with everything damoshe said in mind, its still possible that there are people that are just to extreme and people not listening to basic halachis. A way to avoid saying “people are overfrum” due to feelings of inferiority is by understanding that some things youre just not holding by and wud in fact be doing more harm than good at this moment. Extra credit in yiddishkeit is really only if your holding there, otherewise it might not even count.
