@zyzz, do you mean bodybuilder like Arnold Schwarzenegger or an ambercrombie model? 2 very different builds. personally, I want s/o who can wear flat-front pants but is not shaped like a stick/pencil, ie someone well built. some girls don’t care about the fitness level; I do. I want s/o who can play a game of ball and works out. I respect my guf, I want a husband who does as well.
That being said, yes it would bother me to hear a guy wants to/will compete in a bodybuilding competition. if it was in the past and is no longer a focus/priority in his life it is another story.