I think, actually, that sensitive boys have a harder time in shidduchim. Sensitive, respectful, modest, good listener etc. is what most girls claim to be looking for…but when faced with one of these guys in person, they ultimately aren’t interested in him, because he isn’t “glamorous” enough. I do know many girls who don’t have this problem, just saying I also know many girls who do, and I know how frustrating it can be for the guys.
