Feif – I have to tell you I know how you feel and I also can’t stand those discussions even IF there is halachik justification. But sometimes it is my defensiveness speaking because of my background and my assumption of theirs. I would hate to see you leave so upset, and the only advice I can give you is not new:
1. Stop opening threads that upset you.
2. I think there are other factions being attacked but it doesn’t stand out as much.
3.(nobody is gonna like this)When the MO community makes halachically inappropriate decisions as an organization, it may be halachically permissible to say so, but most of the things the chareidi community is doing are unethical behaviors on a personal level and then it’s l”h.
I would love to know how you feel about ketchup and CBT if you care to share.