Maybe some of you (girls) can explain what type of bachur you are looking for, so that we can start working on ourselves a few years before getting “on the market”.
I’m looking for a bachur who cares about learning more than he cares about working, but will work instead of learning.
One who cares about his family more than he cares about making money, but is making money.
One who stays up late learning, but never comes late to shachris.
One who likes to have fun, but has never had fun–only learned.
One who never drinks, smokes, watches movies, reads goyish books, but is worldly.
One who will make a good parnassa in exactly 4 years, but has never gone to college.
One who will just learn in kollel for several years, but will not insist that my parents support us or that I work.
One who will only appreciate me for what is inside, but will also think I am beautiful outside.
One who will stay home to help with the kids at night and in the morning, and will have a regular seder with a chavrusah.
Can anyone help me find this guy?