Can anyone recommend a קיצור שולחן ערוך style ספר for ביו אדם לחברו, preferably by a בעל הוראה, but more importantly well sourced, with informative bibliography and footnotes.
AviradArah and ymribiat, both Journeys to virtue and The laws of interpersonal relationships are the same book. The author is a talmid chacham that I know personally who lives at the moment in Bnei Brak. He should have a Refuah Sheleimah besoich shor choileh Yisroel Mehayra. Awrohom Yosef ben Chana.
It says ואהבת לרעך כמוך, love your friend like yourself and it does not say ואהבת רעך כמוך which is impossible. The Sefer Habris explains the meaning is not that if you don’t like something then don’t do it to your friend as he might like it. Do good to your friend to be done good to you. What you expect your friend should do to you, do to him. The Baal hatanye says כמוך, he has a neshama, soul just as you do.
Bein adam l’havero is hard to summarize in a sefer that survives a lot of time as society changes and people are different. I would look for a narrow specialist in each area. Chofetz Chaim for lashon hara, R Twersky for self-esteem and addiction issues, R Pliskin for marriage, etc.