smartcookie, it might be cute to you because it wasn’t aimed at you. I am sick and tired of her attacks and “cute remarks” as well as those coming from “helpful”. It is wrong, hurtful and annoying. I am two months into aveilus for my mother. I am in a lot of emotional pain right now and all these comments really hurt to the core. They are untrue and if you knew how much they hurt you wouldn’t think they were cute!
Each time I write something to ask them to prove it and try to explain what I said, the moderators choose not to post it and that hurts as well. I am almost ready to walk away from this forum. But I do find some comfort here from some of the posters and I do find that I have been helpful and useful here to some of the posters. So I am not sure what to do.