OK, brand new segula, this is guaranteed to do something.
40 days straight of not harassing anybody on YWN. I’m in. we’ll start when we get 40 members, if somebody botches up in the middle, no problem s/he can just post “I’m sorry” (without any excuses).
Women “yent”, men “hock”. Hocking can be harassment if taken the wrong way. It’s the way of the gemara- maskif, masiv, mima nafshach, aderabba, tiyuvta, etc