This is just a puzzled question about moderators, not a “what i would do if…” Seeing as how i have never been formally or informally welcomed here, not sure I’m permitted to even think of being an actual Mod. Anyway, here’s the Q:
I noticed we’re in the middle of posts on a thread about giving a wife the “sotah warning”. Ok. Everyone has different interests, different questions, who am i to criticize? But a day or two ago somebody posted a question regarding repairing a marriage after infidelity on the part of the other spouse. I didn’t post a reply right away; I’m not a therapist, and being married does not make me an expert on marriage, especially in areas where I lack experience. I did find it admirable that the opening poster was trying to repair an obviously problematic marriage, instead of, as has become so popular, disposing of the whole mess without even trying. By the time I got around to saying something to that effect, the thread was gone, closed, deleted, disappeared.
So that’s the Q – What makes one of the above posts interesting and worthy of comment, and the other unfavorable?
I await A.