, 2016 1:05 am at 1:05 am #1179811SparklyMemberHappygirlygirl – more than happy to help.
September 9, 2016 3:42 am at 3:42 am #1179812kapustaParticipantThis anonymous person cares. I’m sorry about whatever happened and I hope whatever it is, it’s resolved quickly and easily.
You are welcome to vent or share whatever you like here (as much as you are comfortable sharing). There is also a poetry thread hanging around somewhere, if you’re the poetry type.
I hope next week is easier.
September 9, 2016 3:51 am at 3:51 am #1179813HappygirlygirlMemberThanks people it really means alot to me btw did u notice that only gurls replied…..sensitive creatures I love my fellow sisters…
I wish I could go into real details but im scared…..how can i stop crying I wanna go to sleep
September 9, 2016 3:56 am at 3:56 am #1179814Little FroggieParticipantI care. I’m not sure I can help you, or you’d want MY assistance, but I do care. Sincerely.
September 9, 2016 3:59 am at 3:59 am #1179815kapustaParticipantFind something to distract yourself with? Even if it feels wrong.
September 9, 2016 4:17 am at 4:17 am #1179817SparklyMemberHappygirlygirl – your a fellow jew so i WANT to help. today i saw a lady who had an accident right before i went onto the the highway and i wanted to stop and help another fellow jew.
September 9, 2016 4:26 pm at 4:26 pm #11798182scentsParticipantBeing sad is OK, just do not keep inside yourself, find people that are willing to listen to you, not sure the advice was given above that you should distract yourself is a good thing, maybe in the long run but running away from the fact will hurt more in the long run.
Deal with the unfortunate situation, and I hope that you believe that Hashem has had this all planned out and in the bigger picture this is for your and your siblings good.
September 9, 2016 5:00 pm at 5:00 pm #1179819kapustaParticipantI meant temporarily, because I understood that she wanted to relax and get some sleep. You’re correct, I should have made that clear. That said.I would still recommend an outlet of some kind in addition to dealing with the emotions in a healthy way, but it depends on the person.
September 13, 2016 7:20 pm at 7:20 pm #1179820SparklyMemberwhat happened to happygirlygirl?
September 14, 2016 12:36 am at 12:36 am #1179821kapustaParticipantI was wondering that myself. Hope everything is ok, HGG.
September 14, 2016 12:58 am at 12:58 am #1179822SparklyMemberme too my heads killing and im still writing on the ywn after all these HARD classes that im suffering through.
September 14, 2016 4:21 am at 4:21 am #1179823Mashiach AgentMembersparkly
suffering is when someone is forced to work hard labor with no pay or many other examples including when someone is very sick
your in college now for your good & benefit to with Hashems help become a pharmacist. if you keep this in mind then all the school work & homework etc… will not be a pain for you as long as it takes. you chose this for yourself which hopefully means you enjoy being a pharmacist
AND THATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SCHOOL & COLLEGE. you had to go to school by law no matter what so all work & homework with tests etc… were a pain although it was for your good & education. College a person chooses by themselves, so that means the person takes the responsibilty of all work that comes with college
if you keep this in mind then all your college work will not be so hard cause you will always know its for your future livlihood
be Matzliach
September 15, 2016 1:23 am at 1:23 am #1179824SparklyMemberMashiach Agent – very true but i did say numerous times that i rather be a teacher and not go to college.
September 15, 2016 5:59 am at 5:59 am #1179825Mashiach AgentMemberso why then don’t you immediately become a teacher? there are so many hundreds of schools in the east coast with open teaching positions
September 15, 2016 12:10 pm at 12:10 pm #1179826SparklyMemberMashiach Agent – because i NEED a degree. i NEED knowledge.
September 15, 2016 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm #1179827MenoParticipantDo teachers not go to college? Do teachers not have degrees? Do teachers not have knowledge?
September 15, 2016 12:52 pm at 12:52 pm #1179828Mashiach AgentMemberA pharmacist is a great choice of degree and livlihood May Hashem always be there for you in your time of need and answer all your tefillos when you call out to him.
So if you feel you NEED it then you should have no problem coping with all the college work knowing it’s for your good and future benefit
September 15, 2016 1:05 pm at 1:05 pm #1179829SparklyMemberMeno – not as much as pharmacists who study 24/7 and have over 7 years of science knowledge.
September 15, 2016 1:16 pm at 1:16 pm #1179830MenoParticipantSo you would rather be a teacher, but instead you’re studying 24/7 for 7 years just because you “need” a degree and you “need” knowledge?
Sounds like a waste of time to me
September 15, 2016 1:32 pm at 1:32 pm #1179831SparklyMembermeno – are you really an engineer? because as an engineer you should know why.
September 15, 2016 2:59 pm at 2:59 pm #1179832MenoParticipantI’m really an engineer. Yet I still don’t understand why you NEED a degree and NEED knowledge.
I worked very hard in school, but I did it because I WANTED to become an engineer and that was pretty much the only way to do it, not because I NEEDED the degree or the knowledge. If I didn’t want to be an engineer, I wouldn’t have put myself through all the trouble.
You seem to answer a lot of “why” questions with “you should know why”. If I knew why, why would I ask?
September 15, 2016 3:33 pm at 3:33 pm #1179833SparklyMemberwhy did the mods change my subtitle to a bunch of random peoples usernames?
Why don’t you look in the mirror and ask all those random people?
September 15, 2016 3:40 pm at 3:40 pm #1179834SparklyMemberMeno – because becoming an engineer is NOT easy.
September 15, 2016 3:42 pm at 3:42 pm #1179835SparklyMembereven if i were those people which im not why would you post it trying to make people see every little thing about my life cut into pieces of different parts of my live and being able to figure out who i am. isnt that against the rules?
If you weren’t those people as you say, that wouldn’t be a concern.
September 15, 2016 4:26 pm at 4:26 pm #1179836YW Moderator-29 👨💻ModeratorIf you picked different names so that people would not have all the pieces then please say so and these names can be deleted.
September 15, 2016 4:32 pm at 4:32 pm #1179837MenoParticipant“because becoming an engineer is NOT easy”
I know that, but what does that have to do with what I said?
September 16, 2016 3:49 am at 3:49 am #1179838HappygirlygirlMemberOmg…..wait no this can’t be……lilmod ulilameid is sparkly?!?!?! My heart’s is palpitating
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